When I was a child, because my parents both worked, I was often given a key to open the door after school. When I was in middle school, people often couldn't find their keys at home for three days, so my mother had to make me another one. For this reason, she often nags me about what to do if I get married in the future. How can I play when I can't even lock the door at home? And I shattered my mother's worry with objective facts: I have never lost my key since I had my own home.
This is actually a problem of dependence. Parents always have their parents at home as helpers, and subconsciously they always feel that someone is dragging their feet. When this matter becomes the first responsible person and no one can rely on it, it will not be forgotten.
Second, parents help their children's living conditions create logic. 1, teach children to pack their backpacks. Parents can try to teach their children to clean up their small backpack when they are in kindergarten middle class. There are few things to prepare for kindergarten. In fact, it is two or three books and toilet paper that you need to carry with you. Most children aged four or five have the strength to clean up by themselves.
2. If you want to take your children out, let them learn to pack their suitcases. Primary school children, if their parents want to accompany him on a trip, can first help their children make a list of materials that need to be prepared. At the beginning, children never knew what they needed to prepare. Parents can remind him, or verbally, let the children take notes on the blackboard. Then let him sort and box it in the same way. Take care of this list and compare it with the contents of the suitcase before returning to China, so as not to ignore one thing at the tourist destination.
3. The placement position of the object is relatively fixed. For example, where to put the book, where to put the notebook H, and where to put the pencil case in the backpack; There should be discipline in putting things in your own room. Children's orderly lifestyle will naturally not grow into idiots.
Set a "fixed rhythm" between getting up in the morning and going to school. For example, if a child gets up at 6: 40 in the morning and has to go out to study at 7: 20, then parents and children will make a "fixed rhythm" schedule at this time: get up, wash, eat breakfast, check the backpack and change clothes. Be sure to take a few minutes to check your backpack before changing clothes and going out. Make checking your backpack a daily ritual, so the probability of forgetting something will be much smaller.