1. Before you get married, you should look at the characteristics of the product, not his appearance and power position, but his temperament. If you are not sure, you can't return it easily. You need to constantly clean, wipe and repair yourself in the course of your life.
Don't believe the phrase "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", but believe that "a wife is always someone else's good", which is an eternal famous saying. Don't expect miracles to happen to you.
Don't think that your marriage will be more stable just because you gave birth to his children. This is the beginning of his boredom with complicated family life.
Don't recall when he was in love, and vowed to treat you as a princess hug. You have to understand that your position is nanny and chef. Besides cooking, taking care of children and mopping the floor, you also have smelly socks that can't be washed.
Don't complain that he can never remember the size and number of clothes and shoes you wear. If the size he bought is fat, you can say that you have lost weight. If the size is small, you can say that you are fat. If it is really bad, it can be said that the clothing factory posted the wrong number.
Never embarrass him in front of his colleagues and friends. Even if you gnash your teeth and smile like a peach blossom, you are a naive girl.
7. When he is depressed, you should never try to make him express it in words. Some words men don't want to say, but they prefer body language. You just need to give him a gentle hug or a silent kiss, or even a madness.
8. Moderate attachment. Men like you to rely on him appropriately to satisfy his male vanity. Don't try to be better than him in everything. Maybe he worships you and is afraid of you, but he doesn't like you. You can't rely too much. He won't like carrying a drag bottle all his life. Love him as a father, love him as a son, respect him as a brother and kiss him as a brother.
9. Never ask him, "Do you still love me?" In that case, he will send you to an insane asylum.
10. Don't bring grievances to bed, and don't try to punish men in bed.
1 1. Don't fight him when he is awake, you can't beat him. I was really angry, so I took advantage of his sound sleep and gave him a hard squeeze according to his thick skin! Even if he is pinched, he will only turn over and sleep. In case he wakes up, you can pretend as if nothing happened. After n minutes, repeat this action. Until you get over it.
12. Don't treat your family as your world. When you only care about thrift and hard work and become a yellow-faced woman, that man will only be bored and grateful and will never become love. The world at home is helpless, and the world outside is wonderful.
13. You should have your own hobbies, your own personality and your own dignity. You have your own spiritual space. When he was away, you had a good time and lived a colorful life.
14. Don't try to find a heterosexual confidant in reality, unless you don't care about your husband's jealousy and your secular vision. Come online if you want to chat.
15. Don't surf the Internet late at night unless your husband doesn't come home late at night. Otherwise, he will grab your ear, pick up your braid, and even cut off the power and unplug the network cable.
16. Don't imagine that the man who knows you online must be better than your husband, but if you really want to marry him on a whim, he will scare away. Even if you don't run, once it comes to reality, women become mosquito blood and men become rice stains. Repeat another round of dullness and boredom. Since the emotion in the network is marginal emotion, let it exist on the edge of the network instead of taking over Nestle's position.
Editor's note: A man likes you to rely on him appropriately to satisfy his male vanity. Don't try to be better than him in everything. Maybe he worships you and is afraid of you, but he doesn't like you. You can't rely too much. He won't like carrying a drag bottle all his life. Love him as a father, love him as a son, respect him as a brother and kiss him as a brother.
20 sentences that women must understand after marriage
1, a wife can never cure a man's good color. All men in the world like beautiful women just as women like handsome men. Women are also lewd, but women dare not admit it. Therefore, if your husband sees more beautiful women, you don't have to be too jealous. You should be happy that no matter how beautiful other women are, you will eventually become his wife.
2. There is no man who doesn't like amorous feelings of women. Most men are attracted to sexy women, so don't be insensitive because of busy work, tired or even sleepy life, or refuse some kind of intimate caress that a husband wants his wife in bed. You should think about it. Have you ever fantasized about hugging the hero in Korean dramas? You can even hold a small hand. It is the same.
