I believe that every love is a natural result, and no one will deliberately make a fuss about age. If you accidentally fall in love with an elder sister, you can be forgiven. For one thing, you can't look at other people's ID cards or household registration books. For another, a woman's age, like a man's income and the number of copies of a magazine, can't be asked, not to mention that love has nothing to do with age. I dare not say that all brother-sister relationships are pure without any impurities, just as I can't believe that all love is 24K pure gold. Some younger brothers fall in love with their sisters, but they still have some ideas. Either they have money, or they have good looks, or they have both wealth and good looks. Of course, for purely romantic purposes, quite a few younger brothers still fell in love with their sisters.

Some people don't think much of brother-sister love, and think that the younger brother will have second thoughts as he grows older. For the sake of money, after the money is available; For the sake of appearance, after the death of beauty; Those who pursue romance, after the romance has been honed by life ... the love between brother and sister is very likely to vanish. This kind of worry is understandable, and it seems to tell some truth. However, in reality, most of the people who break up are not sisters and younger brothers, but brothers and sisters, even uncles and nieces, and occasionally grandfathers and granddaughters. Of course, there is a probability problem here. After all, the love between brother and sister is low. In fact, there is no need to make a fuss about the love between brothers and sisters, because there are only three kinds of relationships in love: falling in love with someone older than you, falling in love with someone younger than you, and falling in love with someone your age. Sister-in-law love is only one-third of its probability. The reason why sister-in-law love attracts attention and becomes a topic is because subconsciously, the idea of an old man with fewer wives is at work. It seems to be an unchangeable law that men are older than women in our country.

Sister-in-law love, on the other hand, illustrates the role change of men in China. From caring for others to being cared for by others, it seems that men need more care. After working hard outside, when they come home, men seem to need women to hurt them more. Think about it. If you come home with a woman who needs more care than you, how can you get a share of care in the hard porridge of marriage?

I think the love between brother and sister still has considerable advantages. At least, the title of elder sister gives people a lot of beautiful memories and imagination: only elder sister will be as kind as sofa, as kind as bench and as intimate as underwear; Only the elder sister has a wine-like personality, quiet like a shepherd's purse, and warmer eyes than a stove fire ... Oh, elder sister, what a beautiful word, her hand is as gentle as a dove, and she is tied with braided hair's elder sister, always associated with her hometown, poplars and rape blossoms. That is the warmth, the valley of dreams and the gurgling stream in the valley, the morning glow and the moonlight. Of course, if we do something wrong, my sister will criticize us warmly. What is lacking between husband and wife is actually sister-style criticism (mostly pique or quarrel). If a person has not been hurt by her sister, it is a great pity. Therefore, in today's more and more single children, parents can't give birth to a sister for us, so marry one. Besides, sister-in-law love also has the support of public opinion: female freshman, holding a golden rooster; Female sophomore, holding gold nuggets; Female junior, holding the golden brick; Female senior, holding the best; Female big five, the old mother; Female sixth year, holding golden beans; Female seventh, smiling; Female big eight, destined to send; Women are big and nine, and they have everything ... These are all the opinions of the masses-the eyes of the masses are of course bright!

In my sister's view, having a lover like a younger brother also gives her natural maternal love a chance to show. Dr. Barclay, a famous biblical annotation expert in Ireland, said that there are three elements in a happy life: one is hope, the other is something to do, and the third is being able to love others. In the eyes of my sister, my younger brother is like the sun at eight or nine o'clock in the morning, and certainly more hopeful than the sun at twelve noon or even two o'clock in the afternoon. Counseling and educating my younger brother is also a very interesting thing. "Being able to love"-Although Dr. Barclays' original intention of "being able to love" means "being able to fall in love with anyone, including the neighbor who occupies the public corridor", I am willing to misinterpret it as: your younger brother's liveliness, simplicity and naughty will also make you feel interesting, relaxed and happy, and of course you can fall in love with your neighbor who occupies the public corridor better.

Sister-in-law love, far away, is Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai in A Dream of Red Mansions. Nearby, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, Fang Zuming and Guan Enna, Wu Qiong and Ruan Xun in the entertainment industry, Madonna and Geric abroad, Orlando Bloom and Diane Kruger in Troy ... These are all successful cases, so it can be seen that sister-in-law love is also very operable in reality.

Some people joke that another advantage of brother-sister love is that because most men leave a few years earlier than women, older sisters will be widowed for several years. If God has eyes, it will even make up for a regret between husband and wife for generations: You and I don't want to be born on the same day in the same year, but we want to die on the same day in the same year.