My wife and I went to the Great Northern Wilderness when we were children. There is a famous saying in the Great Northern Wilderness that "good children are made"; Teachers may object most, because modern education emphasizes that "good children are boasted"; It seems that both of them emphasize one aspect. After all, there should be a consensus that "there can be no Fiona Fang without rules". Chuchu fouled, and I will severely punish him; But if I have excellent performance, I will hold her in circles and even lie on the ground for her to ride.
Okay, let's get down to business.
First, go all out and take children as the core
To tell the truth, I am now a full-time tutor, a full-time sparring partner and a music producer, which was not designed like this from the beginning. In fact, there is a transformation process.
At the beginning, we also wanted to give Chuchu a famous school, but the donation of100000 was not low, and there might not be a satisfactory teacher. Later, I thought, this 10 million yuan is more than enough to hire a tutor during the whole primary school. It is better to go to a general school and find a tutor. Later, I thought, please tutor, not as good as yourself, on call, high efficiency, so I had a new idea.
After school started, we learned that we had met a good teacher. Mr. Zhao, the head teacher, was transferred from a prestigious private school, and Mr. Chinese Week is also the academic leader in the district. The children are really lucky. What else can I say? I can't do anything else Good students always insist on cooperating with teachers to educate their children, so they are determined not to go to work in a law firm. I am a practicing lawyer, and the state stipulates that I can work until I am 70 years old. Why not make money? Children are very important, and we can't meet such a serious and responsible teacher with excellent skills. Children are our future.
Second, persistence can produce results.
I remember that in the middle of grade one, Mr. Zhao held a small parent-teacher meeting. There are several children with poor sports performance, and we obviously live among them.
Teacher Zhao comprehensively talked about the consequences of physical education class's failure, the impact on children, and the requirements of strengthening exercise. Chuchu is the youngest in the class and the third from the bottom. There is no way but to practice. There is one requirement for going home to exercise every day, and five are clearly practiced, which is adjusted according to the annual project; Whether it's windy or rainy, whether it's cold or hot, even if it's headache or brain fever, it's persistent. Sometimes psychological tactics are used, such as speeding up the pace when counting, in order to keep up with the action.
Today, Chuchu's skipping speed is as high as 220, and she does more than 60 sit-ups per minute, ranking among the best in her class and even in her grade. I designed 50 leg lifts every day for this new leg-dragging activity in the early days, and gradually increased the number to 100. I heard that my grades have also gone up recently. Chuchu can rank third in girls' sports. I think that as long as everyone can persistently give their children more exercise, their sports performance will definitely exceed Chuchu's. By the way, the children will learn to swim in the survival training next semester, and Chu Chu will take the lead. She can swim in three positions with a distance of 500 meters.
Third, pay attention to quality and cultivate hobbies and specialties.
Chuchu is a child with a wide range of hobbies. In the second grade, her instrumental study was once again put on the agenda of the family meeting. After repeated choices, we finally chose the cello.
I have good music theory, rich stage experience and can play the violin. Music supervision is an unshirkable task. Cello is the most difficult of all instrumental music because of its range and fingering. But the most difficult thing to learn any instrumental music is the training of basic skills. Half an hour's basic training every day is boring, but it is the foundation. In any case, it takes a long time to pay seriously and finally get something.
I think ChuChu can finish others' progress in five or six years in one and a half years, and also won the gold medal in the cello competition in the whole province. Besides being taught by famous teachers, solid basic skills are the most important. In order to arouse their interest, I adopted the methods of blind pulling, critical comment and self-evaluation, so that the training of basic skills can always be carried out in a down-to-earth manner. Now the cello test grade of key middle school orchestras has far exceeded. I think that being able to enter middle school as a special student should be a major event that our parents should seriously consider. After all, a good middle school is limited, and everything should be considered for the future of children.