First, change the environment. No matter in life or at work, if you find yourself unable to get along, unable to get along, or having a very painful and difficult life, you might as well make up your mind to change your environment, move to another place, change your job, and try your best to solve yourself. As the saying goes, "people move to live, trees move to die". As soon as you move, your desperate situation will go beyond the predicament and move towards the smooth road.
the second is to live in seclusion. Everyone has his back sometimes, and once he has it, it seems that things that are not satisfactory will happen one after another, and even "drinking cold water will clog his teeth." At this time, you might as well slow down, live in seclusion, and try not to do what you can, so as to minimize the possibility and opportunity of causing trouble. Spend this crisis period of life carefully and patiently.
third, resignation. Believe that people are determined by fate. Your desperate situation is not entirely accidental, but inevitable after some factors have accumulated for a long time. The inevitable is unavoidable and irresistible. The more you want to resist, the more you want to avoid, the more you will be like being cursed, and the greater the damage. Therefore, at this time, it is better to let fate take its course and make your mood calm.
the fourth is to retreat for progress. The more desperate you are, the more sober you must be and keep calm. When you find that there is no way out, simply don't go, or choose to turn around. Turning around does not mean turning back, and choosing to change the angle and direction. Many things, it is impossible for you to keep moving forward, but if you choose to take a step back, you may probably be able to take three steps forward, which is to retreat for progress.
the fifth is last stand. Being in a desperate situation does not mean being finished. Depending on the nature of the desperate situation, take a certain direction, and under the condition of ensuring your own safety to the greatest extent, it is entirely possible to fight our way out in last stand. Sitting down is not waiting to die, and attacking is not equal to dying. Things are like water, they can change at any time. By changing the strain, we can look for opportunities to break through the tight encirclement in the process of change.
Therefore, at any time, as long as your life is still alive, you must not be discouraged, you must not be pessimistic, be kind to yourself actively, and save your strength. Over time, you will definitely find a chance to make a comeback. Although it may not be brilliant, you will certainly be able to save yourself in from the mire.