To live with righteous people cannot be without righteousness; if you grow up in Qi, you cannot but speak Qi. - Jia Yi

A gentleman is ignorant of himself, but trusts in his close friends. - —Sima Qian

If you don’t know a person, regard him as a friend. —Sima Qian

When digging a well, you must reach the end of the flow, and when making friends, you must go to the end. —Jia Dao

If you are close to the wise, you will be wise; if you are close to the stupid, you will be wise. - Pi Rixiu

For hundreds of years, the hearts are the same, who is limited to the north and south of the river? ——Yao He

Gratitude needs to be learned over time. ——Yu Xuanji

Don’t make friends with people who are superficial, frivolous and frivolous. ——Guan Lin

When seeking friends, you must be there Be good, and when you get good, you will be good to each other. If you seek friends who are not good, you will find a way out of bad things. If you want to know the heart of seeking friends, you must first refine the gold. - Meng Jiao

If you make friends with non-virtuous people, you will inevitably develop love and hatred. .——Meng Jiao

Mountains and rivers are not important, but meeting a confidant is important.——Bao Rong

Life is connected at the end and the beginning, and there should be no separation in the middle.——Helan Jinming< /p>

Choosing friends is like panning for gold. No treasure will be found in all the sand. - Li Chengyong

Those who are close will continue to be cut off, and those who are distant will not be strong. - Han Yu

When you know each other from a distance, you don’t know that the sea of ??clouds is deep. - Wang Changling

The love for each other is deep, but you can know your heart without saying a word. - Li Bai

What's the use of being alone when we know each other in times of crisis? .——Li Bai

Score points in making friends, sharpen your admonitions.——Zhou Xingsi 2. Classical Chinese essays on making friends

1. We are all brothers in the four seas

2 . There are close friends in the sea, and there are neighbors in the world.

3. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a close friend is hard to find.

4. If you make friends with non-virtuous people, you will inevitably develop love and hatred. ——Meng Jiao

5. Mountains and rivers are not important, but meeting a close friend is important. ——Bao Rong

6. The love is deep when we meet each other, and we can know our hearts without saying a word. ——Li Bai

7. Knowing each other is of no use in times of crisis, and being alone is of no use. ——Li Bai

8. Score points when making friends, and watch for admonitions. ——Zhou Xingsi

9. The ancients were ashamed of the friendship between powerful forces. ——Liu Yiqing

The original text of the Way of Making Friends:

When I met (péng) Meng Xue shot at Yi, he followed Yi's way, thinking that Yi was the only one in the world to heal himself, so he killed Yi. Mencius said: "Is Yi Yi guilty?" Gong Mingyi said: "It is better to be innocent." He said: "As thin as a cloud ear, how can he be innocent? The people of Zheng sent Zizhuo (zhúo) Ruzi to invade the Wei, and the Wei He ordered Yu Gong to pursue him. Zi Zhuo Ruzi said: "I am too busy to hold the bow today, and I will die!" He asked his servant: "Who is chasing me?" His servant said: "Yu" The master said: "I am born." His servant said: "Yu Gong is good at shooting. What do you mean by Master Yu?" Shoot it at me. Master Yin is a man of honor, and he must take care of his friends. When Master Yu arrived, he said, "Why don't you hold the bow?" He said, "I am working hard today." "The villain learned to shoot from Yin Gong, and he learned from Master Yin. I can't bear to use Master's way to harm Master. Although today's matter is your business, I dare not abolish it." Its gold is sent out by an arrow and then turns back②" 3. Classical Chinese essays about friends

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Part 1 of classical Chinese essays about friends: About. Classical Chinese essays about friends: 1. Be united and economical, always consistent. ——Ouyang Xiu 2. The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other. The most important thing for people to know each other is to understand each other. ——Mencius 3. One is noble and the other is humble. ——King Luo Bin 4. Friendship between common people and clothing should not be forgotten. ——Li Yanshou 5. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, while the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine. A gentleman is indifferent to intimacy, but a villain is willing to give up. ——Zhuangzi 6. When Zhong Ziqi died, Boya would no longer play the harp for the rest of his life. ——"Book of Han" 7. Have fun today, don't forget each other after farewell. ——Cao Zhi 8. The water in Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun’s love for me. ——9. The friendship between forces is difficult to endure. ——Lu Ji 10. Happy new acquaintance. ——Qu Yuan 11. The joy of life lies in knowing each other. ——12. We know each other no matter how far we are, but we are still neighbors thousands of miles away. ——Zhang Jiuling 13. Young people enjoy getting to know each other, but in old age they miss their old friends. ——Han Yu 14. One death leads to a lifetime of friendship. One is poor and the other is rich, which is a state of acquaintance. One is noble and the other is humble, friendship is about seeing each other. ——"Historical Records" 15. It is better to dissolve enemies than to make enemies. Let each of us look back. ——Feng Menglong 16. We are brothers after landing, so why should we be close by flesh and blood? ——Tao Qian 17. Friends are those who unite with each other through righteousness. ——Zhu Xi 18. Gentlemen keep in touch with each other without making any bad remarks. ——"Warring States Policy" 19. The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. ——"Yanmen Collection" 20. Good friends are rare in the world. ——22. A gentleman is as light as water, and love becomes truer with time. Small people are like honey, and they are like enemies in a blink of an eye. ——"Xunzhizhai Collection" 23. Two people are of the same mind, and their sharpness can break through metal. --"easy. "Xici" 25. Knowing each other is precious in life, so why use gold and money? ——Li Bai 26. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends of the same way, and a villain and a villain are friends of the same interests.

