Seeking others and seeking oneself

Everyone needs to rely on external forces to develop more or less. This is the opportunity for life to be created by external factors. However, internal changes and creations often play a certain role. This is a philosophical issue in which internal factors determine external factors in the development process of objective things. It is also an obvious issue. Perhaps it is because the principle is so simple that it is so difficult to do it. At least most people don’t do it or do it better! The so-called external cause is asking for help from others, while the internal cause I explained is asking for help from oneself. The principle that it is better to seek oneself than others, is an eternal magic weapon for human success. Standing independently can be called the basis of one's own independent existence. The process in life is no different than this. Relying on the grace of others, you can only exist as an existence. Without your own concept of survival, you can't even talk about being a walking zombie. "Frustration in life has no north or south." A gentleman who is frustrated has no determination, even though he may be poor. However, his experience has won people's respect. A gentleman should strengthen himself and never give up! There are many similar examples in life, and there are also many self-pitys. The most obvious one here is the scholar. I often feel that the interpretation of "down-and-out literati" is nothing more than this type of person: "I have wisdom, but I was born at the wrong time and had bad luck. I am experiencing suffering and the blow of love." I sighed and tried to change reality. Therefore, for this kind of people, without self, success will often be further and further away from him! For an individual's life, everyone is the shaper of his own life and destiny, and relying on others will eventually lead to his own collapse. The vines under the towering ancient trees will be doomed without the support of the big trees. Any relief that life brings to you is of temporary significance. Learning to overcome worries by yourself is the only way to win in life. The terror and despair that once existed, suddenly find that when you use your mind to relieve yourself and get rid of it, one day it will become invisible. Maybe it will become an endless source of motivation in your life. For some people and things in the past, I once felt the nihility of everything I had. Among them, these are just clouds and smoke. There was a moment when I spent money like water and went to shopping malls to express my ambitions, but completely forgot about myself. You have been knocked down by fate and tortured both spiritually and physically. What can you do about that blow? Whether it's unprecedented or ordinary. He frowned and sighed. Friends quietly leave your side, and all the soil in life is drying up. The best outcome of the initial nagging pain is just a sympathetic look from a friend. As a result, you will increasingly find that similar outpourings do nothing to relieve your own suffering. So, after a long time, even you feel bored. At that time, you should have grown up now, and your pain and sorrow should be relics from another world. You have to let go, otherwise you will never be able to stand and walk again on your own. So, you choose a kind of human transcendence. It is better to seek eternal transcendence than to seek oneself from others! The best helping hand "Why is this happening?" I stared at the doctor in front of me in shock. But he just looked at me wordlessly, with sympathy and pity in his eyes. I will lose my hearing, the most precious thing in my life. Maybe to others, this is nothing, at most it's just that they can't hear the sound. But I can’t, music is everything to me. And it has to fly through my ears. "Help me, doctor, you know, I must not hear. Help me, heal my ears..." I begged the doctor over and over again. However, he gently pushed my hand away: "I'm sorry, I can't help." No, I don't believe that there must be someone in this world who can help me. I can definitely find someone who can fix my ears. However, before that person appeared, I lost all hearing. I felt like I was going crazy. I grabbed the hands of everyone who came close to me: "Please, help me, help me!" But they all had sympathy and pity in their eyes. These are not what I need. But they were the ones that accompanied me all the time when I learned that I was going to lose my hearing. what do I do? What should be done? I shut myself tightly in the room, and my world was silent. I stared blankly at the bird on the tree in the courtyard through the window, and I could feel it singing. What a wonderful thing it would be if I could still hear its graceful singing. Suddenly, it seemed that the sound of birds really appeared in my ears, so loud and clear.

Then, I thought of "Pastoral", and all the notes appeared in my mind. I recalled the quietness and serenity when the music sounded. Finally, "Destiny", when I wrote it, I didn't think it would inspire me. But now when its gorgeous music echoes in my ears, my almost desperate heart quietly wakes up. When the climax came, I clenched my fists tightly. I understand that the only one who can save me now is myself. Yes, I have lost the happiness of "listening" to music, but I still have the opportunity to "feel" music. I clearly remember the sound of each key pressed, and I deeply experienced the magic of each note, so music has never left me. I don't need to beg others to help me. I held a metal strip between my teeth and pressed it against the piano. In this way, when I composed music, I could "hear" the "sound" through the vibration of the metal strip; in this way, I could "hear" the "sound" without any worries. I embrace music again; in this way, I have the whole world again. I saved myself by my own efforts, when no one helped me. I am still standing in the Vienna concert hall without fear, as usual, using the baton in my hand to lead people into a pure and beautiful world. And people will always remember my name - Beethoven because of my immortal music. Summary of content: Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves, so you don't need me to save you." The man immediately jumped out of the eaves and stood in the rain: "Now I am also in the rain, it's time to save me." Am I dead?" It's better to ask for help than to ask for yourself. Someone was hiding from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by with an umbrella. The man said, "Guanyin Bodhisattva, please save all sentient beings. How about taking me with you?" Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves, so you don't need me to save you." "The man immediately jumped out of the eaves and stood in the rain: "Now I am also in the rain, is it time to save me?" Guanyin said: "You are in the rain, and I am also in the rain. I am not getting wet because I have an umbrella; you Got caught in the rain because there was no umbrella. Therefore, it is not me who saves myself, but the umbrella that saves me. If you want to be saved, you don’t need to come to me. Please find an umbrella yourself!" After saying that, he left. The next day, the man encountered a problem, so he went to the temple to pray for Guanyin. When he walked into the temple, he found the statue of Guanyin in front of him. There was also a man worshiping, and that man looked exactly like Guanyin. The man asked, "Are you Guanyin?" The man replied, "I am Guanyin." "The man asked again: "Then why do you still worship yourself?" Guanyin smiled and said: "I have also encountered difficulties, but I know that it is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself. There is a lyric in "The Internationale": "There has never been a savior, everything can only be relied on by yourself." As long as you have the strength and self-confidence to turn to yourself in times of trouble, everyone can become his or her own Guanyin. If you rely too much on others, you will fail. If you blindly place your hopes on others without actively creating conditions to change your own destiny, you are like an idiot without a brain. Everything you have is in the hands of others. Therefore, to do things well, we can learn from the experience of others, but we must never rely on others. In the end, we have to rely on ourselves to constantly explore, summarize, and find a method that suits us to get things done.