It is the stupidest woman who refuses her husband's sex. Men are always short of women. As long as men want to find them and spend money, a one-night stand is absolutely easy. A good wife is a woman who can make her husband give up the idea of having an affair with other women and go home to have dinner with her every day. Similarly, a smart wife can satisfy her husband's sexual requirements at any time.
4. Men won't treat you as their pet forever. From the time you fall in love, you may gradually get used to him treating you as an angel and worshiping you as a god. However, a smart woman should know that if you always want him to treat you as a treasure and not transition to the queue of relatives, your marriage relationship is still very fragile. Only changing you from a treasure to a relative is the most rational and desirable reality.
5. Never spy on your man for 24 hours. This is the biggest taboo for men. It is suitable for men to live a free-range life, and captivity is definitely not the lifestyle that men want. If we can give him proper space, we can arouse the wildness of men more and more and stimulate their masculinity. If you use surveillance to control your husband, it will cause a man's rebellious mentality, which will only lead him to look down on you more.
6. Let men feel your infatuation. Women are prone to love problems, that is, when they are in love, men are too good to see the problems, but once they stop loving, they will see the problems in men's minds. Since women let men feel their infatuation, it is impossible to easily accept his repeated reconciliation. You know, the man who really loves you will always remember your kindness and will not condemn you casually.
7. Don't let your husband think that I love you is a folk song. Practice has proved that most men who say that they love you more before marriage often take their wives seriously after marriage, because he has long regarded the confession of love as a casual cup of tea, neglected the sincerity of love and overdrawn before marriage. Only men who don't love each other easily will consider the power of love in advance without spending.
8. Don't correct men's bad habits easily. Men have some hobbies that their wives can never get rid of, such as smoking, drinking, playing with friends until midnight, or unwilling to do housework, go shopping with their wives, give up being with friends and so on. Don't want to quarrel every day, if you want to live, you must learn to turn a blind eye, which is n times stronger than he doesn't want to go home, right?
9. Don't deny his Excellence just because there are pornographic films in the computer. Most men watch porn or so-called beautiful pictures. In fact, this is all caused by men's curiosity, not men's filth and obscenity, because this is men's normal psychological needs and normal behavior. It is better to watch it with him at home than to restrict him. Even if there is demand, it can ensure that rich water does not flow out.
10, give your husband enough face in front of outsiders and friends. Stupid women always want to show themselves in front of outsiders or show them how obedient their husbands are. In fact, when a man gets married, has children and makes a lot of money in his career, his fundamental purpose is to let his family live a decent life. Therefore, men will be very concerned about this. If a woman gives enough face in front of outsiders, she will be persuaded to accept your re-education when she goes home.
1 1, a woman needs a skill to hold down a man. Men like smart women, so either you have a good housekeeping skill and make him feel that this family can't live without you for a moment; Either you do a good job and make men think that you are a very smart and valuable woman. If your home is full of ponytails and tofu, don't blame men for not liking you.
12, don't trust men's vows. Don't be naive to think that he will be absolutely loyal to you because he loves you, because most men don't think that loyalty to their wives is contrary to sleeping with women outside marriage. Men will never think it is immoral unless they are caught. For men, sleeping with another woman is like going to the toilet.
13, women can fall in love with men's advantages, but they must be psychologically prepared to live with men's shortcomings for life. After all, women will never grasp or want to grasp the real shortcomings of men before they formally enter the marriage hall. Usually in the process of love, the special advantages of men often become the most obvious shortcomings of men after marriage, and it is also the shortcomings of repeated education.
14. If a man is unwilling to give up his economic power after marriage, then nine times out of ten he doesn't love you completely and unreservedly. From the perspective of human nature, both men and women are extremely willing to spend money on their closest and most beloved people. Only those who want to lift their feet and leave anytime and anywhere will carry unopened bags at any time to escape.
