1. The way to be happy is as follows: Make your interests as broad as possible, and do not react hostilely to people and things that interest you, but react kindly.

3. It is impossible to tell the exact moment when friendship was formed. Just like water dripping into a container, the last drop makes the container overflow; the same is true with many friendly words and deeds, it is the last drop that makes people's hearts connect and friendship grows. ——Boswell

4. In the past life, friendship was like a bright light that illuminated my soul and gave my life a little brilliance. Ba Jin

5. There are three friends who benefit, and three friends who lose. Friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable are beneficial. If you have friends, you will be brave. If you are friendly, you will be gentle. If you have friends, you will be sycophantic, which is a loss. ——"The Analects of Confucius"

6. Sometimes you are paranoid about your own opinions. Bystanders know clearly, and the authorities are confused. Friends give good advice, point out the pros and cons of things, and reveal the flaws of character, in the hope that everyone can make progress together. . Although you are well-intentioned, people are generally thin-skinned. Please do not give guidance in public. Please use techniques such as praise first and comment later, and use a sincere and gentle attitude. Otherwise, the good advice will be off-putting and have the opposite effect, damaging the relationship between both parties.

7. Please keep a piece of simplicity, so that you can be more friendly with others and less cold and numb in your soul; please keep a piece of simplicity, so that you can have more happiness in life and less spirit. You are aging and tired; please retain your innocence, so that you will have more strength to forge ahead and be less pretentious about seeing through the world of mortals.

8. Three friends are beneficial: friends who are straightforward, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable. Friends are secluded, friendly and gentle, friends are concubines, which is a loss.

9. Everyone has stains on their conscience, but most people don’t care about this embellishment on their souls, just like wearing a starched shirt. ——Gorky

10. Friendship is reliable in other things, but cannot be trusted in love; so lovers use their own lips and tongue. Whoever is alive, let him convey his feelings himself, and never ask others to do it for him; because beauty is a witch, and under her magic, loyalty will dissolve in passion. ——Shakespeare

11. I once read a sentence: What others think of me depends on my own strength, but the real strength I understand is: low-key and humble, peaceful and pragmatic, sincere and friendly, towards others It is an outstanding character to be able to take ridicule and discrimination calmly, and rely on one's own abilities to achieve a career without being ostentatious. Because, after all, your efforts are not for others, and others' evaluation may not be your true self.

12. It is unwise to make a big deal out of someone who has been slandered. Unless there is some great benefit to be gained by publicizing it, slander rarely withstands the wear and tear of silence. ——"The Autobiography of Mark Twain"

13. Requests can get better results than orders. Those who are good at giving orders will be able to obey them and execute them. Willingness to cooperate leads to support, while forced obedience leads to failure. Tell your boss what you want and see if he or she is willing to help you remove obstacles. Friendly cooperation is more popular than incitement. Collaboration must start with department leaders, as does efficiency. Working in collusion is definitely not cooperation. No one can hurt you unless you are willing to be hurt by others.

14. Sincere concern makes people feel as happy as a bird in the morning greeting the rising sun in spring. ——Gorky of the Soviet Union

15. If you are friendly to others, consider others, and always appear happy.

16. The sun takes off your coat faster than the wind; a kind and friendly approach is easier to change the minds of others than any violence.

17. Choosing a friend is choosing a way of life. Cultivating one's own moral character is a prerequisite for making good friends, which is equivalent to opening up the friendliest world to oneself. Can make your life glorious. A true friend is one who never feels awkward even if they don't say a word.

18. If you lack sincerity in doing things, or are reluctant to take action, then even if you have great ability, you will not achieve much. ——Dickens

19. Honesty, like all our sentiments, should be divided into two categories: negative and positive. Negative honesty is honesty when there is no chance of getting rich. Positive honesty is being tempted every day without being tempted. ——Balzac

20. Humor brings understanding and tolerance, while cynicism brings profound and unfriendly understanding.

——Agnis Replier

21. Forget your failures, but don’t forget the victories you won; forget your misfortunes, but don’t forget your fortune security label; forget you lonely days, but don’t forget the friendly smile you got; forget the plans you didn’t implement smoothly, but don’t give up on your dreams.

22. Homemade friendships last longer than purchased friendships. ——Reagan

23. It is difficult to transform others, and it is especially difficult to transform yourself. You have to learn to suppress and restrain yourself, but it is still easier than transforming others. After you transform yourself, you suddenly find that he has also changed. : Why is he suddenly friendly to you?

24. Wine is a colorless liquid flame that quickly and accurately burns out all the human things in the human heart. ——Gorky

25. A kind heart is a garden, lofty thoughts are rhizomes, friendly words are flowers, and good behaviors are fruits.

26. Books need nests, spiders need webs, and people need friendship. ——British Blake

27. I never care what others think of me, as long as I have a clear conscience. Some people think that no matter what I do, they think it's all my fault. In fact, I just want you to look at me kindly.

28. When the hot sun hits your back, summer is here. We go into the forest to listen to the singing of birds, and chase and play with friendly animals: we go to the beach to listen to the call of the sea, put on diving suits to explore the secrets of the deep sea: in the dead of night, looking at the stars, the full The stars in the sky are like pearls inlaid in the sky, shining brightly and infinitely magnificent.

29. When a person is a real person, he should maintain an equal distance between brazenness and pretentiousness. Neither boastful nor pretentious. ——Hugo "Les Miserables"