Since when even hugging has become a luxury, it turns out that everything is called the past, but the memory of empathy is accompanied by breathing. What you don't know is that I like you as always, and I don't like to get used to bringing up old things, but I still forget them, or one day, existing habits will be hard to change. I don't like to choose a city to die, and I don't want company. It's a long confession. This is not a happy ending. Just a topic to talk about at the right time. Forgive my past, but now, I mention you again. ...
Take your life to travel, but how many people can't complete their extravagant dreams all their lives. It turns out that only those who choose betrayal can go their own way.
Buying expensive things is neither luxury nor vanity. It's just that you start to believe that you deserve expensive things. Not only do you see life as cheap, but your life begins to have a higher goal.
Since when have memories and feelings become luxuries?
# To myself, buried in my heart # 2
#10 #-Lu-sleepy people put on headphones, turn the volume up to the maximum, and isolate themselves from the outside world. You doze off at your desk, and everything around you has nothing to do with you, and no one will ask you what's wrong. In their eyes, you are just tired and sleeping. That's how you've always avoided staying up late. You are afraid of ghosts, but you always like the night. You always sit in bed at three in the morning and look out of the window. A beautiful night that can't wait will become a habit of staying up all night. Slowly, you are just waiting for the dawn. Indulging in staying up late, even dreaming has become a luxury procrastination. No matter what you do, you procrastinate again and again until you have no choice, but you know in your heart that it is because these things are not important. If it is important, it will be completed in the first time. Procrastination made me realize who is important-Lu. Even if I meet you in my dream, it's just an extravagant hope.
The feeling in the dream is so real, but I still wake up speechless, from you and me to us.
In a blink of an eye, I came back to you, always feeling that happiness is so short and painful, but it will take a long time to repay you and me. I don't want to count how long we can be crowned like you and me in those short days. I don't have to think about it, but I can guess that the word happiness has been extravagant all my life. Now I find that we are more extravagant and can't be far from what we should be happy. Suddenly I feel that life is not as good as the so-called life. No, because it has nothing to do with you, but I still try to raise my smile, not for you, but for myself in the future. I don't want to have too many memories of my happiness. Sadness has been named the past by time. Now we are where you and I should go next. There will be no more breath of you in the unknown air. Many times, I am a person who works for three minutes, but I just love you for that long. This is the most extravagant thing I have ever done. You look at me and smile, I have no strength to love others. Although you have not taken a step closer to me, I am willing to take ninety-nine steps to you firmly. Maybe,
At a certain age, love is just a luxury.
Society will not sympathize with the weak, and life will not be excessive. Pursue when you need it. Don't just sit there and wait for others to give you luxury. If you miss something, you miss it.
In this world, it is doomed that those who know how to measure will lose the courage to ignore it.
Many times, people live in this world and can choose their fate, but more often, people live in this world and are chosen by fate. Fate is always a reincarnation, and the people we met will reappear in our lives one day, irresistible. People's thinking is never the stupidest, only the stupidest. There are always too many fantasies about love, even if this love, this man has given her a thorough injury. Even if you are so annoying, you can't help thinking, or one day, he will hug me again, even if it's just hooking up. People lie all their lives. In fact, those lies are not deceiving others, but deceiving themselves about love, which is too extravagant. We can afford racing cars and yachts, but we can't afford love, so everything becomes strange and luxurious.
Vulgar world
Working without pursuing love is a luxury burden, a cheap luxury, to entangle the mood of bread and wine.
I really just want to live simply, but the world is too complicated and people are too fickle. Instead, it has simply become a luxury; Just learn not to care.
Dear girl, I hope that in the future, I don't want luxury. I just want to open an umbrella alone and look like holding a rose.
I want to go to the bottom of the earth to see what the end of the world looks like. I want to travel all over the world and extend the trajectory of life in endless horizontal direction. Years have not eroded my bone marrow, and I can walk a few more times.
