Look at my grades at school and enter the society to see fame and fortune. I have been measured by a unified standard since I was a child, and I still continue to look at the society and myself with a unified thinking. Unsuccessful, I always copy to make myself successful by learning from successful people and copying other people's successful experiences. Then I find that experience can't be copied, and all I can do is to be my best.

successful attitude-empathy

as I treat others, others treat me.

If you want to make sincere friends, you should treat your friends sincerely first, and then you will find that your friends will begin to treat you sincerely. If you want to be happy, try to bring happiness to others first, and you will find that you will be happier and happier soon.

There are exceptions to everything, so you don't have to care about everything. One form of giving will always be rewarded in another form:)

In the eyes of others, you are who you really are.

In the real society, everyone lives in other people's eyes, and everyone will leave clear or fuzzy images in other people's eyes. The sum of these images represents the society's judgment on your personal behavior and ability-whether you recognize such judgments yourself or not, they will affect your work and life.

or only you know yourself best in the world, but what others think of you is your real self. Why you do this or only you know it best, but the effect of doing this is only clear to others, and whether you have achieved your goal needs to be judged by others' eyes. When others' eyes are too different from their own, there will be a crisis of inconsistency between words and deeds, and they will not be trusted by others. Therefore, we must communicate with others more at ordinary times and immediately correct the deviation between ourselves and ourselves in the eyes of others.

Empathy is the foundation of interpersonal communication and the cornerstone of personal development and success.

successful attitude-introspection

what people should do is to avoid mistakes, instead of trying to cover them up after they happen.

Good enough is not enough

Even great just is't good enough

Successful attitude-courage

Four most important courage:

Not afraid of failure, dare to try. Admit your mistakes and learn from your failures. Stay away from fear and challenge difficulties. Have the courage to give up what you have gained.

There are five manifestations of being open-minded:

Being pragmatic-accepting people and things that cannot be changed and living for yourself instead of complaining.

Forgiveness-Being good at discovering others' shortcomings and tolerating others, the prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach.

self-discipline-know how to control your emotions, and don't be influenced by emotions to make excessive or wrong behaviors.

respect-allow others to express or reserve different opinions, "I don't agree with you, but I support you".

self-restraint-don't be surprised by honor or disgrace, ignore the gains and losses, and don't be confused by the interests of one place at a time or the desire of one person.

to live for yourself is to work hard for your own happiness, interests and life goals, and not to live in other people's values; Be good at discovering your own interests and specialties, constantly surpass yourself and pursue success on your own road; When you can't do well enough because of your own ability (not attitude), you can accept it calmly and adjust it in time.

There is also a passage in The Reader

You can't decide the length of life, but you can expand its width; You can't change your natural appearance, but you can always smile; You can't expect to control others, but you can master yourself; You can't completely predict tomorrow, but you can make full use of today; You can't ask everything to go well, but you can do everything with all your heart.