The main words of "Xie's Family Instructions" are: Be filial to your parents, be friends with your brothers, respect your elders, be harmonious with your neighbors, maintain your own business, be knowledgeable, be diligent and frugal, be aware of trends, be careful about marriage, be diligent in offering sacrifices, and be cautious. Make friends, be patient, and avoid spoiling. \x0d\The full text of "Xie's Family Instructions" is written in classical Chinese. It has been passed down from generation to generation and passed down from generation to generation. The text has some errors and is no longer suitable for today's vernacular reading habits. Therefore, it was revised and adapted into poems and ballads based on classical Chinese. The body is for the cultivation of future generations and compatriots. The full text of "Xie's Family Instructions" in poetry and ballad style is as follows:\x0d\What is the family motto? Family motto is the instruction that parents give to their children in terms of conduct, conduct, and education. Chinese family mottos are generally based on the wise sayings of ancient and modern sages. Family mottos serve as guidelines for life and behavior for future generations. Although the times have advanced and technology is changing with each passing day, family mottos are universal heirlooms that are still fresh after generations. The predecessors hope that the next generation will study the family mottos more and practice them personally. It is a heart of love and care that lives up to the predecessors. \x0d\1. Filial piety to parents\x0d\Parents give birth to children, and their grace is higher than the mountains and deeper than the sea. As a son of a man, you should serve around him, and you should be educated and nurtured before you become a man. \x0d\ At home, she is graceful and cheerful, but she is ordered to stay calm. If your superiors give you advice, don't let God's grace be harmed by trivial matters. \x0d\ If you listen at the same time, you will fulfill your duties as a son and be filial to your parents. When you are sick, you should use decoction and medicine to boil it; when you die, you should observe mourning and provide funeral services. \x0d\Don't imitate those who are disobedient and stubborn. Being lazy and creating grudges is an insult to relatives. When serving as a public servant, you should show your filial piety, show your loyalty, show your relatives, and promote your reputation. \x0d\ 2. Friends and Brothers \x0d\ Brothers and sisters are one body, how can they be separated from each other by parents? It is a normal thing to respect the little ones and the big ones, and the big ones must love the affection of their little ones. \x0d\When they grew up, they each had families, and it was difficult to refuse each other's support. You and Gong are in agreement, and there is no difference between you and me. I will not be jealous. \x0d\If you build a wall over your property, let anyone instigate you to burn the beanspan. How can family ties be continued when roommates are at war with each other like enemies? \x0d\Compatriots with different breasts are all brothers, and sons and daughters of the same family are indistinguishable from each other. Family ties must also be protected by family ties. I am the first priority for everyone. \x0d\3. Respect your elders\x0d\ When you are an official, you have elders at home, so I am older than you. It is true that he should respect his superiors, regardless of his high or low status. \x0d\ Sit down in the corner and bow to me humbly, and don't dare to have fun while accompanying you. He is a criminal with no ability to do his job, and he has no respect for his elders and has low quality. \x0d\The virtuous and wise ancestor Mo Lingchang, who was strong in spirit, relied on his foolishness. Being arrogant in old age is a big mistake, showing off oneself is self-indulgence. \x0d\Be proud of your wealth and honor, and don't tolerate your wild and rebellious behavior. There is always an order in morality and ethics, and the elders and the younger have the same mentality of respecting the inferior and the inferior. \x0d\4. Being with neighbors \x0d\ Fellow villagers drink water from a well and see their neighbors before going out. Although we are not our own flesh and blood, we do not compare to each other when we go out and go out as friends. \x0d\It is a pleasure to help each other, and to take good care of each other. We support each other in sickness and in times of trouble, and we have the root of helping each other regardless of whether we are together or not. \x0d\It is foolishness for the rich and the poor to deceive each other, and it is jealousy for neighbors to be snobbish. The conflict between the strong and the weak is short-sighted, and the struggle between the big and the small consumes energy. \x0d\Why start a lawsuit with a small amount of money? Why kill a disease with a small hatred. Don't disturb your neighbors with bad habits, and refrain from any discordant behavior. \x0d\5. Safeguarding one's own business \x0d\ Scholars, farmers, industry and commerce can be employed as a profession, inheriting the wealth first and then having a strong foundation. Be sincere and dedicated to your duties, and your talents will keep improving with each passing day. \x0d\If you have no job, don’t become a vagrant. Choose what you can and become independent. My body can stay in prison, but my heart dare not live in peace. \x0d\A small job can make a big fishing boat, and a small job can provide food and clothing. Open source helps the river flow, and every industry is a blessing channel. \x0d\ Wandering is not a waste of time. If you succeed in your career, you will be rewarded with hard work. Respect the seasons of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and enjoy your work without getting tired. \x0d\ 6. Ming Dynasty Academics \x0d\ There is no difference between schools and scholars, but the differences between scholars can be realized. Middle school is pure while Western learning is miscellaneous. Western learning is real while middle school is weak. \x0d\The Western learning countries are chasing each other, while the Eastern learning and national quintessence are preserved. It is easier to be foolish and impetuous than to be biased towards the middle. It is possible to balance both. \x0d\The middle school is for the body and the west, and they complement each other perfectly. According to the time, academics can conquer the broad areas, and talents can enjoy the trees at night. \x0d\Learning can only benefit if you practice it. Why not doubt it if you learn but don’t study? There is no limit to the sea of ??learning and academic excellence, and moral integrity and words and deeds complement each other. \x0d\7. Be diligent and frugal\x0d\Be good at work and play hard, study hard and be frugal. You can build a career by working hard, and guard against arrogance and impatience. \x0d\The four seasons of planting and farming are also clever, and there is a song of hard work under the stars and the moon. Scholars, farmers, industry and commerce are all here, and the rooster crows and the phoenix is ??happy. \x0d\ When relatives and friends come and go, they are frugal and friendly, and they greet each other with great affection.