There is always a voice in my head saying that time flies. When you want to be stable, all factors leave you, and you can only die and swallow the bitter fruit you have buried. People always have to live in reality, dress, sleep, buy food and cook. Build a family and support your children. But my heart says, the ideal is far away, and you haven't lived the life you like yet. Luxurious, live as you like. This is the most precious gift I gave myself before I left my youth. It's not that I can't embrace peace, but that I don't like it-Miss Stephanie "It's not that I can't embrace peace, but that I don't like it" "Please don't insult me with the name anthomaniac!" Liu finally responded, "My feeling is that being withdrawn, plain, blunt and dark is the real luxury. It can only be targeted at a specific object, it needs many conditions to germinate, it is simple and focused, and it has firm and rigid attributes. It tries to make people benefit and be grateful. It is expensive because it is scarce. It has more transcendence than most peers with the same function. It can exist for a long time and glow. "
In this world, sometimes, for some people, reasoning is meaningless; Communication is also a very difficult and extravagant thing. -"Dear Freud"
In order to survive, dreams are extravagant.
Born to die in the same hole, we are a couple all our lives.
What a beautiful and extravagant wish-The West Chamber even became a luxury in the end.
Cherish those who are kind to you, and if you lose them, you can't get them back. The world is so big, it is your pride that someone is kind to you; It is your pride to have such a small heart and a heart that cares for you. There is always someone who takes you seriously and won't throw you away if you lose something. In this world, only money can afford real luxury goods.
Maybe you think it is a pity to miss, but at least meeting is a luxury.
Sometimes I feel that meeting may be the best thing in the world, and it is doomed to be the same as other good things and will never last long. When luck is used to satisfy, companionship becomes a luxury.
The feeling I yearn for is not how rich and luxurious the material is. I yearn for the feeling that two people support each other, make progress with each other, urge each other and do many things together. You can read each other's books in the same room, and when you are tired of reading them, two people know each other and smile, and both understand each other. We can listen to songs and paint oil paintings together, and we will make many gaffes and laugh at each other. Simple and warm plain life.
You are too extravagant for me.
You are too extravagant for me. What I have always wanted to pursue is a love.
You know me, I know you, but later I found out that love is such a luxury, but my requirements are too high. —— Autumn leaves rain, graduation guest book, don't expect too much.
According to statistics, the graduation guest book that students cherish very much seems to be retiring in the summer vacation, and it is silent in the corner of the bookshelf, and it will never get the scenery and attention of the past. If you open it at this time, what will you see?
A luxurious and exquisite gold book.
No matter what era, age and class, students will want to keep the most precious and beautiful memories among their classmates before graduation. From the exchange of photos decades ago to the printing of exquisite graduation guest books, they are all based on friendship and born for memories.
As a result, stationery stores are full of beautifully bound, heavy and luxurious graduation message books. These message books cost tens of yuan, and even the message books with photo album function cost more than 100 yuan. This kind of expensive graduation message book quickly became popular in primary and secondary schools, and the more complicated the process, the more popular it was with students.
It is understood that at the beginning of March every year, graduates begin to buy message books. If a student in the class buys a novel message book, many students will take the initiative to ask where to buy it, and then flock to buy the latest graduation message book after school. Some parents who bought a graduation message book for their children said: this is a message book for classmates and teachers, and it is more decent to use expensive ones. Moreover, the guest book is only used once after graduation, and it is worthwhile to spend more money.
The message is scribbled and the intimacy is clear.
Compared with the luxurious graduation message book, the messages written on it are often the same and deal with things.
There are at least forty students in a class, and there may be more than a dozen good friends in the same grade. Everyone will hold a guest book for you to fill out. If you are a classmate with extensive contacts, you may need to fill in nearly 100 graduation messages. Sometimes a dozen copies a day, even the greetings can only be exactly the same. This year, a junior high school student not only revealed his boredom in filling out graduation messages for his classmates, but also revealed the mystery of graduation message book: there are several different papers and colors in graduation message book. Many students leave the first few pages and the most auspicious page numbers of each kind to teachers, class cadres and close friends, which is what distinguishes them from ordinary students. If you use the whole guest book, you are always the first to find a classmate to write a message; The most popular is the loose-leaf message book, which is distributed to students page by page like homework.
