Escaping, not necessarily hiding, facing, not necessarily the most uncomfortable; Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, and it may not last long if you get it; Losing, not necessarily no longer, turning around, not necessarily the weakest; Don't rush to say that there is no choice, thinking that there is only right and wrong in the world; There is not only one answer to many things, so we always have a way to go.
Don't make your heart too tired. You should learn to be open-minded, let go, learn not to force, learn to hide, relax yourself in time, find an outlet, and decompress your tired mind. People are worried because they have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory. We often remember what should be forgotten and forget what should be remembered. People are tired because they think too much.
Meteors, across the dark night sky, release fleeting light, although weak, but no one can ignore its existence. Life is like a meteor, full of surprises and legends, like a beautiful legend, whether it will be as short as a meteor, others can't decide, and God can't decide, only oneself can master it. If you like, meteors can be eternal.
Method is more important than knowledge, knowledge is not wisdom, and the method to solve problems is wisdom. Knowledge is not power, but wisdom is real power. Education is to make people think. Thinking ability is more important and effective than memory. Poor health is waste, and bad thoughts are drugs. Personality is a person's real highest education, personality, the basis of showing people's ability, and a rare and precious quality in today's society.
Time is a memory at any stage. When you calm down and listen, time will go back, stay in a corner, and play the story in your heart again in a certain time and space. Once met, once cherished, once in each other's life time, only remember that beautiful, so sweet. Although there is no chance, there is no regret.
Many times, it is not others who hurt us, but ourselves. That person is gone, your sadness and depression, he won't know, even if he does, it won't change anything. You don't have to pretend, but you must let yourself see the facts clearly, and leave the rest to time. I believe that time will heal everything.
Love does not pay attention to fairness, and what can be fair will not be love. You can be willing to give everything for others, but you can't ask others to give anything for you; You may not want to abandon others, but when you are abandoned, you can't blame the ruthlessness of love.
I have been in the noise, but I am so lonely. All the colors around were scorched by strong light, lost moisture and gradually turned into a unified pallor. Affection. Love. Friendship. It's all falling apart. I have to pretend to be fascinated by the colorful fragments reflected in the sun.
A person's most vulnerable place is reluctance. I can't bear the feeling that it is no longer wonderful, a vanity, and applause. We always think that the best days will be long and we don't have to leave so soon. Just when we were soft-hearted and lacked courage, the best days passed mercilessly.
Sometimes, I suddenly feel insecure; Sometimes, I don't have the courage; Sometimes I pretend to be happy; Sometimes, I will be willful; I will cry for small things; I will also be too excited to sleep because of small things; I have always felt that I am not good enough. I admit, I am not perfect, but I am real.
Being single for a long time and not wanting to fall in love will make friends more and more important; Being single for a long time, I don't want to go shopping, and I like listening to songs at home more and more; Single for a long time, will become mature, will love their parents more than before; I have been single for a long time, bought a lot of shoes and traveled far away by myself. Single for a long time, inadvertently quietly shed tears, it doesn't matter what happens in front of everyone. Being single for a long time becomes a habit.
Although I am willing to pay deep affection for you, I will never drag you down. If one day you feel bored, you can let go of my hand at any time without even giving me any reason. Because I know I'm ready to accept everything you bring me, good or bad. The love in my heart exists only for feeling.
Learn to endure loneliness, so that you can grow. Young people are used to playing and laughing. When they are in a strange environment, facing all kinds of people and things, they are at a loss, and sometimes there is no place to talk. Don't be impetuous, learn to be calm and bear loneliness. Think in loneliness, mature in thinking and sublimate in maturity. Don't lose your mind because of loneliness.
There are many kinds of the most beautiful girls: she may be the beauty of love at first sight, the beauty of smile, the beauty of figure, the beauty of soul, the beauty of discovering nature and things around her ... every girl will have her own beauty, depending on whether you can explore yourself and dare to show yourself!
If you want to live without fatigue, you have to compare less, if you want to live without annoyance, you have to care less, if you want to live without bitterness, you have to be lazy less, and if you want to live without regret, you have to be reckless less. If you can regard work as exercise, busyness as enjoyment, frustration as growth, loss as gain, misfortune as nightmare and success as the past, then your life will feel extremely relaxed and comfortable.
Learn to be lonely's classic quotation: After loneliness, growth comes.
With the growth of age, more and more girls understand that no one can accompany them all their lives, so they always have to adapt to loneliness. The following is what I want to share with you: learn to be lonely's classic quotation: Growing up after loneliness. Let's have a look!
1, there is a kind of loneliness. It is not that you have done something without company, but that you have done something without understanding.
2, before loneliness is confusion, after loneliness is growth.
