The whole poem asks for sympathy.

Help each other at different times.

Pinyin xiāng rú yǐ mò

explain

Hey: wet; Bubble: spit. The spring dried up, and two fish spat at each other and wet each other to save their lives. It is a metaphor for a family to help each other and prolong their lives with their own meager strength under difficult circumstances.

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Master Zhuangzi: "When the spring is dry, the fish are on land, so it is better to forget each other when the rivers and lakes are wet. It is better to get carried away than to be arrogant. "

When the spring is dry, the two fish run aground on the land together, exhaling and spitting at each other, nourishing each other, and looking very kind and just. It's better to wait until the lake is full and then swim back to the rivers and lakes and forget each other from now on. Instead of praising Yao and condemning Jie, it is better to forget both and attribute their actions to the original law of things. )

example

Or lower your head and ask the people for help. ★ Liang Qing Liang Qichao's On Foreign Debt

synonym

Adversity and * * never give up.

use

Partial form; As predicate, attribute, object and adverbial; It contains commendatory meaning, which is mostly used for mutual care between old couples, and now it has been extended to mutual care between relatives and friends.

Deep interpretation

Zhuangzi

In essence, caring for each other is an instinctive survival behavior, without emotion.

The first fish has a very short memory time.

Second, fish can't nourish themselves.

The third kind of fish has the most primitive and simple kind nature and survival instinct.

It can be seen that this is a subconscious behavior.

Zhuangzi called this natural phenomenon the behavior of animals,

Describe people in a calm tone,

Express his spiritual realm and opinions without heart, affection or involvement.

Now it is often used to describe the feelings, interdependence and mutual support between people.

It is often used to describe the affection between the middle-aged generation and the elderly generation, and the love between the elderly couple.

It can also be used to describe absolute frankness or simple interdependence, such as childhood friends.

Young adults and young people use this word somewhat affectedly, empty and untrue.

Now this idiom has been widely used, but it is often abused when describing love and some informal news information.

After ignoring Zhuangzi's personal views, we use metaphors to describe people's feelings.

Need to be used in the same predicament or not very good situation,

Instead of praising the loyalty and irretrievability of love.

That would distort the original intention.

In an era when information is highly falsifiable, learn how to properly use the famous sayings and quips of our ancestors.

It is a kind of respect and inheritance for ancestors and China traditional culture. [Edit this paragraph] Allusions During the Warring States Period, Zhuangzi's family was very poor and often ate the last meal without the next one. His wife told him to go out to borrow grain, so he went to the supervisor Hou to borrow grain. Hou Jianhe promised to borrow it again in the autumn, but Zhuangzi said it was too far to quench his thirst and went home. His wife asked him to borrow it from another place. He said that to live with each other like a crucian carp in estrus, it is better to "forget it, change it."

My wife had to secretly shed tears, got a divorce certificate and soon married a rich man and lived a happy life.

Two fish were trapped in the rut. In order to survive, two small fish feed each other with water in their mouths. Such a scene may be touching, but such a living environment is abnormal and even helpless. For fish, the ideal situation is that the sea will eventually flood and the two fish will finally return to their own world. Finally, they forgot each other in the rivers and lakes. In their most suitable place, live happily, forget each other and forget life.

Fish that can be forgotten may be the happiest. And what if one of them cannot be forgotten?

Maybe the same is true of people and feelings.

Sometimes, in order to survive, it is necessary and helpless to care for each other.

"Caring for each other" may be very touching; And "rivers and lakes forget each other" is a realm, which may require an open and indifferent attitude.

Being able to forget and give up is also a kind of happiness.

We once loved some people deeply. When I am in love, I regard the morning and evening as eternity, and I regard a moment as being loved for a lifetime, so I promise, so I hope to hold your hand and live happily ever after. Then everything disappears, and then we finally understand that eternity is a rare thing and happiness is a mysterious and fragile thing. Maybe love has nothing to do with happiness, maybe the ultimate happiness in this life has nothing to do with the person in the deepest part of my heart, maybe one day in the future, we will hold someone's hand and see the scenery all over our lives.

In fact, there is nothing to promise and nothing to lose. Everything has its own destination. We learned to bow our heads, learn not to force, learn to hide deeply, bury you deeply, and hide in places where the smoke and dust of the years can't reach.

Just, just why on a rainy night, on a silent night, you still fade in and out vaguely in my heart; Fade out, fade in, take away and erase.

I used to love you so much; I thought you were the reason for happiness.

Now, look back on our past. Used to be considered a matter of mutual concern?

It's easier said than done.

There may be two kinds of feelings in the world that can be called love, one is to love each other and kill each other, and the other is to forget each other.

"It is better to forget the rivers and lakes when the fish are on land in spring."

-"Zhuangzi Generation Master"

After the spring dried up, the two fish didn't leave in time, and finally they were trapped in a small depression on land. Two fish live together day and night, unable to move, wetting each other with foam, enduring each other's blowing and the pain of rubbing their bodies when turning around. At this time, the two fish can't help but miss the free and happy life in the rivers and lakes.

This story is just people's fantasy. The truth is that the sea will always overflow, and two fish will eventually return to their own world. Finally, they will forget each other in the rivers and lakes. Yes, the beauty is old and instantly young. She was reluctant to part with her homesickness and was forgotten in the Jianghu. [Edit this paragraph] The song "Love each other"

Xuanfupang

Word: flammable

Song: Chen Shi.

Singing: Chen Shi.

Rap: Qiqi

[V]:

The walls are mottled and the flowers have already fallen.

Once young and infatuated, now there is only silence.

What should be said has been said, but what should be done has not been done.

The carvings on the stones are all black and humorous.

[Ding Shuang]:

It's late at night, and thoughts pass by. Who remembers that promise?