No matter how you solve this problem in life, you will always have regrets.

Many times, we choose to remain silent or not speak, not because we don’t care, but because as we grow older, we gradually understand: If we have to compete in everything, we are actually competing with ourselves. make life difficult for.

The greatest sobriety of adults: half understand, half forget it.

Once you understand that the three views are different, forget about arguing. Once you understand how things are changing, let go of your obsessions. Understand that things have changed and the entanglement is over.

Once you understand that the three views are different, forget about arguing.

There is such a fable. There is a swallow and a bat in the forest. In the eyes of swallows, sunrise represents morning and sunset represents evening. The bat disagrees. It believes that a beautiful day has just begun after the sun sets.

They refused to give in to each other and always thought that the other party was wrong. Once, they argued endlessly about this and were about to start a fight.

At this time, a passing owl said something: "One of you lives during the day and the other lives at night. You have seen completely different worlds. How can you come to the same point of view?"

There is a famous saying: "It is difficult to find two identical leaves on a tree; it is also difficult to find someone with exactly the same thoughts and feelings among a thousand people." Everyone has different ideas depending on the position and angle they stand on. Opinions are naturally different. If you just argue and try to convince others, it is just a waste of time.

A wise and mature person will clearly understand that everyone has his own world, so he will not argue with others.

In this world, everyone is immersed in their own inherent concepts, which are difficult to be broken or reversed by others. If you have different views, there is no need to force the other party’s approval. If you continue to fight blindly, not only will you not be able to find a solution, but it will also be a meaningless waste of yourself.

After understanding the changes in the world, forget about obsession.

There is a saying: "The strongest time for a person is not when he persists, but when he lets go." For those people and things in life that are unpredictable, holding on to them can only overcome them. Life becomes more tiring.

There are many things in life that can be let go. Only when you can let it go can you afford it.

Simplify your life as much as possible, and you will find that the blocked scenery is the most suitable life. Don't be too persistent and put a heavy burden on yourself.

As the saying goes: Let go of one thought, and the world will be widened. Only by letting go of your obsessions and cutting off the unnecessary branches and leaves in your heart can you sow coolness and harvest inner tranquility and comfort.

After understanding the changes in the world, forget about obsession.

Not all encounters can turn into beautiful scenery; not all people can express their feelings to each other heartily.

Everyone passing by is a scene; everyone passing by is a guest; what stays in the heart is love. Understand that things have changed and the entanglement has been forgotten.

Some people say: "You cannot forget many things in life, and life cannot continue." There is no need to ask about the past things; you must learn to let go of the past hurts.

Those things that make us unwilling are finally in the past; those people we once resented are just passers-by in life.

Life always has to move forward, you can’t always look back. The world is like a book. Only when one page is turned over can a new chapter be written.