——Ouyang Xiu 27. Even if we don’t meet each other, we will remember each other again. ——28. We are both fallen people at the end of the world. How can we meet each other before? ——Bai Juyi 29. Friendship becomes closer with age. ——30. When we meet, we smile; when we see each other, we cry. ——31. It is of no use to know each other even in times of crisis. ——Li Bai 3 4. Classical Chinese essays on making friends

1. High mountains and flowing water

Boya is good at playing the harp, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya is good at playing the harp, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. He said: "It's so good, it's as tall as Mount Tai." His ambition was on flowing water. Zhong Ziqi said: "It's so good, it's as tall as a river." What Boya thought about, Zhong Ziqi would definitely get it. When Ziqi died, Boya said he would see the world again. Ignorance of sound means that the harp is broken and the strings are broken, and the drums will never be played again.

Translation

Boya is good at playing the qin, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya played the harp and his ambition was in the mountains. Zhong Ziqi said: "Wonderful! It is as tall as Mount Tai!" Boya's ambition was in the flowing water. Zhong Ziqi said: "Wonderful! It is as mighty as a river!" Zhong Ziqi died. Later, Boya dropped his qin and stopped playing it for the rest of his life, thinking that there was no one in the world worthy of playing the qin for him. This is true not only for playing the piano, but also for sages. Even if there are virtuous people, no one will treat them well. Why should a virtuous person be loyal to others? The horse does not become a thousand-mile horse by itself, but waits until Bole appears.

2. Bao Jing is devoted to friendship.

Bao Jing is devoted to friendship and is good with Wu Donghu. When Wu died, his family was even more harmonious. When I heard that the daughter of Wu was going to be a good match, but she was too poor to dress up, I gave her her daughter's dowry as a gift, and I married her a year later. It is called the current theory.

Translation

Bao Jing and his friends are very loyal to each other and are good friends with Wu Donghu. After Wu Donghu's death, Bao Jingji took very good care of the Wu family. Later, when Bao Jing was about to get his daughter married, he heard that Wu Donghu's daughter was about to get married, but because the family was poor and could not prepare her own dowry, he gave her his daughter's dowry. His daughter was too late. She didn't get married until a year later. People at that time praised him for this. 5. Classical Chinese essays on friendship

When scholars fight for friends, they will not be separated from their names. ——"The Book of Filial Piety·Remonstrance and Admonishment"

Zhengyou: criticizing friend, a friend who gives outspoken advice

Name: good reputation

A person who has outspoken advice around him friends, you will always enjoy a good reputation.

Score points for making friends and sharpen rules. ——The Thousand-Character Essay by Zhou Xingsi of Liang Dynasty in the Southern Dynasty

To vote: to be congenial

To grind: to learn from each other

To admonish: to advise and admonish each other< /p>

Make like-minded friends, learn from each other, and advise each other.

Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you. It is beneficial to be friends with Tao, friends and understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable. If you are friendly and gentle, you will be harmed if you are friendly and sycophantic - "The Analects of Confucius·Ji"

Forgiveness: honesty

Benevolence: flattery and flattery

Kind and gentle: flattery in person

Flattery: good at sweet words

There are three kinds of friends who are helpful and three kinds of friends who are harmful. It pays to make friends with upright, honest, and well-informed people. It is harmful to make friends with people who flatter you, flatter you in person, slander you behind your back, and talk sweet words. 6. How to say friend in classical Chinese