15, if you want your man to take care of you, you should also take care of him in the process of husband and wife life. There is no love without reason in this world, and there will be no love without reason. All love needs to give to each other. Therefore, no man in this world wants to cheat in his bones. Good people should sometimes be coaxed out, not scolded, just like disciplining children.
16, a woman should never think that she can be slovenly just because she has achieved a positive result. Sometimes your husband doesn't want to take you out to meet friends, or on important occasions. It is definitely not because you are old and yellow, or autumn scenery is dark and yellow, but because your potential temperament as his wife is no longer bright, and even your habitual untidiness will make him feel embarrassed and affect his image in front of everyone.
17, women must treat their in-laws well after marriage. This is very important. Women must let your man see that being kind to your in-laws is your best character, and also realize that he sees that you are really better to his parents than to himself, so that he can rest assured of his career and earn more money to support his family wholeheartedly. For men, women's kindness is what men respect most.
18, playboy men are sweet-tongued and good at rhetoric, but most men who really love you are not sweet and even not good at language expression. A woman who truly loves you will embody her love for you in her daily practical actions and in her daily subtle words and deeds. Many of them were moved by your accident. What really touched you was his silent efforts and constant practical actions.
19, once a mistress intervenes in your family, you should calm down and don't quarrel with your husband. You know, if you can handle this problem rationally, you won't leave any opportunity for Xiaosan, and your husband will think that the extramarital affair with Xiaosan is not worth the candle. At the critical moment, most men will weigh their familiarity with family and extramarital affairs unless their minds are caught in the door.
20, don't peek at her husband's privacy, as long as there is no problem beyond the moral bottom line, or nothing out of line, there is no need to be a thief. Of course, if a husband has nothing to hide, he won't worry about his privacy being known by his wife. What's more, when husband and wife are together, there should be no need to guard against the privacy that the other party knows. The stupidest person is the one who steals food and doesn't know how to wipe his mouth.
Classic Quotations of Life _ What You Must Know
It is normal and lovely to believe that you are unique and can change the world when you are young. Thirty years old, wake up, man. Before we talk about other things, you can take care of yourself and your family.
Our youth is fleeting, and wrinkles climb up the corner of our eyes. We can't stop the years from destroying our faces, but we can let our hearts hone slowly in the years, just like the sand in a clam shell, and slowly smooth it out. When we are pale and faltering, we can also make the luster of pearls dim in the last trip, can't we? (learn to grow)
Every one of us will inevitably have regrets and disappointments in our life. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful mind.
Face the reality, solve all the problems that can be solved, keep the ones that can't be solved, and time can change everything.
What is happiness? Some people think that happiness means owning a mansion and a famous car. Some people think that happiness means being with the person you love. Some people think that happiness means seeing sunshine every day. Some people think that living is happiness.
Familiar habits, familiar routes and familiar days will never be a miracle. Changing thinking, changing habits and changing a way of life will often create infinite scenery!
Only when we set out will we reach our ideal and destination, and only when we sow will we reap. Only by pursuing can we taste a healthy life, and only by keeping a simple life can we have more happiness in life!
Don't bring trouble to yourself because of the ignorance of all beings. Don't make yourself miserable because of the ignorance of all beings.
Parents are right. They are good to you, whether you accept it or not.
Life Classics _ What You Must Know
10 is too brave to be reckless; When integrity goes too far, it becomes pedantic; If you are too alert, you will become smooth; If you pay too much, you will become a beggar; When greed goes too far, it becomes corruption; If you are too persistent, you will lack your mind; Too much goodwill has turned into weakness; Overriding, life classic _ The truth you must understand becomes overbearing; If you go too far, you will come to a dead end.
Where the heart thinks, there is light; Where the heart thinks, there is a miracle; Where you are moved, you will have new ideas; Where the heart is placed, there is power.
12 gradually understand that the person who cares most is often the one who makes you cry the most; Gradually understand that a lot of love can be met but not sought; Gradually understand that many things can only be owned once, and letting go means losing; Gradually understand that sincerity does not need to be returned to a person; Gradually understand that in fact, a person is quite good.
