2. Every day without thinking is a blasphemy against life; Every day without dancing is a disappointment to life. Read the ups and downs, read the life; Reading time, reading life.
3, popularity, not how many people know you, but how many people are willing to help you; Networking is not how many people you use, but how many people you help; Popularity is not how many people flatter you in front of you, but how many people praise you behind your back.
4. Life is for happiness, not for care; Feelings are used to cherish, not to test; Money is used for service, not for measurement; Trust is for precipitation, not for challenge.
5. No one is perfect, and happiness is not 100%. The unhappiest people in this world are those who know that Dachuan thinks too much. Life is just a list. People who calculate what you want and don't want are usually extremely clever, but what they get is countless troubles and hardships.
6. The best life is not that there are no obstacles in Ma Pingchuan, but to cross or bypass roadblocks and move on; The best chance is not not to be injured, but to be willing to run with injury; The best weather is not always sunny, but despite the heavy rain, the sun will jump out of the horizon tomorrow.
7. Life is not so fair. Change your course, and the headwind will turn into a tailwind. Work hard and persevere, and eventually the dazzling sun will run behind you. The starting point of your life is not so important, but where you finally arrived.
8. Don't chase horses. Use the time of chasing horses to plant grass. When spring blossoms, there will be a group of good horses for you to choose from. Don't try to please a person, use the time to please others to improve your ability. When the time is right, a large number of friends will go with you. Therefore, enriching yourself is more powerful than pleasing others.
9. You are very clever. Some people will say that your heart is heavy. You rely on hard work. Some people will say you are lucky. You said you were born optimistic. Some people will call you fake. Sometimes, you are obviously a glass of white water, but you are forced to become a full-bodied carbonated drink. People meet too many people in their life, even if some words are crucial, there is no need to live in their eyes. As long as your heart is clear, you will never have to please someone who doesn't understand you.
10, everyone is striving for a perfect life. However, nothing in the world is absolutely perfect. As soon as the sun reaches the middle, it goes west immediately; When the moon is full, there will soon be a monthly deficit. Therefore, defects are permanent, and imperfections are life. Bow your head and you will never hit the door; If you are willing to give in, you will never retreat. People in need feel satisfied; People who cherish happiness have happiness.
1 1, God gives you difficulties, which is to let you see through people's hearts, give you failure, let you find out whether the people around you are true or not, give you loneliness, let you reflect on yourself, match your life with gentlemen and villains, and let you know how to improve your IQ. God is fair to all of us. If someone makes you cry, someone will make you laugh. God wants to temper your will in order to make you better in the future.
12, when everyone ignores you, don't be sad, everyone has their own life, and no one can always accompany you. Don't be too kind to a person, because you will eventually find that after a long time, that person will get used to it and then take everything you do for granted. In fact, I could have been stupid enough to ignore the return at all costs, but the reality is always chilling. In fact, you clearly know that the lowest thing is feelings, and the coolest thing is people's hearts. -How many meters?
13, if one day: you are no longer looking for love, just love; You are no longer eager to succeed, just do it; You no longer pursue vague growth, but just start to cultivate your own temperament; Everything in your life really begins.
14, if you don't blindly compare, you will be carefree. If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you don't always embarrass yourself, you will live very comfortably. If you don't always find fault, it will be easier.
15, you are angry because you are not generous enough; You are depressed because you are not open-minded; You are anxious because you are not calm enough; You are sad because you are not strong enough; You are disappointed because you don't have enough sunshine; You are jealous because you are not good enough ... all these, every trouble is rooted in yourself. So every time troubles appear, it is an opportunity for us to find our own shortcomings.
16, don't care too much about other people's feelings, don't be nervous when others are lost, don't be soft-hearted when others apologize, don't always make others happy and feel wronged, think for yourself why you should make yourself exhausted. If you are too sensitive, too kind and too kind, people will suffer in the end.
17. There is no difference between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can get out of tragedy, it's comedy. If you are addicted to comedy, it is a tragedy. If you just wait, all that will happen is that you get old. The meaning of life lies not in holding a good hand, but in playing a bad one.
18, people's feelings are sometimes like sweaters. You should be careful when knitting. Just pull it gently when you open it, maybe it's just a joke, maybe it's an unintentional misunderstanding, and all the feelings will never be seen again! There are not many friends, but you are in the storm; No matter how long you have been in love, it is important to be responsive.
19, everyone sometimes feels that they are not good enough and envy others for their brilliance, but in fact most people are ordinary. Don't be depressed, don't panic, be a snail who climbs hard, or a stupid bird who keeps flying. In the most ordinary life, be modest and work hard. One day, you will stand in the brightest place and live the life you once longed for.
20, life is a container, more happiness, less trouble; Pretend to be grateful, and the pain will be less; More understanding leads to fewer contradictions; There are more major events and fewer chores; The more sunshine you have, the less clouds you have; Pretend to be much higher, and there will be less prejudice; There are more goodness and less sadness; Pretend to be more friendly and less hostile.
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