Friend, old friend

Title of friend

Stone friend - a friend with a strong friendship. Dead friend - a deep friendship. Dude, a friend who will never betray him until death; Best friend - a friend with deep friendship; Suyou - a sincere and simple friend; Bad friend - a friend who does not think about himself (responsibly); Criticism friend - a friend who is frank and speaks his mind. Friends; Beneficial friends - friends who are helpful to oneself; Allies - friends who form alliances for specific purposes; Netizens - friends met on the Internet Literary friends - friends who engage in literary exchanges Close friends - close friends and best friends - -Friends who talk about everything in the boudoir. Pen pal - a friend who communicates through letters. Constant friend - a friend who will never leave you until forever. Friendships that last forever: break the differences in age and generation and become friends. Wangxingjiao: refers to the friendship between people of the opposite sex. Junzijiao: refers to moral friends, that is, friends who support each other morally. Don’t cross paths with each other: It means that each other has the same mind and will never disobey. Cutting one's neck to make love: refers to a deep and sincere friendship that can lead to life and death together and to overcome adversity. Friendship between chujiu and mortar: friendship regardless of poverty and status. Friendship between chujiu and mortar: friendship made when one is poor and downcast. Buyijiao: Friendship between each other without being an official. A friend in need: a friend who has gone through hardships and become friends. Best Friend: A friend with the deepest friendship and no suspicion. Shijiao: also known as Shiyi and Shihao. It generally refers to the friendship between the two families for generations. Old friend: also known as old friend, old friend, old friend. Generally refers to old friendships. A casual acquaintance: just acquaintance, but not much understanding. Market acquaintance: In ancient times, it refers to a friend made by doing business. Because of his excessive interest in profit and forgetfulness of loyalty, it was later called a friend of a villain. Friend: a friend who knows each other deeply. Jinlanzhijia: refers to a friend who has similar feelings. Later it also refers to sworn brothers. Bamboo horse friends: friends who rode bamboo horses for fun when they were young, refers to friends who have known each other since childhood. Reincarnation acquaintance: Become friends with someone from both father and son generations. Friendships between Che and Li: Friends who are not distinguished by their status. Friendship of gold and stone: Friendship is deep and as solid as gold and stone. Old acquaintance: A friend made in the past. Heartfelt acquaintance: A friend who talks about everything and confides in one's heart. Friendships of poetry and prose: Friends made through poetry and prose.

7. I want to be friends with you in classical Chinese

I want to become a commoner friend with you.

But different friends have different terms:

Commoner friends: refers to the friends made by ordinary people.

Cut-to-the-neck acquaintance: A friend who will not betray friendship even if his head is beheaded.

Inseparable friends: refers to friends who share the same mind and like each other.

Chujiujiaozhi: refers to a friend who does not mind the other person's poverty and lowliness.

Chelizhijiao: "refers to friends whose friendship relationship does not change due to changes in status.

Wangnianzhijiao: refers to friends with a large age difference and different generations but deep friendship .

Zongjiao refers to the friends made in childhood. Zongjiao is also called Zhumazhijiao. 8. An ancient poem about making friends with heart.

Jun. I am not poor if I have a genius.

- (Qing Dynasty) Zheng Banqiao knows each other in the world, and is like a neighbor in the world - (Tang Dynasty) Wang Bo is a fallen person in the world.

- (Tang Dynasty) Bai Juyi, don't worry about the future. No one in the world knows you. - (Tang Dynasty) Gao Shi, the best thing in the world is to make friends, and the best thing to do with friends is to talk about it.

- (Qing Dynasty) Pu Songling. The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other, and the most important thing for people to know each other is to understand each other. - Mencius The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as wine.

- (Warring States) Zhuangzi is red when he is close to Zhu, and black when he is close to ink - (Western Jin Dynasty) Fu Xuan knows each other in life.

- (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai makes friends with each other. Keep your word. - (Spring and Autumn Period) The friendship between Zi Xia and Bu Yi should not be forgotten. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Yanshou. (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu enjoys knowing each other.

- (Song Dynasty) Wang Anshi It is better to dissolve enemies than to make friends. - (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong is a hero in adversity.

-(Qing Dynasty) Wei Xi Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to come by, but a close friend is hard to find -(Qing Dynasty) Cao Xueqin exchanges my heart for yours, and we will know each other deeply

-(Song Dynasty) Gu Xia Zhongzi. When he dies, Boya will never play the piano again. - "Book of Han" The importance of mountains and rivers is not to meet one's friends.

- Bao Rong, a great man, should be trusted by heroes from all over the world. - "Book of the Three Kingdoms." "Liu Ba's Biography" A gentleman does not make accusations when making friends, and does not commit misconduct when making friends.

- "Book of Changes" If we know that we are brothers all over the world, we will never meet as old friends. - Chen Gang is a friend. /p>

- (Song Dynasty) Zhu Xi's clothes are not as good as new, and his people are not as good as before. - "Han Yuefu" One heart and one mind are the same.

