But in fact, no one can guarantee the future life of others.

Most of this sentence is also our words to comfort our friends. No one can guarantee that the next one he meets will be better than his predecessor.

This is also the trouble that most people will encounter when they are in love.

When we are not satisfied with the love in front of us, what should we do if we are separated from him and can't find a better one? Or what if I can't meet the next one?

So many people will keep doing it, and some people will even do it for a lifetime.

Ask friends around you if you feel a lot of discomfort when you are together.

The two are very different in many aspects, and they have not improved after running in for a long time.

But because I invested too much sunk cost, I thought it was ok. Maybe I'm separated, and I can't even find such a thing.

Let's rationally analyze that if we continue to be with this person, we will turn a bad love into a bad marriage, and the probability of a bad ending is 100%.

But if you leave here, there may be several situations: meet better, meet worse, and stay single.

At this time, even if the probability of meeting a better person is 1%, it is much better than living with an unsuitable person all the time.

Will you find a better man than him after breaking up? What most women are worried about is.

What should I do in the face of this situation?

Psychologist Adler put forward the theory of subject separation.

Simply put, it is to learn to distinguish who should be the "subject" of what is bothering you at the moment.

Take the above things for example, in fact, it can be divided into two topics:

1. Should we break up with the wrong man?

2. Can you find a better one after separation?

However, many people like to solve these two things together.

This makes things that could have been simple more complicated.

Will you find a better man than him after breaking up? What most women are worried about is.

Now I'm afraid to separate from this unsuitable man, because I don't know if I can find a better one in the future.

Let the two things that were originally separated be mutually causal.

This will be difficult to solve, and eventually it will even lead to an endless cycle of things in a bad direction.

Because no one can guarantee that if you break up with an unsuitable partner now, the next one will find a better one.

Will you find a better man than him after breaking up? What most women are worried about is.

At this time, if the "theme analysis theory" is adopted to solve it.

First of all, "break up with the wrong person". If you have tried your best but it is still inappropriate, it should be natural to break up.

At this time, breaking up actually provides new possibilities for your life.

Because when you have a boyfriend, of course, you can't have both feet and look for another possibility.

Then, "I'm afraid I can't find a better man." What you are worried about is whether you have the ability to attract excellent men.

At this time, I will try to be excellent and enhance my charm, instead of finding a man who is not good enough to work together.

In fact, this problem can be refined. Maybe you will worry that "the circle is too small, and there are few opportunities to meet excellent men. When you are old, I don't know if you can meet better ones"?

At this time, each topic is decomposed and then refined.

And then solve every little problem.

It's much better than you can't enjoy the present safely and pursue the future bravely.

Will you find a better man than him after breaking up? What most women are worried about is.

In fact, many emotional problems are very applicable.

In love, many girls often confuse their problems and finally mix them together, which becomes an insoluble dead end.

At this time, we might as well use the theory of topic analysis to try, break down complex problems into several small topics and then solve them one by one.

Maybe you will find that when you solve the last project, you get the key to the next project.

If you solve it from another angle, maybe after solving the problems of "life failure" and "bad feelings" that plague you at present, isn't it another possibility of your life?