It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that your self-cultivation is not enough.
If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go.
4. Discipline yourself and leave others alone.
5, don't forgive all beings, don't forgive all beings, it is bitter for yourself.
6. Don't say that others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. What about your own practice? What do you know about life?
7. People who have insufficient blessings often hear right and wrong; Those who have enough blessings have never heard of right or wrong.
8. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.
9. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.
10, the world is inherently painful, without exception.
1 1. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.
12. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.
13, don't waste your life, you will regret it.
14, put it down and there will be no trouble.
15, every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
16, it's not pitiful when you know you're confused, and it's most pitiful when you don't know you're confused.
17, arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't be saved.
18, don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers.
19, you should tolerate people who have different opinions with you, so that life will be better. If you keep trying to change him, you will suffer. Learn how to put up with him. You must learn how to tolerate him.
To admit one's greatness is to admit one's ignorance.
2 1. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.
22. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.
23. It takes only one sentence to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please have mercy.
24, when you give advice to others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, then no matter how good it is, it is useless.
Don't confuse arrogance with your wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.
26. There is no need to look back. Who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back?
27. Being jealous of others won't add any benefits to yourself. Envy of others does not reduce their achievements.
28. Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like.
29, how many people want to leave this world, will say the same sentence, this world is really helpless and desolate!
Love is not charity, you can't just give it to others. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still insisting and pursuing until they die.
3 1, please express your dissatisfaction and grievances with sympathy and gentleness, and others will accept it easily.
32. People who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for an opportunity is a fool.
33, can say can't do, is not true wisdom.
34. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your opinions in a hurry.
Why did you put the poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?
36. If you can't get it, we will always think that he is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.
37. The world is only stable, not perfect.
38. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so we should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.
39. Pay more attention to others, and you will pay less attention to yourself. You got it?
40. If you want to know the sword robbery in the world, you can only listen to the midnight sound of Tumen. Don't just blame yourself for being ill, but look at how many sentient beings have died by your sword.
4 1, hating others is your great loss.
42. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.
43. People who think they have wealth are actually owned by wealth.
44. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of your emotional attachment can you feel at ease.
45. Accompanying fate is not muddling along, but doing one's best and resigning to fate.
46. Don't be too sure of your opinion, so there will be less regret.
47. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.
48. It is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.
49. A person who is full of jealousy, dishonest and incorrect in speech cannot be regarded as a person with correct facial features.
50. Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, and life will be easier.
5 1, living in the applause of others is a person who can't stand the test.
52. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made.
53. To know a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are consistent, so we can know whether he is sincere.
54. The truth of life is hidden in the plain.
55, people who don't take a shower, hard to wear perfume will not be fragrant. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant.
You'd better accept it rather than reject it.
57. Adversity is a necessary process of growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger.
58. You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.
59. People who can think of others will never be lonely.
If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary. 、
1, forgiving others is to leave room for manoeuvre in your heart.
2, time will always pass, let time flow away your troubles!
If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be miserable.
People who always distort the goodwill of others are hopeless.
5, people are not bad, just habits, everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a good heart, forgive him if he can, and don't treat him as a bad person.
6. Tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
7. In fact, people who love beauty just fall in love with themselves.
8. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
9. Those who praise and admire us are not famous teachers. Those who will tell us and guide us are good teachers, and we will make progress with them.
10, what you have now will become someone else with your death, so why not give it to those who really need it now?
1 1. Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft.
12. Silence is the best answer to slander.
13. To be respectful to others is to be solemn to yourself.
14, with selfless love, you have everything.
15, hatred can never be dissolved, and only tolerance can dissolve hatred. This is an eternal truth.
16, it's better for you to accept than complain. There is no better way for you to accept the unchangeable fact.
17, don't bring trouble to yourself because of the ignorance of all beings. Don't make yourself miserable because of the ignorance of all beings.
18, people say we are not good, don't be angry or sad. You don't have to be happy to say we are good. There are good and bad in it, depending on whether you can use it.
19. Don't lose your temper when your mistake is exposed. Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.
20. Don't always feel unhappy. There are more people suffering in the world than we are.
2 1, a stupid person always wants others to understand him. Smart people try to understand themselves.
22. Coming is accidental, and going is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, with the fate unchanged.
23. As long as you face the reality, you can surpass it.
24. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.
25. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.
26. Doing things is just learning to be a man.
27. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for?
28. Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.
29. Being brave enough to accept criticism from others can just adjust your own shortcomings.
30. Thank God for what I have and what I don't have.
3 1, don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't brag about your abilities, don't preach the evil of others, and naturally you can turn your enemy into your friend.
32. A person who often looks at other people's shortcomings is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.
33. There is right and wrong every day. Don't listen to nature, there is right and wrong every day. If you don't listen, there is still right or wrong. What do you do?
If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.
To overcome the fear of death, you must accept the idea that all people in the world will die.
Although you hate a person, you can find his advantages and benefits. There are really few cultured people like this in the world.
37. Be honest with your inner contradictions and stains, and don't deceive yourself.
Cause and effect never owe us anything, so please don't complain.
39. We do have some advantages, but we should also hide some. It's called self-cultivation.
40. Most people only do three things in their lives; Self-deception, cheating, being cheated.
4 1, people who admire themselves too much will not appreciate the advantages of others.
42. The heart is the biggest liar. Others can cheat you for a while, but they will cheat you for a lifetime.
43. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.
44. It is not a blessing for people to be afraid of you, and it is not a shame for people to bully you.
45. It's not that someone bothers me, but that someone's words and deeds make me worry about myself.
46, don't deliberately misinterpret the goodwill of others, you should think of a good place.
47. It is natural that things in the world are not what you want.
48. I am rich not because I have a lot, but because I ask for very little.
49. Eat and pull. People must learn to let go, or they will be constipated.
50. People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will have a more troublesome life.
I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you Everyone is full, and life and death are personal matters.
52. It's easier to look down on others than to settle yourself.
53. You just live your own life and don't mind the distortion and right and wrong of others.
54. If you are going to get married, I will tell you a very important philosophical quote. You must tolerate each other's shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.
55. It will be a blessing if you can spend the day safely. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.
56. Right and wrong and gains and losses cannot be evaluated until the final result.
57. You don't have to argue about cause and effect. Cause and effect are never misleading. You don't have to argue with fate, which is the fairest judge.
58. You have your outlook on life, I have my outlook on life, and I won't interfere with you. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I'll accept my fate.
If you want to master eternity, you must control the present.
A bad mouth should never come from our mouth, no matter how bad it is. The more you scold him, your heart will be polluted. Think about it, he is your good knowledge.
6 1. When you start your life tomorrow, if someone argues with you, you let him win. This winning or losing is just a literal concept. When you let the other side win, you have nothing to lose. What did he win by winning? Understand what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what?
62. Most of our lives are wasted on the unpredictable written language.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.