"A great man can only show his greatness by tolerating people who are not as great as him.
Sigmund freud said: "Everything you and I do stems from two motives: sexual impulse and desire for greatness."
"The deepest impulse of human nature is,' eager to feel important'.
Schwab said: "I think it is the greatest resource I have to inspire everyone's enthusiasm." The way I activate everyone's potential is to appreciate and encourage. "
Alfred Lang starred in Meet Vienna Again. The superstar once said, "What I need most is to nourish my self-esteem." We provide nutrition for children, friends and employees, but how stingy we are to nourish their self-esteem! We provided steak and potatoes to restore their strength, but we didn't give them good words to appreciate. These words will be sung in their memory forever like the song of the morning star.
Don't be afraid of the enemy's attack, but beware of the flattery of your friends.
So the only way to influence other people in the world is to talk about what they want and tell them how to get it.
Even if I persuaded him to realize that he was wrong, his self-esteem could not make him back down and compromise.
You can't make friends if you don't mind.
The expression on a person's face is much more valuable than the fur on her back.
"There is no good or bad in the world," Shakespeare said. "You think good is good, and you think bad is bad." Abraham lincoln also said, "How happy people are depends on how happy they want to be."
. Jack wood Ford wrote in Falling in Love with a Stranger: "Concentration is a subtle compliment that few people can resist.
Always makes others think he is important.
Buddha said, "Hate can't end in hate, but only in love.
People can tell each other that he is wrong with one look, one tone and one gesture, which is more powerful than words. If you say the other person is wrong, do you want to convince them? Don't! You directly hit his intelligence, judgment, pride and self-esteem. In this way, what they want to do most is to fight back and never want to change their minds again. Then you can argue with him with all the logic from Plato to Kant, but you can never change his point of view by hurting his feelings.
"You can't teach anyone anything, you can only help him find what already exists in his heart.
The courage to admit your mistakes will bring some satisfaction. It can not only sweep away guilt and self-defense, but also often solve the problems caused by mistakes.
You get nothing when you argue, but you are overjoyed when you admit your mistake.