I obviously feel the closeness of my classmates, and I still leave messages for my classmates on unimportant message pages. Such unfair treatment makes many graduates feel uncomfortable. Graduation messages written in such a mood will certainly become a mere formality, but even writers with outstanding writing style can hardly complete nearly 100 different messages in a short time.
Not only does leaving messages give students a headache, but today's graduation guestbook is becoming more and more detailed, which is evaluated by many students as: it is simply filling in files! It is meaningless to answer many questions, and even some questions should not be asked to underage students. But graduates still have to write their own page in the guest book in scrawled handwriting, just like completing the examination paper.
A sense of mission dilutes friendship. What can graduates do except give their special friends a good place in the guest book?
Comics are full of illegible handwriting.
A few years ago, if someone's message page was decorated with cartoons or the font was particularly beautiful, it was still an enviable artistic ability; Now, don't be surprised to see the beautiful cartoons or illustrations in the guest book, because they are probably not written by the students who left the message, but only part of the printed paper.
With the high price, it is the gorgeous degree of graduation message book: the quality of paper is self-evident, many colors have become a thing of the past, famous illustrators are printed in the background, and comic words can be seen everywhere. Some graduation guest books with dozens of pages don't even have duplicate pictures. Almost every page is printed with classic messages, and the corner embellishment in the form of comics makes the whole message book more like a hand-painted reader.
As a result of this kind of packaging, it is difficult to distinguish the real message from the printed blessing or ridicule, and all the words are submerged by layers of colors and pictures. I don't understand. How can they see clearly? A teacher who has been teaching in a middle school for more than 20 years said that the graduation guest book sent by students gave her a headache, and she didn't know where to start writing after considering it for a long time. This graduation message book is used because the students have not grown up yet, and the real blessing to be left behind can't be found, which is dazzling. When they grow up and read the guest book, they will feel naive and do a lot of meaningless things.
Unique way, novel and economical.
Xiaoming's college entrance examination has been over for more than a month, and he has been busy sorting out his unique graduation guest book recently.
I am nervous about reviewing before the third year of senior high school. Who has the heart to fill in those children's things? I built a classmate file for our class online and left everyone's information in cyberspace. In addition, I also linked an electronic graduation guest book document in my blog. After the college entrance examination, I often contact my classmates online and invite them to fill in their personal information and graduation messages. Everyone can fill it out once for all students to avoid duplication of work, and it can also be used as a way for students to strengthen contact in the future.
Xiao Ming said that the online alumni record is a small BBS, which can play an incomparable role in the graduation guest book. The earliest admission notice has been issued. I want to urge the students to update their personal information as soon as possible and make clear the whereabouts of each student. In his high school, many classes have their own alumni records. Even in cyberspace, students naturally regard it as a post that they often contact after graduation.
In fact, the graduation guest book is also to retain this memory. However, our BBS can make the friendship between students last, not limited by time and space. Xiao Ming does not deny that there are still popular graduation message books among his classmates, but he thinks that another way may be more in line with the trend of the times.
If it does not become a memorable memory, then even if the guest book is exquisite, it will not be of any benefit; If you really want to do something for your classmates, why not extend your friendship to the old age? Every student once had a graduation guest book. What did he write down and what did he miss?
