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Yesterday I experienced so many things, it was a very frustrating day. However, tolerate your negative emotions and find a way to get rid of them. Keep moving forward in the sunshine.

My future must be decided by me. For this goal, I can only learn and learn again.

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Record every day as a story.

Sometimes I wonder what I will leave behind when I grow old. Thinking like this makes me a little panicked. Earthshaking is impossible. It’s hard to even say whether it’s valuable or meaningful. Like a speck of dust, or like a gust of wind, nothing is left behind.

I am now recording every detail of my daily life. Maybe, there will be a moment when a person who has such a connection with me will accidentally see, and it will allow him to have such a stay. Chance of impression: Oh, the trajectory of her life had been like this.

Yesterday, because I accidentally watched a few clips of the TV series "Secrets in the Dark Room", I reflexively searched for and read novels. The whole day and until evening, my classmates made an appointment to have dinner. From leaving home at six o'clock in the evening to arriving home at around one in the morning, I just sat, listened, and chatted with familiar strangers and complete strangers. Chatting was my only task.

This kind of idleness is very addictive. Aren’t I already used to not working, not wanting to think about work, not thinking about unfinished tasks during the summer vacation?

The ancestors said: It is easy to go from simplicity to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality. It’s really a wise saying.

Last night, my husband had a drink upstairs, my sister went out with her classmates, I also went out, and my son was said to be watching "General History of China" at home.

This is a way of life.

In my family, such scenes are rare. If, if there were more such life scenes, it would become the norm.

Being able to stay lonely is also a habit. Once the habit is broken and you get used to the bustle, you will no longer be used to being clean.

After all, for five days, three days in a row, I was wasting my time like this!

Don’t I already have a habit?

3

Be a person who puts life first.

Last night, my husband cooked rice: noodles.

I left a message to my husband: My classmates have a dinner date. How about you cook dinner for the three of you?

My husband said he would be happy to do it.

In the evening, he left a message in the Dream Building Group: I strongly urge that there should be a division of labor at home, with someone taking care of life and someone taking care of study. This feels like home. Study like study. Otherwise, you will live a confused life. The whole house is dirty everywhere. Messy.

I answered: Yeah. My requirements: everyone’s belongings should be arranged in a proper place, and things that have been used by themselves should be sorted and returned to their places in a timely manner, such as used cups, used bowls, their own clothes, and their own rooms. I'll take care of the kitchen and bathroom. I've already tidied it up in the morning, unless I mess up again.

My husband said: You concentrate on taking care of your life, and I will take care of your son’s studies.

I answer: OK. I'm sure his grades will gradually improve. I promise to arrange my life better and better. That means neither of them have to worry. So, everyone should remember to take care of their own affairs!

Husband: Yeah, when we are very busy, you can sometimes help. If you can’t, we will try our best.

Me: Okay!

I am an ordinary person. I don’t have three heads and six arms. On the contrary, I am such a stupid person. I always find that I can’t do this well or that well.

I have a studious heart. However, learning itself means being a rookie.

I should really learn to evaluate myself more objectively. Go with the flow and do what you can. No matter what I do, try to do it well, that's what I do.

After living for more than forty years, I realized that the real wisdom lies in life. If I can live with my heart, I will try my best to achieve the best in everything I am doing, not only actions, but also life. There is also learning, recording, and reflection, so no matter what you do, you can enjoy it.

Writing a diary is the most interesting thing in itself. As the words are typed out one by one and the chaotic thoughts become linear bit by bit, this feeling of happiness and achievement comes quietly.

Living one's own life well and managing the life of the whole family is a challenge for a person who has always been relatively casual.

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To live mindfully, what aspects should I pay attention to?

1. Diet.

2. Environment.

3. Living habits.

Mainly there are only these three pieces for now. In terms of diet, I have to pay attention to each person's characteristics. For example, my husband is afraid of oil and needs to eat fresh food. My son likes to eat delicious food, and his body is growing. My daughter should be reminded to drink more water.

The environment should be clean first and then beautiful.

Lifestyle habits. Go to bed early and get up early, at the same time.

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It is said that things have a position, why don’t people need a position?

Try your best to do your best in life, work and financial management. This is the value of my life!