After recommending this film to my roommate, I followed it again. Let's digress first. I like all the styles of Mabel, and I like her stubborn short hair when she was 30. About the emotional story in the movie, we should start with the protagonist holding a wordless love letter in the movie. Any multi-angle relationship, whether it develops to three or four people later, must start with two people at the beginning. At my girlfriend's. Boyfriend, you have to start with Lin. Everyone will meet many people in his life, but there is one kind of person who is very special. He is very important in your life, but you can't define him as a friend, lover or family. A relationship like this, like a blank love letter in the play, is not left blank because of silence. Its blank is beyond words and can only be defined by people. He Lin is such a friend. They are like lovers, friends and family. When the Queen came to intervene between them, the relationship between the three people was tangled and pulled. The relationship that you love me, I love her, and she loves him … sounds like old terrier, but in real life, this game of chasing and retreating is constantly being played, from the past to the present. What are the embers of youth? A writer in China wrote a sentence that accurately conveyed my feelings. He said that money will always be paper in the end, and youth will pass if it is not wasted. The first half of my girlfriend and boyfriend is about the profligacy of youth. However, people are going to grow up after all, so what are the embers after youth is severely burned? I don't want all this to go up in smoke, but there should be some answers and warmth. Boyfriend, you will feel a little happy. It is after you have experienced so much time, wasted so much youth and wasted so many tears; If you are willing to go back and start another stage, happiness will be waiting for you at that distant end. Spending may have paid a price, but at least it should be rewarding. In the first half of the film, young people engage in rebellion in school and luck in college, making them look like they have opinions and enthusiasm for everything, just because they are invincible in youth. But when passion and ideals collide with private people, it is still feelings that can distract them from compromise-no matter how big the times are, they will eventually lose to their inner desire for belonging. Therefore, when these characters are in their thirties, no matter how glamorous, their whole lives are in a state of chaos; In contrast, the impulse and enthusiasm of youth will be highlighted, highlighting how cruel it is to wither when you grow up. Only cruelty can show how precious their final happiness is, even if happiness is so small, it is just echoing their desire and depression for love. The pursuit of freedom, there is no generation, this film spans 30 years, how to compare several generations? The title of the film borrows the real event of Tainan girls taking off their skirts to protest, which makes the intergenerational comparison more obvious. In the 1980 s, young people were in an age like a pressure cooker. When it might explode, they collided violently with the system. Although there are still restrictions, young people have long learned to protest with humor, not collision. They express their demands in more interesting ways, such as online connection and collective skirt removal. No matter how many generations have passed, young people are doing the same thing, that is, fighting for more freedom, because institutional restrictions will always exist. In the film, these young people who came from the 1980s had to fight fiercely because they were bound by the system. However, when they reached middle age, they gained some power, seemingly free, and gained the fruits of struggle, but unconsciously they became what they opposed in the past, because their selfish desires tied themselves to death. Another discussion extending from the theme of freedom in the film is freedom in love. In the movies, Lin Yixin pursues freedom, but he never understands the true meaning of freedom. Under the arrangement of fate, she changed from a person who could have walked in the sunshine of love to a lonely person who had to be masked in the dark, and both Chen Zhongliang became people who had no freedom and had to be invisible under the pressure of society. Freedom in love is an important message contained in this film; If love no longer exists, then learn to leave freely! It takes a lot of courage to face up to your misery, but courage is also the beginning of freedom?