Meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people,

For thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time,

I happened to catch up, neither too early nor too late.

Except to ask softly, "Oh, you're here, too?"

-Zhang Ailing

I am a person who believes in fate! In life, after passing countless passers-by, you met your other half, or you had an intersection in the vast sea of people, which is destiny takes a hand. All encounters will play various roles in our lives, bring us joys and sorrows, make our dull life ups and downs, and look forward to a quiet life. Those who once had an intersection and fell in love but couldn't be together will become passers-by, sealed in memory, or forgotten with the passage of time. We always meet, meet and leave. What passes in a hurry and what remains is destiny takes a hand. Let go of what should be put down, cherish what you already have and face it calmly. When we meet, there is intersection, and when there is intersection, there is a story. With stories, there will be entanglements and disputes, and then there will be sadness, anger and parting. Therefore, the encounter of life is both fate and doom.

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Parents and children have a great fate in this world.

It is a kind of luck to meet in the world and become a family. It's luck in luck, a great fate and a disaster. In a chat, a colleague complained about her mother-in-law "Home hygiene never helps clean, but she cooks for herself every day when she comes home from work. Needless to say, the TV is on all day, and she throws fruit cakes all over the floor if she doesn't eat them. Remind her, like owe her a lot ... "

I thought of my grandmother, and I lived a frugal life all my life. After the death of an 89-year-old man, I am still diligent and thrifty. I'm afraid I'll embarrass anyone and cause trouble to anyone. When you are in your 60 s, you prepare your own clothes. Always aim at loving your children and future generations. In a sense, I admire an old man like grandma. But when you calm down and think rationally, you will find that when you choose a living method, you choose a life, which means that someone is alive. Like my colleague's mother-in-law, there are many similar old people. They should eat and drink. No matter how the children get along, they just want to have fun. It is people like grandma who attract me enough.

The so-called "father-son-mother-daughter" scene is really like Du Jie, who will inadvertently meet a "debt collector". Especially as a mother, giving birth to a child is going through the gates of hell, and giving birth to a child is a cruel disaster suffered by the mother and going through life and death. Then, in the face of starving children, parents should work hard to feed them and bring them up with hardships. Even every child's headache and brain fever are a kind of torture and suffering for parents. As children grow up, we watch them drift away, and every time we leave, we are also worried. There are also rebellious problems that children can't be ignored when they grow up, and some even kill their parents. For example, the sensational case of Wu Yimu in previous years left many parents at a loss in the face of their children's education. Which of these is not a disaster for parents? Children in a foreign land, especially in a foreign land, will also miss their parents. In short, parents and children are always under the test of disaster whenever and wherever.

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Lovers and lovers had a fight, and the disaster never stopped. There is always someone who is your destiny takes a hand complex.

If the relationship is too smooth and there is no painful experience, it is difficult to understand the meaning of love, to cherish it, and to realize the value and preciousness of true love. Only when people have experienced painful feelings can they understand the true meaning of feelings. It seems that I have been struggling with my emotions for so many years. Saying that I am relieved is as happy and relaxed as feeling the big stone in my heart being crushed. Although it still hurts sometimes, time can forget everything and gradually become a memory until the heart is quiet. Anyway, thank the person who has hurt you. He appeared in our life, let us know love, know love and cherish love. In the rest of your life, even if you take others seriously, you can't ignore yourself, let alone let yourself down.

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Between friends and confidants, true feelings always pass the test of disaster, so we always say that it is enough to have a confidant in life.

If family is the support of life, then a friend's confidant is the greatest help in life. In life, career and even emotion, friends will help. Only when people have contacts can there be friendship. But when friends disagree, different opinions will have different results, or friends can continue to develop or make friends. Disputes between friends are also a disaster. Accepted the test of disaster, friends are even more stable than before; Compromise in the test can only make the gap between each other bigger and bigger, and then drift away, and friendship will disappear. Especially in today's materialistic and sinister times, many people are blinded by interests and let the boat of friendship turn over in front of friendship and interests. Only after experiencing these disasters can true friendship last forever. Friends not only eat and drink, but also support each other on the road of life and hold a group to keep warm. However, people are different, and quarrels, misunderstandings and estrangements are always accompanied by friendship. This is the disaster of friendship. If you spend it, everything will be fine; No flowers, falling apart.

Because there are many intersections between friends, it is inevitable that there will be some minor misunderstandings. I once tried to delete a good friend. I felt a little annoyed when my friends touched some of my own bottom lines and principles. Calm down and think that deleting good friends is impulsive, so I take the initiative to communicate with my friends. It turned out to be my own narrow-minded misunderstanding. Later, I felt that I was too on the line. Thanks to timely communication, otherwise I would feel uncomfortable and my friends would feel even more sad. Everyone has their own emotions. Perhaps, the other party's unintentional actions violated your bottom line and principles. Anyway, don't be impulsive, especially in front of friends who are really good to you. There is no need to hide anything. Just say it! However, if you really delete your friends, and friends refuse to add them again, then consider this meeting a good memory! Forget it! Have a good life! There are thousands of people in Qian Qian, who meet each other late, love and hate each other, and have emotions for no reason. There are all reasons, but some of them are known to us and some are unknown to us! Every encounter in life needs gratitude. If this encounter dissipates, it is likely to be missed!

The relationship between people needs communication, interaction and maintenance, and cannot be ignored for a long time, otherwise the friendship will be lost. This is not a cold world, but a real existence. So, thank those who care about you and cherish those who meet you. Where is the road ahead for Mo Wen? Only cherish the present! Because the encounter in the world may be a disaster, let you understand and know what an encounter is and what a goodbye is, because some goodbye is really never seen again, while others turn around for a lifetime.

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The encounter in life is a disaster. Cherish when you meet, and be safe when you leave.

Meeting between people is a good start, but it can't be perfect. Every disaster will happen after the meeting. Without experiencing wind and rain, you can't see the rainbow; Without experiencing disasters, it is difficult to be perfect when encountering them. Life needs to be spent in the wind and rain. After the test and blow of disaster, it will become more brilliant and beautiful when you meet it.

Every encounter in life is destined to have its own results and doom! If that's the case, then is Mo Wen fate or evil! Think of it as an experience of life! Most of the encounters in the world are to renew the frontier and to meet again in life! However, some encounters are doomed to be a disaster! You can't escape or hide! When it's time to let go, learn to let go, and don't always struggle with protection and struggle; When you are in love, don't part! Those who are separated will start their lives again. Whether you are in pain or suffering, these are all emotional catharsis. After all, being together is true love. So, leave everything to time. Don't always complain about why you can't meet, and don't always indulge in sadness. After all, no matter how obsessed your feelings are, since the fate is over, let's settle down, give ourselves a warm hug and face life with a smile!

Love is enough. Believe that all encounters are destiny takes a hand; All farewells are arranged in advance.