The second sentence: Life is only three days, the confused people live in yesterday, the extravagant people live in tomorrow and only the sober people live in today. Yesterday passed. It's an overdue check. It hasn't arrived tomorrow. It is an irrevocable check, and it is the most realistic to live today.
The third sentence: don't haggle over every ounce in life and make yourself angry. As the saying goes, "you are born to be a hundred years old and always worry about your chitose." Pepsi starts from the heart and smiles to solve thousands of worries. " If we think that we are all passers-by who come and go in a hurry and just walk around the world, what trivial things are worth caring about?
The fourth sentence: it is not difficult to live simply, just know how to live for yourself, live for beauty and do for happiness. The less demand, the more freedom; The less extravagant, the more comfortable.
The fifth sentence: more happiness, less sadness; More truth, less hypocrisy; More leisure, less fuss. These four more and four less are very important. With them, you can live a happy life. You can arrange your own life independently and treat yourself well, then your heart will be rich.
The sixth sentence: less gas and more leisure, busy body and idle mind. It is not easy to truly achieve these eight words. The key is a word "leisure". Old people must have leisure in their later years. Of course, it is good to do some housework. If you do nothing, it's boring, but don't be busy.
Seventh sentence: change your attitude to adapt to different situations, feel relaxed, don't suppress and embarrass yourself. When people reach a certain age, they see through everything. Anyway, don't embarrass yourself, be kind to yourself.
Eighth sentence: Life is a game, others chase houses and castles. You just need to have some fun, sit on the stone bench in the greenhouse, sing a song and have a cup of tea. As long as the house is comfortable and convenient, why do you have to go upstairs and downstairs? Isn't it nice to have a song, a cup of tea, flowers, fish and enjoy the beauty of nature?
Ninth sentence: Because life is simple, there are more opportunities to listen to Songtao, watch the wind and rain, look up at the stars, open your heart, and you will be full of spirituality. Don't miss the opportunity to appreciate and enjoy nature. Life is not easy, you must enjoy life.
The tenth sentence: Only with a simple mentality can you have the heart to manage your life; If life is simple, you will have time to enjoy it. We should learn to manage our life, not just muddling along every day, but enjoying every day, which requires managing our life well. There are too many joys and sorrows in the world, too many troubles and pains. Only in this way can we live simply and happily.
First, don't belittle yourself by comparing yourself with others.
Everyone has his own characteristics, and everyone is a unique miracle. You don't have to compare your own advantages with others' shortcomings, and you don't have to sigh that something is always inferior to others, because no one can claim to be perfect. The biggest flaw in life is to compare yourself with others. Compared with the superior, let us feel inferior; Compared with the laity, it makes us dirty; Compared with mediocrity, it makes us arrogant. Foreign comparison is the source of our anxiety, and it also makes most people lose themselves and blocks the original fragrance in their hearts.
Second, don't take what others think is important as your goal in life.
There is a kind of person in life who cares about what others think of him and acts completely according to others' evaluation. When others say yes, he will do it according to others' ideas and meanings; If others say it badly, he will regret, panic, blame himself, be depressed and give up. He is always worried, afraid, worried and miserable about other people's opinions, often disguising himself, catering to others and not knowing who he is. Ibsen, a great Norwegian playwright, famously said, "What is a man's first duty? The answer is simple: be yourself. " Yes, you must be yourself first. We should recognize ourselves, grasp our destiny and realize our life value. Only in this way can we really be regarded as our own masters.
Third, don't turn a blind eye to the most familiar things.
What are the things we are most familiar with? Maybe it's those things that you tend to ignore-family, friends, love, time, work, health, reputation. . . . . All this will make you who you are now. Without all this, you are just a loner, unable to move. If you ignore what is closest to you, it is equivalent to pushing wealth away from you. Only by making good use of all the resources around us can we have a smooth life and career and go up a storey still higher.
Fourth, don't dwell on the past or the future and let life slip through your fingers.
People who are down-to-earth and know how to make full use of the present will never have too many illusions about the unknown life in the future, nor will they regret the failure or glory of the past. They know that only by cherishing today's life will life not become empty and boring. Don't trample on the roses under your feet today because of tomorrow's mirage, and let the opportunity to make achievements slip away quietly.
Don't give up when you can still pay.
Nothing is really over until you decide to give up trying. If you have 99% desire for success, but 1% want to give up, then you can only miss success. Napoleon. Hill said that if you give up control, you can't achieve anything. Giving up speaking out of turn is a dungeon of the will, allowing the will to run in and hide in an attempt to live in seclusion. Only by breaking the forbidden zone of thinking and being brave in breakthrough and development can we bring fruitful and smiling Zhan Yan moments.
6. Don't be afraid to admit that you are not perfect.
The world is not perfect, and life should be inadequate. Leave some regrets, but it can make people awake and inspire people to forge ahead. There is a saying that grandma without wrinkles is the most terrible, and the past without regrets cannot continue to link life. For everyone, imperfection exists objectively, and there is no need to complain. While enviing others, we might as well think about how to get out of the misunderstanding. Or kindness and beautification; Or enrich with knowledge; Or develop a skill. . . . . . The value of life lies in being able to "accept yourself" calmly after seeing your own shortcomings.
Don't be afraid of adventure or danger.
The movement of life is essentially an adventure. If you don't take the initiative to meet the challenge of risk, you are passively waiting for the arrival of risk. A limited degree of adventure will bring two results: success or failure. If successful, you can be promoted to a new field, which is obviously a kind of growth; Even if you fail, you will soon know why you did something wrong and what you should avoid in the future. This is also a kind of growth. Not only that, the social environment that encourages risk-taking is also helpful to cultivate the spirit of being uneasy about the status quo and enterprising, and also helps to improve the individual's keen sense of timing changes. Only those who dare to take risks have a chance to achieve great success.
Eight, don't let yourself lose the moisture of love.
Between people is the garden of love, if you are lazy, it will be barren; If you sow and irrigate diligently, it will give you the fragrance of love. Without love, the sky in the world will become gloomy, the temperature of the air will drop to zero, and the mood of life will be unhappy. Lover's love is a charming flower. Humanity's fraternity is a magnificent garden palace.
Nine, don't lose your dreams easily.
Without dreams, there is no hope, and without hope, there is no meaning of life. Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is like a bird with broken wings, and it can never fly again. Hold fast to dreams, for once dreams die, life is like a barren land covered with snow and ice, and everything will cease to exist. Everyone has a dream, but some people's dreams can be realized, and some people's dreams are always just dreams. There are factors of ability and environmental conditions here, but there is another reason that is easily overlooked, that is, some people's dreams are strong, while others' dreams are fragile. The strength of dreams often determines a person's strength.
10. Don't let life pass by in a hurry.
Life is not a race, but a journey, and every step has a scenery worth stopping to enjoy. Huang Tingjian, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "Life has no leisure. How many times have you taken time off from your busy schedule? " This tells people that life is busy and we should learn to steal time from it. Being busy and having a holiday is in line with Zhang Chi's way and natural laws. Nature has the rule of being busy and idle, spring and summer are full of vitality, everything grows and butterflies fly everywhere; Autumn and winter slowly converge, and everything is silent and dormant. People are also a part of nature, so most excellent people know how to relax and find the joy of life in leisure.