Educational Motto _ Motto about Education
Educational motto _ motto about education _ 1. Human beings gain independence through hard work. Independence means being able to do something without the help of others. Once children gain independence, they can make rapid progress. Otherwise, its progress will be very slow. Understand these truths, we will understand how to treat and manage children effectively, and children's own behavior can lead them to the road of independence. (Montessori: absorption psychology, Montessori's scientific method of early childhood education, People's Education Press, 1993, p. 462)
2, an important thing for children to do alone, so when children are learning to watch and listen, and after a long time, let children do it alone. (Hall: Children's Psychological Development, quoted from The Origin and Development of Modern Education, Beijing Language and Culture Institute Press, 1992, p. 225)
3. When influencing children, try not to dampen their initiative; On the contrary, we should do everything possible to develop this initiative and consolidate the learning methods that children master spontaneously. (Crusca Ya: The 17th National Congress of the Communist Party of China and the Task of Preschool Education, Selected Works of Crusca Ya Education, Volume 2, People's Education Press, 1987, p. 300).
4. Positive encouragement is better than negative stimulation, but the method of encouragement should not be overused for fear of losing its effectiveness; Stimulation, if used properly, is also good, but only occasionally. (Chen Heqin: Family Education, Collected Works of Chen Heqin's Education, vol. 1, Beijing Publishing House, 1985, p. 6 13).
5. For the completion of adult life, it is a suicide policy regardless of children's abilities and needs. Respecting childhood means respecting the needs and opportunities for growth. (Dewey: Tomorrow School, Dewey's masterpiece of education, Education Science Press, 2006, pp. 105 ~ 106)
6. The criterion for judging interest is always whether children can grow up effectively. It is indulgence to practice an interest without helping growth. In order to be most conducive to growth, three conditions should be met: lasting interest; Environmental challenges that need to mobilize the best internal efforts; The ultimate success. (Ke Qubo: Principles of Teaching Methods, People's Education Press, 199 1 Edition, p. 136)
7. We should free children's space, let them get in touch with flowers, trees, green mountains, green water, the sun, the moon and stars in nature, and scholars, farmers, (com) workers and businessmen in the big society, freely ask questions about the universe, be friends with everything, and learn 360 lines at home and abroad. (Tao Xingzhi: Creative Children's Education, Selected Works of Tao Xingzhi's Education, Education Science Press, 198 1 Edition, p. 308)
8. Experience tells us that spoiled children die much more than other children. As long as we don't make them do things beyond their ability, the harm of using their physical strength is less than cherishing their physical strength. Therefore, exercise their physique so that they can endure cruel seasons, climate, wind and rain, thirst and fatigue (Rousseau: Emile, Commercial Press, 1978, pp. 23-24).
9. Some people are too strict, while others are too laissez-faire. These two situations should also be avoided. If children are left alone, their health and life will be in danger and they will suffer a lot in front of them; However, if you care too much and don't let them suffer at all, they will suffer more in the future. (Rousseau: Emile, Commercial Press, 1978, p. 85)
10, knowledge is as pleasant to the reader as light is to the eyes; Children like knowledge very much, especially when they know that their problems have been noticed by others, and their desire for knowledge has been encouraged and praised by others. (Locke: Random Talk on Education, Education Science Press, 1999, p. 102)
1 1. Like other creatures, children are good at activities that really belong to their nature. Therefore, we should act according to the laws of nature, eliminate excessive fatigue at school and make learning as free and enjoyable as possible. Erasmus: The Education of a Christian Prince, quoted from The Origin and Development of Modern Education, Beijing Language Institute Press, 1992, p. 45.
12, children can be respected. He often thinks about the state above the moon and stars, the underground situation, the use of flowers and the language of insects. He wants to fly to the sky, and he wants to dive into the ant nest, so books for children must be very hard and difficult to do. (Lu Xun: Reading pictures, quoted from Lu Xun's Educational Thought and Practice, People's Education Press, 200 1 Edition, page 4 15)
13, the world of children is completely different from that of adults; If you don't understand it first and do it blindly, it will seriously affect your child's development. (Lu Xun: how do we become fathers now, quoted from Lu Xun's educational thought and practice, People's Education Press, 200 1 edition, p. 273)
14, learning is active, which includes the positive development of psychology. It includes the assimilation of organisms starting from the inside of the mind. It is no exaggeration to say that we must stand in the position of children and take children as the starting point. (Dewey: Children and Curriculum, Dewey's masterpiece of education, Education Science Press, 2006, p. 67)
15, nature wants children to look like children before adulthood. If we disturb this order, we will produce some precocious fruits, which are not full and sweet, and will soon rot: we will produce some young doctors and aging children. Children have their own unique views, ideas and feelings; If we want to replace their views, thoughts and feelings with ours, it is simply the stupidest thing (Rousseau: Emile, Commercial Press, 1978, p. 9 1).