May you be more afraid of loneliness than others, and may you be moved by yourself in the future.
4, the strength of people, in addition to self-confidence, persistence, there is a very important point is to learn to enjoy loneliness. Whether someone understands and sympathizes with your sadness or not, you should learn to communicate with yourself. Loneliness seems to be a person, but it is actually a communication between yourself and yourself. Loneliness is also called finding yourself.
A strong and independent person is lonely in essence, because she doesn't want others to see her weakness, and others can't get into her heart.
6. Loneliness is hard to persist. Most people are just lonely and have to be lonely. Often fall out with loneliness, and then sit down and cry and make up.
7. When one day, you find that your emotions can't be expressed in words, but you would rather let yourself gradually disappear in the brightly lit streets at the beginning of the night. This is loneliness.
8. Every excellent person has a period of silence. During that time, I made a lot of efforts, endured loneliness and loneliness, and I didn't complain. Even when I talked about it later, I could be moved.
9. When loneliness becomes a habit, when loneliness is indispensable in life, life seems to become unchangeable. So, in the end, I still like a person.
10, there is a lonely sea under my eyes. In fact, it's just a haze you left behind.
1 1. I love Sophora japonica, and I love Sophora japonica as white as snow. I remember always wandering on the path, watching over and over again whether the locust tree was in bud. Perhaps, in my memory, Sophora japonica is my companion when I am lonely in spring.
12, I embarked on a road longer than memory. Accompanied by me is the loneliness like a pilgrim. I have a smile on my face, but my heart is full of sadness. Che Guevara
13, some people like loneliness, but they don't like disappointed places.
The above is about: learn to be lonely's classic quotation, loneliness is followed by growth and sharing, I hope it will help you.
The mature classic says: learn to endure loneliness before you mature.
First, maturity does not depend on how old you are, but on how much responsibility your shoulders can provoke. True happiness is earned bit by bit and accumulated day by day. Don't hurt the people who love you, and don't let the people you love get hurt.
Second, the uncertainty is not in the other person's heart, and there is no need to test emotions at all. It is enough to have those well-known feelings.
Third, we can forget the past, but we must let it go.
Fourth, just because a good-tempered person is not easy to get angry doesn't mean that he won't get angry; Just because a person with a good personality is playing dumb doesn't mean there is no bottom line.
Five, along the way, every season is incomplete, and every story has a dark wound.
Six, two people together is to be happy, break up is to alleviate the pain, you can't make me happy anymore, I have to leave. When I left, I was also in pain. However, you must be more miserable than me, because I said goodbye first, and I was the first person to pursue happiness.
Seven, the things that have gone can't be kept, and the lost feelings can't be loved anymore. If you could stay and love, there wouldn't be today.
Eight, when you determine your principles, don't give in again and again, learn to say no, and learn to be yourself.
Make your own decisions, and then be prepared to bear the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no regret medicine in the world, and I will always have a plan B.
10. In an era when idealism is widely ridiculed, one should persist in being an idealist, not because of naivety, but because of spiritual maturity and consciousness.
In the early days of life, the more troublesome and lazy you are, the more likely you are to miss the people and things you are interested in and the new scenery later.
Twelve, don't take everything seriously, don't go to a dead end, don't be too proud, don't be narrow-minded. Don't care, it is an open-minded and free and easy.
Thirteen, there are too many things worth loving in this world. When we discover this, we will not be afraid of pain and loss. Don't be afraid of loneliness, learn to spare no effort to what you love.
Whenever you say "I love you", please be sincere. Whenever you say "I'm sorry", please look the other person in the eye.
Fifteen, love is not precious until it is separated, and many people don't know how to cherish it. I didn't find it until I lost it. In fact, what I know best is the most precious.
Sixteen, love a person, is to grow up with him for a long time and die together in the last few years of life.
17. Don't try to make any excuses for yourself. No one likes the excuses before mistakes.
I don't know what to say, but I suddenly miss her at that moment.
Each of us lives in our own past. It takes a minute to get to know someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, and finally, it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Twenty, growing up and maturing are two different things. I like growing up and hate maturity. Growing up is a sad thing, because maturity contains restraint, forbearance and hypocrisy. If something is not yours, it will never be yours. This is for you. You take it.
Twenty-one, love is like picking fruit, picking it too early, the fruit is not mature, bitter and astringent, and it is difficult to swallow; Picked too late, the fruit is fully mature, either falling from the branches or being preempted by others. Picking fruits in time is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a kind of fate.
Life is short, you should go crazy, love, waste, dream and regret.
Twenty-three, people's feelings are sometimes like sweaters. You should be careful when knitting. Just pull it gently when you open it, maybe it's just a joke, maybe it's an unintentional misunderstanding, and all the feelings will never be seen again! There are not many friends, but you are in the storm; No matter how long you have been in love, it is important to be responsive.
