We always have the illusion that "forever" is far away, so people who want to do things and be kind to others always think that it will be realized "in the future". You should know that everything in the world is impermanent, so "forever" may not be far away, even as short as a blink of an eye.
So, cherish everything we think is worth cherishing, and cherish what we have at the moment.
Life is only a few decades of cold and hot, "forever" is not eternal, and the moment you turn around is the end. There are always some people who can't bear to part, and they will suddenly let go, even without time to say goodbye.
After getting together and leaving, it's just a moment. Whether it is a relative or a close friend, there will be differences.
It is not absolutely unacceptable for those separations that will eventually come.
This is by no means a pessimistic attitude, but a true description of life.
People always think that the so-called "forever" means forever, and there is still a lot of time to deal with it calmly. So, I put everything in the future: I will cherish it in the future and be grateful in the future.
Whether it is true or not, it is inevitable that there will be suspicion of shirking and slacking off.
Even if you can't grasp the present, why talk about "forever"?
An old man with white hair said a few words of emotion: "I grew up in the blink of an eye and became old in the blink of an eye." I blink again and it's gone! " "
Simple as it is, it is a wise saying that hits the true meaning of life.
Life is a hundred years, and the curtain rises and falls. In the blink of an eye, I went from green to mature, experienced the change of years in the blink of an eye again, and saw the end of my life after the blink of an eye for the third time.
Knowing that life is short, don't do what you should do "later" and don't expect countless "forever".
Cherish the present, be kind to people around you with a tolerant heart, be grateful for their existence, and cherish every bit of life.
To cherish the present is to grasp eternity.
I remember my youth when I was white-haired, and I remember the beauty of gathering when I was in Where Are You Going? It is the greatest regret in my life.
Ignoring those beautiful things that are close at hand is the greatest indifference to life.
Return the loved ones who care for each other with sincerity, and cherish the lover who never leaves.
Everyone and everything in life have accumulated countless frontiers. Only in this way can we meet and know each other in this life. Understand the vicissitudes of the world of mortals and the impermanence of life, and face ups and downs with a tolerant smile.
Only in this way can we "preserve our health and lose our lives without regret".
Keep your heart in the hustle and bustle of the world of mortals and be kind to karma. Cherish the present, so as not to sigh helplessly at the end of time and space.
Excerpt from "Everything is the Best Arrangement 3" by Gacuo