A good heart and a bad mouth, wealth and prosperity are lost (Liao).
The literal meaning of this sentence is easy to understand. This means that even if a person's heart is good and his mouth is bad, what he says hurts people, which is often called "knife mouth and tofu heart", then this person's good luck will be lost (wealth can be understood as good luck here).
Although this sentence is straightforward, it brings us profound enlightenment. Revelation 1: A kind heart cannot be an excuse for a bad mouth.
In real life, many people have such a thinking that kindness determines everything. As long as I am out of kindness, no matter what I do, even how I do it, you must accept it and remember my kindness.
So many times, many people will use a goodwill as an excuse to make cynicism and bad words hurt people. This sentence tells us that even if there is goodwill, it will not work, let alone "spray" it in the name of goodwill.
Revelation 2: The expression effect from the other side is excellent. Why do you say that? Let's look at this sentence again: "Good heart and bad mouth, all the prosperity and wealth are lost." Practically speaking, in reality, there are only a few people who can really look down on prosperity. Don't people work hard from morning till night just to live a good life?
Well, I'm telling you, if you don't pay attention to other people's feelings and your own words, even if your heart is not bad, your mean words will backfire on you and damage your good luck. -That's great.
It goes without saying that a knife hurts. What's more, the knife cut itself first. Words come from the mouth, but from the heart. The mouth of the knife is actually spit in the heart. When you get used to it, your mind will be narrow and sharp, and it will become a bad character, which will affect your life, work and life. -Yu Lao
Mr @YZS, knife mouth, in other words, I understand that my mouth is not good enough. Self-cultivation. As the old saying goes, a person with a lot of happiness is certainly not narrow-minded. Contact the book willpower I heard yesterday: a small habit of keeping your back straight can radiate great energy and make yourself better in other aspects. Self-cultivation and caring are actually the same, which is the cultivation of a person's comprehensive quality. Extending to our school education, behind the double reduction, our teachers should think more about how to cultivate more comprehensive people. -Indifference to inner peace