24. Don't trample on your dignity. You can live without him, but you can't live without dignity. Remember, he doesn't love you and he can't see anything you do.
Twenty-five, even if individuals can wait, the times are hasty and are already being destroyed, and more harm is yet to come.
Twenty-six, find some time alone.
Twenty-seven, the so-called maturity is to truly understand the decline of life. There must be a reason for gains and losses. No longer resist, accept this desolation calmly. There were more and more joys and more losses. Once dazzling, it will be dim. Treat the sadness of life with an accepting attitude. Don't leave anything.
Twenty-eight, graduation is a cruel season, mature and immature to harvest together; Cherish the happiness in front of you, don't wait until you lose it to regret it; Don't make promises easily; Please continue to be ambitious. Great ideals may not come true, but you will move forward and not fall down.
Twenty-nine, from each according to his ability, and strive to achieve a hundred points.
30. Life is when you take an umbrella and it doesn't rain, but you forget to take it when it rains. Life is that the boss didn't see it when he worked hard, and was caught when he was lazy to fish; Life is that the man you like doesn't like me, and the man you don't like still doesn't like me; Life is when you start to think about what life is, and you mature.
Thirty-one, don't choose love because you are lonely. In fact, a person can have many beautiful things.
32. When a woman meets love, she will become cautious and find all the shortcomings of a man.
No matter how sad you are, don't show it easily. There is no need for others to bear your pain.
34. Love is when a person turns from a one-way street to a two-way street with a hazy mood.
Thirty-five, broad-minded. Mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet petty advantages, don't care about eating small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" in small family quarrels.
I don't want my family to start with lies. It's disgusting.
Thirty-seven, some things, not care, but care. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results. Maturity is to face all the little things with a smile.
Don't just live for yourself. People don't live just for themselves. Parents, lovers, children. Maybe we will do many things we don't like, but please don't complain about them. Because love is a responsibility and a responsibility.
Thirty-nine, not self-centered. Mature men respect themselves and others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men "like me" are typical little emperors and have not grown up.
Forty, pointing to my heart, I tell you, there are wounds you scratched here.
41. Many people's so-called maturity has just been worn away by customs and become sophisticated and practical. That's not maturity, but premature mental decline and premature death of personality. True maturity should be the formation of unique personality, the discovery of true self, spiritual results and gains.
Forty-two, walk with your head held high. When you are in a bad mood, you don't want to say hello, nod and smile, and walk straight through.
43. Society is hierarchical and many things are unfair. Don't complain because it's useless.
44. If you are afraid of failure, you will never succeed.
Forty-five, learn to endure loneliness, and you will mature.
Forty-six, love this thing, time is critical. It doesn't matter whether you meet too early or too late.
47. People's biggest opponent is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't count on luck. Luck can't be with you forever. You have to rely on your own ability to eat at any time. You must do your best to qualify as unlucky.
48. Don't lie, because you will be exposed one day.
49. Some troubles are imaginary, but we regard them as real.
In this world, there is an angel in everyone's life, but it is not absolutely only when you meet someone who really loves you and you love him, then you find an angel in life!
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I can be before you.
52. Mature people need masks. Put it on and face the society strongly; Take it off and be gentle with your family.
Do what others don't want to do today, and you can do what others can't do tomorrow!
Roses are always beautiful. She can make you feel immersed in your heart, and she will also make you feel the pain of being stabbed in your finger.
55. Sometimes, there is no next time, no chance to start again, no pause to continue. Sometimes, if you miss the present, you will never get another chance.
It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up the person you love. When a man meets love, he will become tolerant and tolerate all the weaknesses of a woman.
There are so many cities and pubs in the world, but she just walked into mine.
Fifty-eight, sometimes, your words can make me remember for a few days. Sometimes, your words can disappoint me for days. This is caring.
Fifty-nine, clean and tidy. Mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they should be neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like couriers. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or travel in suits.
60. Maturity is a bright and unobtrusive brilliance, a mellow and non-greasy music, a calmness that no longer needs to observe others, an atmosphere that finally stops complaining to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the hustle and bustle, and a kind of extreme indifference.
Sixty-one, the only thing that can make you let go is the following nine words: eat, sleep and love.
Never judge a book by its cover. Speak slowly, but think quickly.
Sixty-three, time is a wonderful thing, forgive the unforgivable, the past can not pass, maybe I occasionally want to go back to the previous time, but I know that people always have to learn to look forward.
The most tiring thing in the world is that you have been living a hypocritical life.
