I often hear a saying: "Explanation is concealment." When faced with people who don't understand you, the more you explain, the more unbelievable it is, and the darker the description becomes, the more you can't defend yourself.

When encountering this kind of situation, you can only remain silent, without any need to defend or explain. Because people who understand you don't need it, and people who don't understand you don't believe it. If you say too much, it's just in vain and only increases resentment.

"Those who know me say that I am worried; those who do not know me say that I am worried." It comes from "The Book of Songs". People who understand my mood know that I am melancholy and worried; People who don't understand my mood may think that I have some request or agenda for staying here.

For people who think differently, you cannot force them to reach a consensus with you. You can only do your own thing well, with a clear conscience, and do not need other people's understanding. You will see the difference in the future.

"A road can tell the strength of a horse, but time can tell a person's heart." This proverb urges us not to be discouraged. The good and the bad will be clear in the future, and we should not rush to explain it temporarily.

What kind of person you are, different people will have different evaluations. If you are a simple person, people who know you will think you are cute and innocent; people who don't know you will say you are a scheming person who is pretending to be naive.

If you are a sincere person and you meet people who don’t believe you, think you are untrue, and always suspect that you are telling lies.

So it’s not that you are not good enough, but that the other person doesn’t recognize it. No matter how hard you try to change the other person’s point of view, it’s to no avail and only increases your worries. Be yourself, don't explain, time is the best proof.

The Italian poet Dante once said: "Go your own way and let others tell you!" This sentence has become the motto of many people.

Encourage yourself that when you encounter criticism from others, you must not forget your original intention, move forward courageously, insist on doing what you think is right, do not be trapped in right and wrong, concentrate on being yourself, do not complain, do not Explain, use all your energy to do useful things, instead of wasting time justifying to others and making yourself distressed and sad.

"If you are upright, you are not afraid of slanted shadows." "A pure person will be pure himself." These famous sayings are all about believing in yourself, not being afraid of rumors, and insisting on yourself.

Life is not easy. To live a beautiful life requires a lot of patience. If you don’t complain or explain, you will be an outstanding person.

The world is colorful, and so is life. Everyone has a different life. Only when you face difficulties, can you be flexible, be patient, be yourself, and stick to the right things, will your life shine brightly and be brilliant!