Rejecting others is a skill. We can use the words and famous sayings of great people or famous people, which are more authoritative.

A certain outstanding actor and playwright, he created the so-called "dialogue realistic" drama and established his lofty status in drama. Not only has he made outstanding achievements in acting, he has also been highly praised for his attitude towards dealing with others.

I heard that there was once an entrepreneur who admired his talent very much, so he said to him: "As capable as you are, why don't you engage in other industries and choose the path of film and television?" I still remember it. At that time, he replied: "I am very grateful for your kindness, but there is a saying since ancient times: no matter how bad an actor's performance is, it will not harm society; no matter how good an actor's performance is, it will not be helpful to society. Therefore, there is no psychology The burden becomes much easier." Seeing this, we can't help but admire the playwright's eloquence. He replaced his own thoughts with the words of the ancients, making what he said more authoritative and the other party no longer continued. Hope he changes his career.

It can be seen from this that if we speak our thoughts directly without reservation, or reject others immediately without thinking, we will either cause misunderstandings or alienate each other's feelings. At this time, we can use famous sayings such as "Napoleon once said..." "Confucius once said..." to wrap our thoughts and thoughts like crispy candy, not only replacing what we want to say. ,also. Avoid sharp edges.

Although this is the case, if the situation is urgent and you can't think of an appropriate famous quote, don't be nervous. As long as we use a little technology and play tricks, we can even pretend to be a well-known figure and use the topic: " ...Seriously, this is what the French XX people said..." This is also a method.