13 don't say that others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. Practice by yourself? What do you know about life?
14 Don't believe the story that you will succeed if you work hard. The key is the standard of your success and the direction of your efforts. Trust a man, even if you try hard, you can't have children. Don't believe any theory that can change your life. Birth comes first, luck comes second.
15 Some words are suitable for rotting in the heart, while others are painful and suitable for forgetting silently.
16 You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.
It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.
18 Don't lose your temper easily, it's cowardly unless you trust someone very much. Otherwise, never let others know what you are going to do next.
19 Don't hit your own woman. If you don't love her, just let her go. There is nothing unforgivable about her. Who told you to love her? If you don't love her, you shouldn't hit others. What do you hate if you don't love her? Either you choose to accept, or you choose to give up or you die.
Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if it is wrong, don't be sad. There are right and wrong in life, not to mention many things. In retrospect, right or wrong doesn't matter.
2 1 People who dare to face difficulties are strong in life; People who dare to challenge adversity thrive.
Anyway, learn to make a timetable for yourself. You can choose from 1, 2, 3 and 5 years.
It is not that there is no water in the well, but that it is not dug deep enough; It's not that success comes slowly, but that you give up quickly. It takes wisdom to get one thing and courage to give it up!
There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
To save face for each other is to save face for yourself. If you don't want to stay, don't stay.
Only when the weak have difficulties can the brave overcome difficulties; Fools only lament, but wise men have thousands of ways.
Hating someone is worse than liking someone. Like is just an inertia, but hate needs to constantly spur yourself.
Perhaps a person has to go through many roads and experience the sudden prosperity and desolation in countless lives before he becomes mature.
The eyebrows that grow first are not as long as the beards that grow later; Mr. Wang's ears are not as long as those of the young. Wisdom is not in age, Excellence is not in qualifications, and latecomers often come from behind.
Position can increase people's power, but it can't increase authority; Position can increase people's strength, but it can't increase people's ability; Lot can increase people's money, but it can't increase quality; Position can satisfy the desire for fame, and money can satisfy the desire for material things, but it cannot realize personal value and the meaning of life.
3 1 Since God has given talents, let them find jobs! Life has no rest; Step forward, everyone in the world knows you!
The most powerful time for 32 people is not when they insist, but when they let go. When you choose to be empty-handed, who else can take anything from you! How many people lament the helplessness of fate, but forget the three most powerful words in the world: don't care.
A few words that universities must understand: inspirational positive energy quotations
After four years in college, you have gained weight and wrinkles, and you won't make any progress except reading more books.
You will have to face it one day, because most of us have no talent and rich family business, and at most we will become ordinary people and escape mediocrity.
What you can enjoy in college is more learning resources to help you improve your own resources, which you can't enjoy after graduation.
Sometimes, one's success is not your starting point, but your turning point.
When you want to do something well, or do it better and better, you need to learn and keep learning.
The first half of a university may be cultivating knowledge and ability, and the second half may be learning to integrate into society. I don't expect myself not to be tired of this life. I just hope I can keep beating myself and beating it so that I won't get tired of it.
Knowing what you want and what you are doing is the most important thing.
This friendship is not necessarily your friend. Such friends are casual acquaintances, but we just don't want to admit it.
The difference between people is a cognitive premise that needs no discussion. There is nothing wrong with the way of doing things to the attitude of doing things. It's normal to differ by a hundred thousand miles.
There is such a person, no matter his style or attitude, who can never keep up. Every time you cooperate, you think it is better to cooperate with a stranger, but don't ignore the important premise that you are friends.
Friends who have time to accumulate and have the same experience may think that such a good friendship, whether it is daily sharing or in a bad mood, must contact every day.
Friends are, although powerful, always feel quite safe; Although I spit, there is still some truth in it.