Sixty-five, before love begins, you can never imagine loving someone like that; You can never imagine that love will disappear before it is over; Before love is forgotten, you can never imagine, and unforgettable love will only leave a faint trace; Love, just say it out loud, because you never know which will come first, tomorrow or accident!
Sixty-six, when you have nothing, you will always cling to warm things.
67. No matter what choice you make, is it the right choice? Please don't regret. Time can't go back, everyone is responsible for everyone's mistakes. A mature person should know how to be responsible for his actions. Many times, what is missed will never come back.
68. Don't comfort me if you leave me, because every sewing will also meet the pain of puncture.
Sixty-nine, no regrets. No matter what choice you make, is it the right choice? Please don't regret. Time can't go back, everyone is responsible for everyone's mistakes. A mature person should know how to be responsible for his actions. Many times, he missed it and never came back.
Seventy, don't brag. A mature man never speaks casually. He will keep a proper silence and speak clearly, but he won't shout. Just drink a little wine and tell your story all over the table. You can hear it in half a room without a speaker. This kind of man will laugh at the audience at most, and no one will take your so-called "road to struggle" to heart.
Seventy-one, there are some things we say but can't do, that is, we are still young; There are some things that we do without saying it, and that is maturity.
72. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange songs. Then one day, you will find that the things you tried to forget are really gone.
Seventy-three, love, either makes people mature or degenerate. Love hasn't come yet, and life is carefree; The most painful things are tests and exams. I felt a lot of pressure at that time, but in retrospect, it was so small.
Seventy-four, if you want to cultivate a person who can do great things, you must let him suffer hardships and be dissatisfied, so as to develop a patient character.
Classic Quotations: Sculpture bravely enduring the wind and frost
No matter how fast it is; No matter how slow the pace is, it is not stumbling, but wandering in confusion; The greatest happiness is not what you get, but what you feel; No matter how much wealth you have, it is your inner ease and enrichment; No matter how good a friend is, he doesn't give you anything, but gives you warmth and security. No matter how beautiful the dream is, it is not in the vast sky, but in your current efforts.
Optimistic and enterprising, you can enjoy the happiness of sticking to your responsibilities and overcoming difficulties every day.
When people are born, they are a simple stone, angular and full of vitality. However, in the relentless polishing of life, people are slowly worn away and become sleek and sophisticated. Be a stone stuck on the cliff, bravely endure the wind and frost, and always keep your edges and corners. Don't be a stone in the river, enjoy the passionate touch of microwave, and finally become a bright pebble.
The beauty of life comes from love. If love is in full bloom, beautiful scenery will come. People stress quality, self-restraint and mind. This requires experience, tempering and self-cultivation, as well as constant introspection, introspection and self-examination. That is, the cultivation of wisdom, the concept of true knowledge, the obedient heart and the open-minded heart.
Even if the whole world denies you, you should believe in yourself. Regardless of others' opinions, others' words are just dust in the sun, and the next second they are blown away by the wind. This is your life, no one can intervene, and no one is important except yourself. Sad, crying in a big mess, tears dried up, looked up and smiled still brilliant.
Complain about others and torture yourself; If you want to do great things, do the little things at hand first. If you want to get enough respect, you must first learn to bear the burden of humiliation. If you feel that your environment is not good, you must first be able to blend in.
We are still young. When we are young, we have to do a lot of things, one by one, and practice. Don't say simple. You haven't seen anything, experienced anything, enjoyed it, shocked it, and don't even know what you like and belong to. Why talk about simplicity? Life is about extracting the essence from complex experiences and remoulding yourself, instead of refusing to grow up and indulging yourself.
When people are tired, they rest; When you are tired, just calm down. When I grow up and mature, I see through many things. Tired and sad, just squat down and give yourself a hug. Don't expect others to sympathize with you. You cried, tears are your own; You are in pain, and no one can feel it. You must be strong, even if you have been hurt and shed tears, you can grit your teeth and go on. Because life is your life alone.
Don't care about gains and losses, don't care about success or failure, face life calmly and calmly, and smile and be optimistic no matter what the outcome is. Even if the future is bleak and the road is tortuous, you still firmly believe that the road is at your feet. Life, everything, is to be cracked and understood. Struggle is a proof that tells us to go forward bravely and not to be afraid of the hardships of life. I believe you can.
Beauty is a vassal of wisdom. I said to myself, I want to live truly. Life is a kind of practice. If you cultivate a heart, everything will be perfect. If your heart is clean, your situation will be beautiful, your heart will be happy and your life will be happy.
Life is a practice, and practice is a heart. Cherish today, cherish the days when the wind dances and leaves fall, cherish a season when flowers bloom, cherish that passion, write the perfection of life into the chapter of years, and let the wonderful life dye into every passing season.