You don't have to say everything to know someone, but if you say everything, you will have no friends. There is no need to be harsh on others, it is far from being harsh. You don't have to be modest to respect others. Modesty means less bones.
Don't please others by selling their privacy. Only when friends trust you can they show that they don't want to be known. As a friend, he should cherish this trust, instead of taking it as a talk one day.
A person should know his position, just as a person knows his face, which is the most sober consciousness. Washing off lead porcelain is better than painting it casually. Therefore, it is important to do what you can and do your best.
5. Stay out of it, anyone can be calm, and who can be calm in it? So please don't comment on anyone easily, because you are not among them.
6. Find the reason first, don't always ask others. Your shoes are dirty because the road you walk is not clean.
7. Less words and less natural disasters; Less food in the abdomen, less natural diseases; If you think less in your heart, you will naturally have less troubles; There are few things on your body, and you naturally suffer less; Great sorrow without tears, great enlightenment without words. Cherish fate, let nature take its course, get together with the party, and feel uncomfortable everywhere.
8. To be truly happy, one must be neither too smart nor too stupid. People call this state between intelligence and stupidity the wisdom of life.
9. It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up. Many times, the more you talk, the more alienated you are, and the more contradictions you have. In communication, most people are always eager to express themselves, but they don't know each other at all. Learn to speak for two years, but shut up for life. Do you understand? Don't say much. Uneasy and calm, speak slowly. If you really have nothing to say, don't say it.
10. It is compassion not to disturb the tranquility of others; It is kindness not to hurt others' self-esteem. When people are alive, they only illuminate their own light, and don't blow out others' light.
1 1. You may not be smart, but you must have an appropriate limit. Everyone should find their own position, which should be yours and yours; It shouldn't be yours. Don't even talk. I'd rather avoid others than make a fool of myself. The more you talk, the more superficial you will appear. Therefore, people should be honest, obscure, and conquer people with the results of doing things, not convince them.
12. Buy it, don't compare prices; Eat, don't regret; Love is love, don't be suspicious; When it breaks up, it breaks up. Don't slander it.
13. A person's quality is good or bad, temper reveals self-cultivation, and silence reveals taste. One's greatest achievement is to know others without judging them.
14. Don't calculate too much, just let nature take its course. It's all yours. You will understand. There is no need to suppress yourself, and there is no need to flatter. Maintaining the due strength of personality will win more opportunities and respect. Don't be particularly good to anyone, and don't be particularly bad to anyone. Never be used by a few people. Believing in yourself is more important than relying on others. It is better to do things calmly and do your best. -Chen
15. How many people still don't understand that a long and comfortable relationship between people depends on sex and attraction. Instead of oppression, bondage, flattery, blind dedication and moral self-touch.
16. Sometimes, even if you have mixed feelings, smile at others. When you smile at others, you can find something valuable around you.
17. Bitterness and humor are two different things, and being outspoken and frank are two different things; Ill-bred and casual are two different things. Being neither heavy nor heavy does not mean being honest and frank.
18. When others scold you all the time, but praise him a few words, it will surprise the people around you and make them feel at a loss. When others praise you constantly, you will drop a few words to make everyone admire you and relieve your pressure. When everyone is aiming at one person, saying a few fair words will make everyone secretly admire and make you a rare friend.
19. The communication between two people is 70% emotional and 30% content. If the communication mood is wrong, the content will be distorted, so before communicating the content, we must clarify the emotional level, otherwise the misunderstanding will only deepen.
20. When an enemy becomes a friend, it is more reliable than a friend, and when a friend becomes an enemy, it is more dangerous than the enemy. It's good to know something, needless to say. It's good that some people know each other. There's no need to be intimate.
2 1. Don't overestimate your strength in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun will still rise even without you.
22. When I grow up, I find that sometimes when you tell the truth, I have to apologize to others because you have exposed the truth. So if you want to live a smooth life, please always take your brain with you.
23. The way you speak reflects your emotional intelligence and cultivation. If you talk less when you are angry, what you say will be gone; Don't do things when your heart is not smooth, you will fail.
24. Before a word is exported, you are its master, and after it is exported, it is your master. Nails can be pulled out of the board, but words can't be taken back. Think more, think more, listen more, watch more, and be careful what you say and do. The advantage of doing this is to make yourself less regretful.