every child is a unique life. Behind the children's witty remarks is a colorful emotional world, which needs teachers to interpret seriously; Behind the children's eccentric elves is a unique and novel thinking kingdom, which needs the teacher's heart to echo; Behind children's every move is the behavior field of childlike innocence, which needs the teacher's understanding. When teachers only look down from above, they can't really understand students, and educational deviation is sometimes inevitable. Therefore, like Suhomlinski, teachers should really bend down and learn to look straight at students.

The proposal of "student-oriented" education requires teachers to abandon the idea of being above others and treat students as an equal and unique life. Learn to bend down and walk into children's inner world, and learn to wait for their healthy growth slowly. Face every beautiful mistake and unintentional failure in the process of children's growth with a loving, wise and childlike education method.

Real education requires teachers to understand children's needs, ideas and wishes, their mistakes, failures and difficulties, and to think and look at problems from children's standpoint. In this way, even if it is "doing bad things with good intentions" or "doing good things with bad hearts", it is a beautiful rose in the process of children's growth, and teachers need to bend down to deal with it and be good girl.