- (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu's life is the same. Friendship is a sign of friendship.

Friendship is a sign of friendship.

- (Jin Dynasty) Tao Yuanming makes friends with each other, no matter how old or young they are. - (Tang Dynasty) Du Fu's heart-to-heart friendship never ends.

- (Tang Dynasty) Bai Juyi's friendship begins at the end. , Don't be separated by ups and downs. - (Tang Dynasty) Helan Jinming is happy today, and don't forget each other after farewell.

- (Three Kingdoms) Cao Zhi knows people all over the world, and knows how many people he knows. - (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong: Young people enjoy knowing each other, but in old age, they miss their old friends.

- (Tang Dynasty) Han Yu One is noble and the other is humble. - (Tang Dynasty) King Luo Bin It is of no use to know each other even in times of crisis.

- (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai Throw him a papaya and embrace him with a qiong yao. It is always good to be rewarded by bandits.

- "The Book of Songs" The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. - "Yanmen Collection" A friend who agrees with you will never tire of your affection, and a close friend will talk to you.

- (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong When two people work together, their sharpness can cut through metal. - "Book of Changes. Xi Ci" The baby is whining, please ask for his friend's voice.

- "The Book of Songs. Xiaoya" It is a joy to meet new friends. - (Warring States) Qu Yuan cut his throat to death.

- "Book of Han. Biography of Zhuge Feng" A close friend is rare in the world. - (Tang Dynasty) Meng Haoran Friends are always thoughtful.

- "The Analects of Confucius. Zilu" Reciprocity should be reciprocated. - "Book of Rites. Qu Li" A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to support benevolence.

- "The Analects of Confucius. Yan Yuan" Those who use money to make friends will lose their friendship when their wealth is exhausted; those who use sex to make friends will lose their beauty and love you. - "Warring States Policy" When the severe cold comes and frost and snow fall, you will know how luxuriant the pines and cypresses are.

- "Huainanzi" Those who unite with power will have their power exhausted and separated. - "Historical Records" A road can tell the power of horses, and time can tell people's hearts.

- "Selected Songs of the Yuan Dynasty. Strive to repay kindness" We know each other no matter how far we are, but we are still neighbors thousands of miles away. - (Tang Dynasty) Zhang Jiuling When we meet, we smile, and when we see each other, we cry.

- (Tang Dynasty) Wang Wei The water in Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, and it is not as deep as Wang Lun's love for me. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai Friendship becomes closer with age.

- (Tang Dynasty) Du Fu Although we have brothers, it is better to have friends. - "Baopuzi. Communication" A gentleman is as light as water, and love becomes truer with time.

Small people are like honey, and they are like enemies in a blink of an eye. - "Xun Zhi Zhai Collection" Friendship should not be superficial.

- "Baopuzi.Communication" The friendship between powerful forces is difficult to endure. - (Jin Dynasty) Lu Ji A husband must marry a poor man to make friends, and a poor man must be the first to marry someone.

- (Tang Dynasty) Gao Shi We are brothers after landing, so why should we be close by flesh and blood? - Tao Qian The taste is sweet but easy to spoil. Even at the end of the year, we know that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.

- (Southern Song Dynasty) Xin Qiji A gentleman never makes a bad sound when he is in a relationship. - "Warring States Policy" It is enough to know one thing in life, and the world should treat it with sympathy.

-Lu Xun It is better to find a friend who praises you than to find a friend who criticizes you. - "Contemporary Youth Talks about Life" When people help me, I will never forget it. When I help others, I won't forget it.

-Hua Luogeng Those who praise us behind our backs are our good friends. - (Western) Cervantes In fact, everyone has advanced and backward friends. The question is how to help the backward friends and make them progress. Don't follow him and follow the crowd. This is the real "friend enough" ".

-Xie Juezai Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance. - Ba Jin, three friends and four friends, eating, drinking and having fun, this is called "friends with fair and meat". When friends get together, they don't talk about work, study or politics, but only personal interests and anger. This is called "living in groups all day long, saying nothing". It’s righteousness”.

-Xie Juezai Friendship is always an assistant to virtue, not evil. -(Roman) Cicero Foolish friends are worse than wise enemies.

- (India) Gautama Buddha If you want to receive help in times of bad luck, you should be lenient to others in ordinary times. - (Persian) Saadi Those who attribute friendship to interests, I think, have written off the most precious thing in friendship.

- (Roman) Cicero Some people will praise you endlessly, but all of them are not friends in need - (English) Shakespeare Such an ungrateful person cannot be saved when he is in trouble. - (Greece) Aesop Friendship is really the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special admiration, but worthy of eternal praise.

