I've been watching a friend's brand-new course recently. I remembered this sentence.
In our daily work and life, there are often some natural practices, things and rules. ...
Are these all "taken for granted" right?
Might as well re-examine those "taken for granted"? . Maybe we can find a new "course" that is different and better than the past and implement it.
In the book, the author shared a "brand-new" example that he discovered and practiced.
Share the author's "new nature" in several books.
This sentence, at first glance, seems a bit strange.
You mean, promise each other and make them happy?
Continue to look down with such questions.
Oh, it turns out that when he said "make people happy", he meant to complete the "agreement" with others. But you can't just read it, but also think about helping each other solve the problem.
"Making people happy" means trying to help each other solve problems, thus making each other happy.
"Write down a friend's name on a piece of paper."
When you write, you will realize that you are either a friend around you or an old friend in a foreign country.
After writing the inspection list, you will find your preference for making friends. Check your preferences.
"In daily life, I feel that it is still difficult to choose every multiple-choice question."
If you choose an easy goal, it may be easy to achieve. But the sense of accomplishment after realization will also be greatly reduced.
On the hard road, you may not succeed in the end, but you also have some experience. Moreover, we should proceed on the premise of knowing the difficulties, and our attitude towards it will be more rigorous. ...
Speaking of "choice", I think of Brother Universe, which was finished at the end of last year. The protagonist Nanbo Liutai often faces various multiple-choice questions. His principle is "choose the option that makes things more interesting"? . ? (Ha ha ha ha, just second (; ? д `) I also like "celebrity quotations" in film and television works.
"Be careful with your money"
The book talks about the attitude of the author and his parents towards cash, and they will not put it aside at will to smooth it out. ...
I also told a story about the "amulet" in my wallet: put a cash of100000 yen in the depths of my wallet without spending it, which brings a sense of security.
I also remember this amulet incident. I have seen a similar method somewhere. I also learned to put a piece of cash in my bag that is not used for consumption. Because I don't need cash now, I transferred a fixed amount of money to a card that I hardly need as an amulet. (Ha ha ha ha, ran away. )
Those agreements made casually with others should also be fulfilled one by one.
Others remember the agreement, but they don't. From here, slowly reduce the points in the other party's trust account.
Others forgot the agreement, but they remembered it and kept it. When the other person is surprised, it will also increase your goodwill.
(= _ = So, I seldom promise anything to others → _→ because I may not be able to do it ~ ~)
Of course, there are more examples shared by the author. Here are just some rough examples.
Well, those "taken for granted" in life should be observed by themselves to see if they can be optimized or become more interesting.
You need to find that "new idea" yourself.