16. In the initial externalization of children's abilities, there is a desire to imitate. The first time you learn to talk, complain and imitate singing is based on this desire to imitate. Children's desire to imitate is innate and cannot be ignored. This kind of imitation desire, like other talents, also has the ability to develop. (Pestalozzi: Letter from Mother and Child to Graf, Selected Works of Pestalozzi, Volume II, Education Science Press, 1996, p. 27 1).
17. To explore children's psychological education, we must start with exploring children's psychological energy, interests and habits. Every aspect of it must be mastered according to these considerations. (Dewey: My creed of education, Dewey's masterpiece of education, Education Science Press, 2006, p. 3)
18. Children are a mystery. The materialized child is a spiritual embryo, and he needs his own special environment. Just as a physical embryo needs its mother's uterus to develop there, a spiritual embryo needs to develop in a warm and nutritious environment full of love, where nothing will harm it. (Montessori: The Secret of Childhood, Jinghua Press, 2002, pp. 39-40)
19, people have a tendency or need to grow in a certain direction, which can generally be summarized as self-realization or healthy psychological growth. (Maslow: Exploration of Existentialist Psychology, Yunnan People's Publishing House, 1987, p. 139)
20. Children have all the qualifications of human nature, but they have not yet developed. Just like an unopened bud, once the bud blooms, all the petals will stretch out, and so will human education. We must carefully observe people's natural conditions, and only by mobilizing these natural conditions can we ensure success. (Pestalozzi: Letter from Mother and Child to Graf, Selected Works of Pestalozzi, Volume II, Education Science Press, 1996, p. 232)
2 1. In our efforts to cultivate children, outward action is a means to stimulate their inner spiritual development, which will be manifested through outward action. These two factors promote each other and develop together. Work makes children's minds develop, and the full development of their minds will make them work better; The progress of work makes children feel happy again, so their minds have been further developed. (Montessori: Montessori method, Montessori scientific method of early childhood education, People's Education Press, 1993, p. 297)
22. When we study children's psychology and learning psychology, we should analyze them from social contradictions. The restriction of educational efficiency and development can not be simply solved from education itself, but scientifically. Its solution should be coordinated with the whole social system problem. The focus of our research is not abstract children, but children under a certain social system. (Xu Teli: Lectures on Education, Collected Works of Xu Teli's Education, People's Education Press, 1986, p. 202)
23. Generally speaking, children are playful; 2 curious; ③ gregarious; 4 easy to imitate; (5) like outdoor life; 6 like success; ⑦ likes others to praise him. When we teach children, we must first understand their psychology. If we can educate children according to their psychology, it will have a good effect. (Chen Heqin: Family Education, Collected Works of Chen Heqin's Education, vol. 1, Beijing Publishing House, 1985, pp. 60 1).
24. Knowledge is inappropriate if it doesn't conform to the mind of this child or that child. Because the human heart is as different as plants, trees or animals; This thing must be handled this way, and that thing must be handled that way. The same method cannot be applied to all people. (Comenius: On Great Teaching, People's Education Press, 1984, p. 153)
25. precocious intelligence rarely bears good fruit. The so-called precocity means that some students are driven by impudence at the beginning of their studies, conceited and eager to express themselves. But what they use to show their skills is just a small thing they have just learned. There is no deep-rooted and solid internal force here. They are like seeds that germinate on the surface of the land before they are mature, and like weeds that are not rice. Before the harvest season comes, they have already become yellow and empty. (quintilian: Principles of Eloquence, Selected Works of quintilian Education, People's Education Press, 1989, p. 26).