The way of common people is always happy, and it is interesting without wine or tea. \x0d\Every household is rich and hardworking is a treasure, and there is food in hand for reincarnation. You can do common things for the sake of the people, and you can be honest and honest if you are an official. \x0d\ 8. Clear trends \x0d\ Institutions can change clear trends, but customs can be changed. Loving one's relatives and respecting one's relatives lasts forever, who can't follow the law? \x0d\The value of interpersonal relationships lies in equality. How can we violate the principle of respecting elders and younger ones? How can a young man humiliate his elders? Unless you are rude and foolish. \x0d\Indulging in alcohol and smoking is not a good thing, and being aggressive and ruthless is decadent. Gambling is a bad habit, and one is obsessed with it regardless of shame. \x0d\Being disgraced during the funeral must be punished, and elders and compatriots must enforce the rules. If you abide by the laws and clean yourself, you will be happy and proud of your ancestors. \x0d\9. Marriage with caution\x0d\Children must be cautious when marrying, and be wary of freedom of love. Marriage and love in this world can go astray, so follow the trend to prevent yourself from being deceived. \x0d\To judge a person, you must look at words and deeds, never open your heart if you promise. Parents should come to counsel in time to prevent late-stage students from being sad. \x0d\Before marriage, the most important thing is to guard against scheming, and be clean and indestructible. When choosing a son-in-law and marrying off a daughter, the betrothal gift is light; when marrying a daughter-in-law, a lady is asked to pay a small amount of dowry. \x0d\The good behavior of parents is the beginning of ethics, and children should imitate and learn principles. Governance comes from the elders, and there is a relay of good deeds and self-consciousness. \x0d\10. Sacrifices and sweeps frequently\x0d\ The ancestral graves of the clan are sacred places, and sacrifices and sweeps are often performed to honor the pioneers. Regardless of whether you are young or old, you should never be alienated from your ancestors. \x0d\The road is far away, so you can offer sacrifices from a distance. Put your hands together and bow at any time. Everyone is sincerely grateful, and the family may continue to prosper. \x0d\I always come to you with piety and express my gratitude to my elders for their love and care. If I have no ancestors to help me in my life, where will my future and hope be? \x0d\Spring comes and it’s great to watch the swallows protecting their nests, and summer comes to watch the ants. Autumn welcomes the fallen leaves, and winter brings white snow and clear heaven and earth. \x0d\11. Be cautious in making friends\x0d\Be trustworthy and cautious in making friends. Honesty is always appropriate. It's a pity that there are thorns in the world, and it's never easy to be with each other. \x0d\It is beneficial for friends to treat each other with righteousness and treat each other with sincerity and sincerity. Encourage good deeds and rule out friendship matters, and keep things in order until the point is reached. \x0d\Duplicity is not what is right or wrong, and this should not be done between friends. When making friends, you also need to make friends with good character. It is difficult to stay together for a long time with fair-weather friends. \x0d\The best friendship is from parents, who have no desires, no demands, no defense. As long as friends can help each other, no matter whether they are noble or humble, smart or stupid. \x0d\12. Be patient\x0d\It is difficult to restrain yourself when you are angry for a moment, but if you cannot bear it, you will always be polite. If it is superficial, it will harm your own heart; if it is serious, it will harm your children and grandchildren. \x0d\The ninth generation of Gongyi lived with Zhang, and the Chen family had an appetite of eight hundred ***. All things can be done with tolerance, and miracles can be achieved through tolerance. \x0d\An angry act of violence often results in a mistake, and regretting it is too late to sigh. Be able to endure small things and big things. Patience is the best virtue. \x0d\Be able to tolerate everything with a broad mind, be calm and courageous when things change. Great patience and greed in the world can lead to a broad world. \x0d\ 13. Stop spoiling \x0d\ Children who are rash and careless cannot be taught by their fathers and brothers. When raising children, avoid pampering and work hard to become independent. \x0d\Poverty can enjoy the joy of suffering, and wealth can save the taste of food. When admonishing one's disciples to encourage one's disciples to teach, one should know that success in learning is the first priority. \x0d\Being bossy and domineering is a moral conduct, and the arrogance and coquettishness must be eliminated. Practice humility and prudence every day, and learn to let pears grow from an early age. \x0d\It is a sin to condone adultery, and you have the courage to do it yourself. If there is a transgression, do not condone it, but love to the depths is enlightenment.