Literally, this sentence is easy to understand. There is a saying in the countryside that a daughter-in-law cannot marry someone with a brother in the family, and a girl cannot marry someone with a brother in the family. China people pay attention to human feelings and family ethics. The culture of "home" and "harmony" is deeply rooted in people's hearts. Compared with foreigners, the first reaction of foreigners to know that their children are in love is to ask each other's information, not family information. China's parents' first reaction to their children's love is to ask each other about their family, such as family members, whether their parents are still alive and whether they have any brothers and sisters.
? After asking these general questions, the satisfaction of the object is basically in the hearts of parents. Foreigners live alone, while China people live in large numbers. This is not to say that these performances of the China family are neither open nor closed. It can only be said that different countries have different cultures. Let's take a look at the first half of this sentence: "Marry a wife without a brother", which is essentially related to China's concept that men are superior to women since ancient times. It is the ancient system in China that men are superior to women, which leads to the inferiority of men in many families. In the eyes of these families, daughters are like "splashing water". Finally, she belongs to someone else's house.
Third, family relations are more complicated. There are many contradictions between sisters-in-law, which are intertwined with life. Being unhappy at work makes people feel that life is a mess, so some people say that "married people don't marry brothers." But now people's living standards are getting better and better, and the concept that men are superior to women has gradually faded out of the family. People are more pursuing freedom and open-mindedness. What we should always remember is to try to remember the virtues of the Chinese nation, respect our parents, respect, love and grow up.