26. Nature is often stable and unexposed, and sometimes it can be suppressed. The nature that an individual can rarely be completely extinguished is not to grow into herbs, but to grow into weeds, so he should irrigate the former in time and eliminate the smelters. (Bacon: Essays of Bacon, Commercial Press 1963, p. 143)
27. Developing Children's Personality Our duty is to develop each student's personality in an all-round way, discover his talent, and form a talent for artistic creation, so that he can enjoy a full spiritual life in many ways. (Suhomlinski: Suggestions for Teachers, Education Science Press, 198 1 Edition, p. 120)
28. The highest goal of education is to stimulate initiative and cultivate independence. Broadly speaking, this is the ultimate goal of all education. (Stilwell: A Guide to Teacher Training in Germany, People's Education Press, 1990, p. 85).
29. Teachers should go with the flow, do their best and continue their studies. (Wang Fuzhi: Four Books Meaning, Volume 10)
30. The principle of conforming to nature is the highest principle of all education. In education, we are dealing with people, which is a problem of educating people. So I say for sure: in human education, generally speaking, everything depends on not violating human nature; Personally, everything should be adapted to everyone's individual characteristics. (Stowe: Selected Works of Stowe's Education, Russian version 1956, page 22 1)
Warmth is a luxury, which needs deep cold and pain.
1, life is death, beginning is end, familiar is unfamiliar.
2, love is like a tsunami, overwhelming, all ups and downs, and finally have to leave.
Love is an overbearing thing, but fate is more overbearing than love.
4, don't wait, sometimes wait and wait, let waiting become a habit, learn to waste time in waiting.
I am always waiting for someone to forgive my mistakes and then punish me for life.
6, some words can only be said to yourself, and some things can only be truly put down if they are understood.
7. The passage of time can make people forget many past events, but the love between them can never be erased.
8, memories, but never go back, is it not paranoid, do not care about contact, do not miss, do not indulge, do not sink.
Hold your hand tightly, there is nothing in it. Let go of your hand and you will get everything.
10, the first person to apologize is the bravest; He who forgives first is the strongest; He who lets go first is the happiest.
1 1. Even if people all over the world think you should be together, so what? People who don't love you will never love you.
12, the sadness of many college students is that they have learned to kill dragons, but they can't find them with knives.
13, exposed to the loneliness of the sun, laughing that I can't promise, how can you forgive me?
14, warmth is a luxury that needs to be reflected in deep cold and pain.
15, never quarrel with your parents, because you will only be scolded if you win, and you will only be beaten if you win.
16, I played a joke that made the whole world cry, but I never found it. I am the protagonist of this joke.
17, I was surrounded by friends and my face was full of smiles. When I went home alone, I saw that I looked tired.
18. If you love her, don't give her a chance to think, because you never know how much people who miss you love you.
19, people are relative and no one can comfort anyone. Humans live by sharing body temperature and comforting each other.
20. In my mind, there has never been a favorite. Only love, or, no love.
2 1, I wish I were a boy again, because a broken knee is always easier to repair than a broken heart.
22. I stopped to look in this world just to meet you.
23. In one's life, there are some unspeakable secrets, irreparable regrets, unrealized dreams and unforgettable love.
24. Everyone will miss it, everyone will miss it, and what really belongs to you will never be missed.
25. Many times, what we can't let go of is actually not each other, but those lost common memories.
26. Fate is like a game. In the end, every piece can't move, and life is very difficult.
27. If a person really wants to see you, he will look for you all over the world in various ways.
28. If memory is a square city. Then, for you, I am willing to draw a prison and get myself into trouble.
29. True happiness is not living like others, but being able to live according to your own wishes.
30. We are two sides of the same coin. We will never be apart, but we will never be together.