- (Meaning) Bo Jiaqiu A villain who tends to be in favor of others cannot avoid trouble! - (British) Byron If you are wise, do not regard that person as your friend if he has a close friendship with your enemy. - (Persian) Saadi Friendship is always a sweet duty, never an opportunity.

- (Le) Gibran A friend in need is a friend. - (Soviet) Lenin Friends will know us when we are happy; we will know our friends when we are in trouble.

- (English) Collins Friends who abandon you in an emergency cannot be trusted. - (Greece) Aesop Do not gain friends by gifts.

You must devote your sincere love and learn how to win someone's heart in the right way. - (Greece) Suragtes It is better to choose friends carefully and to discard them even more carefully.

- (American) Fulang Green Friends are the defenders against sorrow, unhappiness and fear, and are the jars of friendship and trust. - "Five Volumes" Keep a certain distance between friends to make friendship last forever.

- Charles Insidious friendship allows you to gain a little though. 9. Ancient Chinese proverbs about making friends

杵杷之交: Refers to making friends regardless of high or low.

"Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio·Cheng Xian": "Wen Deng Zhou Sheng, and Cheng Sheng, a young master, made a pen and inkstone, so they ordered a pestle and a mortar to cross." - pestle and pestle cross, mortar and mortar cross, pestle and mortar Intersect, it’s hard to find such an idiot nowadays.

As the saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together”. Friendship between ordinary people: refers to the friendship between ordinary people.

"Historical Records·Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "I thought that a friend of commoners should not be deceived, how about a big country?" - It is easy to make friends with commoners, but it is difficult to make friends with them after they change from commoners to brocade. Because "three sentences are inseparable from one's own profession", there is no longer the same language.

Cut-to-the-neck acquaintance: refers to a friend who will never change his heart even if he loses his head. "Historical Records·Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "The dead and the happy are the friends who cut their necks."

——How could there be such a fool? ! Don’t you see, how many couples today who are “birds of a feather” in the same forest, “go their separate ways” when disaster strikes, and “those who know the current affairs are heroes”! Inseparable acquaintances: Refers to friends who like each other. "Northern History·Sima Ying's Biography": "So he traveled around and became a celebrity for a while.

Together with Xing Zicai, Wang Jing, etc., he was Mo Ni's friend." - The so-called "Mo Ni" may have a purpose The forged yu that comes with the outfit is just like the real thing.

Life is a drama. As long as everyone is happy with the "friendship", there is no need to be so careless and serious about exposing it. Friendly friends: refers to interactions based on talent and virtue regardless of age.

"The Biography of He Xun in Southern History": "Fan Yun of Nanxiang saw Xun's countermeasures and greatly appreciated him, because he became a close friend." - In a country that advocates young, knowledgeable and professional leadership In modern times, it is also an effective way for "elderly" to "make friends" to leave a way out for themselves and their relatives and friends, not to mention it is also known as "approachable".

Bamboo-horse acquaintance: refers to childhood acquaintance.

"Shishuo Xinyu·Fangzheng": "The Emperor said: Would it be good to talk about the old and recall the bamboo horse?" - In what age is this still popular? ! Let the past be gone. Why bother persisting as before? People should "look forward (money, power)"! Gentleman's acquaintance: refers to a friend who seems to be very ordinary and focuses on morality.

"Zhuzi·Shanlin": "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." ——What’s so good about boiled water? It’s better to drink Coke! Chelizhijiaozhi: Refers to friends who are not distinguished by their status.

In order to make friends, we must pay homage to each other and run to our wives, and we must be courteous... I wish you well: "Even if you are riding in a car, I will wear a hat, and I will get off the car and bow to you the day after tomorrow; even though I am walking, you will ride on a horse, and I will be here when we meet you the day after tomorrow." - Haha, this is it. I'm afraid it's for others to see, right? Didn't you see that today's "adults" always invite reporters or "long-tongued people" every time they go to the countryside? Friendship between gold and stone: refers to a friendship that is as deep as gold and stone.

"Han Shu·Han Xin Biography": "Now I think I have friendship with the King of Han in gold and stone, but in the end I am captured by the King of Han." - "Now I think I have friendship with the King of Han in gold and stone, but I end up being captured by him." The king of Han captured him." Looking at today, I think it is true! Jinlanzhijia: Refers to friends who have a close friendship and are like brothers.

"Shishuo Xinyu·Xian Ai": "The monkey meets Ji and Ruan, and they are as close as a golden orchid." - "Blood brothers" still "clearly settle accounts", let alone friends? ! It's just "Qi Ruo Jinlan".