1. The reason why some people have communication difficulties in real life is because they do not understand and forget an important principle: making others feel important. Dale Carnegie

Famous aphorisms about communication

2. If you are right, try to get the other person to agree with you gently and skillfully; if you are wrong, try Admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and fun than arguing for yourself. Carnegie (USA)

3. Find yourself and stay true to yourself. Dale Carnegie

4. Everyone needs someone to talk openly and honestly with. Although a man can be very heroic, he can also be very lonely. Hemingway

5. Effective communication depends on the communicator’s full grasp of the topic, not the sweetness of his words. Grove

6. Conversation, like composition, has a theme, a draft, a hierarchy, a beginning and a tail, and must not be incoherent. Liang Shiqiu

7. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. Dale Carnegie

8. One must know what to say, one must know when to say it, one must know to whom to say it, one must know how to say it. Drucker, the father of modern management

9. Managers who are good at communication may also be good at hiding real problems. Collis Aglis (Professor of Harvard University)

10. Using words appropriately is extremely powerful. Whenever we use the right words, our spirit and body will undergo great changes. Between lightning and stone. Mark Twain

11. If you want others to like you, if you want others to be interested in you, one thing you should pay attention to is: talk about things that interest others. Dale Carnegie

12. One must know what to say, one must know when to say it, one must know to whom to say it, one must know how to say it. Drucker

13. Many secrets hidden in the heart are revealed through the eyes, not through the mouth. Emerson

14. Integrating your enthusiasm and experience into the conversation is a quick and easy way to impress people, and it is also an inevitable requirement. How can you expect others to be moved if you are not interested in what you say. Dale Carnegie

15. A conversation with someone is often more enlightening than years of working behind closed doors. Thoughts must be generated in interactions with others and processed and expressed in solitude. Leo Tolstoy

16. The most ideal friends are people who admire each other in temperament, communicate with each other spiritually, are in tune with each other in worldview, and have the same goal in career. Zhou Hanhui

17. When I talk to a group of people or the mass media, I always imagine that I am having a heart-to-heart conversation with "one person." Barber

18. In conversation, judgment is more important than eloquence. Gracian

19. Listening to any opinion or discussion of the other party is respect, because it shows that we think the other party is insightful, eloquent, and smart. On the contrary, dozing off, walking away, or talking nonsense is contempt. Hobbes (English)

20. If you want to be a good conversationalist, be a good listener first. Dale Carnegie

21. Excusing a mistake often makes the mistake appear particularly significant, just like using a piece of cloth to patch a small hole makes it appear more obvious. Shakespeare

22. A heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the soul. Winkavelin

23. The so-called "early hearing" means "listening". Emerson

24. An argument may be a shortcut between two hearts. Hajibran

25. Eyes are commonly used by women to supplement their opinions on a man.

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