Some people say that children come to pay debts or collect debts. I believe my children are here to pay their debts. I'm glad to have him in my life. Some people say that the whole world in children's eyes is parents, I believe it!

Scene 1

My son said something to me that I will never forget: "I don't want you to be as angry as I am." I don't like that you are unhappy. "

I have something to do at ten o'clock in the evening, but the child pesters me to play with him. We are busy with my work in bed and play with him during the intermission. We pretended to get the express:

I said, "What's your name?"

He said, "Xixi, give me express delivery."

I gave him a pillow, and he said, "Not this." I gave him another pillow towel, and he was a little unhappy and said, "That's not it." Then lie in bed and get angry.

I was puzzled, too, and said, "What's the matter? I'm angry again. Not this express. You tell me what it is, and I don't know what express you want. " I'm a little angry, too I have to coax him and do mine at the same time.

He came and took my hand, but I wouldn't let him and said to him, "Why are you angry? Tell me. " He cried unjustly and was very sad. As soon as he cried, I became even angrier.

"Why are you angry? Tell me, and I will know. Why are you crying? " The more I talk, the more he cries. Then I ignored him for a long time and was busy with me.

After a while, he tried to calm down and sobbed and said, "I don't want to, blare … you are as angry as me, blare … I don't like your unhappiness." I looked at him and froze. I hugged him, sat on my lap and stroked his back. I said with tears: "Mom is not angry. Mom wants you to tell me why you are unhappy. I like it when you say it. "

He stopped crying, I let him go, he squeezed out a smiling face, I squeezed out a smiling face, so we made up.

The child is more sensible than me, and he will get angry when playing games, because he can't express his dissatisfaction well. But crying is because of my anger and my blame. I don't talk about him, I don't shake his hand, and he won't cry.

Scene 2

A word that surprised me: "Mom, stop it, I have no talent."

My son and my father said in a video: "My son is unhappy and doesn't say anything. He just keeps it to himself. You see Doudou and her (his little friends) tell everything to her mother ... "Before I finished, my son pinched my mouth with his little hand and said unhappily," Mom, stop it, I have no talent. " He let go of my mouth, and I smiled and said, "Well, I won't talk about it. Where did you learn it? "

Although I laughed, I realized that what I had done was wrong. I shouldn't tell others, even my father, that he is not good. Even if he is playing, he will listen to everything I say. Children care about every word their parents say about their children.

1. Once, a boy was invited by his teacher to ask his parents. His mother saw the child and asked nothing. This is just an accusation. The boy turned and jumped out of the window.

No matter what the outside world says about children, parents should not listen to other people's advice. Even if the other person is a respected person, ask the child first. The world even accuses him of his parents. Who else is his world?

When the boy is playing games, his mother will interrupt the child's game when she enters the room, turn off the computer and let him do his homework. The child hit his mother hard.

No one likes to be interrupted, just like I am busy, my son holds my hand and I hold his. I can stop what I am doing, but let me finish it first, or press the pause button to give me buffer time.

3. A boy saw that the ladder was going to fall down, so he ran to hold the ladder and saved his father.

Every child is an angel, and how you treat your children will be rewarded to you.

When the girl came home, she found her mother sneaking away and lying on the ground, crying her eyes out.

When parents leave, the children's world becomes dark.

There is a famous saying in romain rolland's novel "John Christophe": The climax of some children's love-hate relationship is unexpected, and the extreme love-hate relationship is eroding children's hearts. This is the most dangerous difficulty in his childhood. After that, his childhood ended, and his will was tempered, but it was almost completely destroyed.

The nature at the beginning of life is good, and nothing is purer than a childlike innocence. He wants his parents to be happy, not angry and play with him.

Why does he watch TV? Because his parents don't play with him.

Why is he crying? Because his parents accused him.

Why is he angry? Because his parents don't understand him.

It is necessary to know what parents say and do, how to treat their children, and how children will treat their parents in a few years, which will subtly affect their lives.

Every child should be treated well. I want to give him a happy childhood. I want him to know that I am the one who has always supported him. I hope he doesn't take anything to heart and has my understanding. A man can cry, how to face it after crying and how to solve the problem. I don't force him to be a schoolmaster, but I support him to have his own hobbies.

Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, pointed out: Whoever's childhood is illuminated by the sunshine of love (love means tireless work) will create happiness for each other, and he will be particularly sensitive and receptive to his parents' words, their kind hearts, their persuasion and words, and their gentleness and admonition.

Every time a child watches TV for a long time, I will say, "Stop watching TV and play with me for a while." He said, "I have finished watching this episode." Sometimes I say, "Turn off the TV when the minute hand points to it." He said, "Good." When the minute hand pointed to 12, I showed it to him and he turned off the TV.

My son sleeps for a long time every afternoon. I will wake him up. He never loses his temper.

I want to be my son's world, and I want to love you gently before he comes of age! It turns out that he really takes everything I say to heart. I am not a perfect mother, but I am a qualified mother. Parents are not sensible, and children will be sensible for you, so I want to be sensible.

A good parent-child relationship is also a part of a good marriage. Many family conflicts start with children. Because of children's parenting problems, attitudes towards children, etc. Try to make yourself better when you have children. # Handbook of Marriage Practice #