I might as well study for ten years if I listen to you.

If you are not proud, you are proud, not arrogant. -Zhuge Liang

Proud people always destroy themselves in pride. -Shakespeare

Say that your strength is long or short, and that the short of your confidant is long. -Shen Juyong

Losing is taking advantage.

Disadvantage is a blessing.

If you get cheap, you lose.

A wise man won't fight under unfavorable circumstances.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.

Only carelessness will suffer, but carelessness will suffer.

It doesn't hurt to sell a lot of goods.

It's worth shopping around.

John clark: Honest people never suffer.

It is better to let money suffer than to let others suffer.

People who are obsessed with money will be harmed by money one day, and people are prone to greed and losses.

Hesse: He thinks he is a special person who will suffer anyway. No one knows, understands and sympathizes with the pain of such a person.

Czechoslovakia: Throw away the knife at your own expense.

Learn to fly first, then learn to walk, and you will lose your wings when you spread them.

About not listening to the old man, you will suffer in front of you:

As the saying goes, "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." There are also many examples in history of being frustrated because of disrespect for the elderly. The battle of Qin and Jin was an important battle. Before the war, Qin Mugong consulted an old man named Qin Jian. Uncle Jian said, "I'm afraid we can't attack distant countries. If the army expeditions, the foot soldiers are tired, and the enemy country is prepared, it will be difficult to win. " Uncle Jian cried and said to the coach, "Meng Ming, I saw the army go out, and I'm afraid I won't see the squad go home." Qin Mugong was very angry and said to Uncle Jian, "What do you know? I think you should be dead. " However, the development of the war fulfilled Uncle Jian's words, and the Jin army was defeated in grain. Qin Mugong regretted not listening to him.

Do you really suffer if you don't listen to the old man?

"Son, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer!" This is what our elders often teach us. This sentence has been the supreme "imperial decree" since ancient times, but is it really right to do so?

Now children's thoughts are taught by adults that "only by listening to adults is a good child", but in this way, the sense of choice and dominance may become "blindly obeying elders". As we all know, blind obedience is not a good thing, because education is to make people have ideas, and "not listening to their elders" often erases this idea.

If you blindly listen to the old man, you will sometimes suffer. Everyone is familiar with the case of hurting Zhong Yong. Zhong Yong was blindly dragged by his father to "associate with the local people and stop studying", which made Zhong Yong "forget everyone"! What if Zhong Yong feels opposed? Then maybe a great scholar will be born in the history of China literature.

Therefore, we should not blindly listen to the old man's words, but listen selectively. Sometimes what adults say is not completely correct. We should have our own consciousness, even if we listen to the old people, we should not blindly guide them. "Old people's words" are not always good words. Sometimes adults will teach their children according to their own experience, but the experience of that era may not work in this era. What really matters is their own thoughts. Therefore, in the process of listening, we also need to have our own ideas.