"Stop at the ceremony" should be "stop at the ceremony", also known as "stop at the ceremony", and the last sentence is: express your feelings. As far as the Book of Songs is concerned, Guan Ju, the first article in the Book of Songs deleted by Confucius, said: "Therefore, it is only a matter of courtesy and righteousness to change the wind. It is human nature to express feelings; It's just a matter of ceremony, and the first king's ze is also. " Xia Zi, a student of Confucius, said: "Expressing feelings is out of courtesy."

"Show love and stop at ceremony" is an ancient description of the relationship between men and women. "Love" means that human emotions are generated between men and women; "Stop at the ceremony" is bound by etiquette.

"Show love and stop at ceremony" is advocated by Confucius. Falling in love is ok, but it can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette. According to the description of the poem, this boundary is mainly aimed at the nobility, and women's feelings cannot be robbed or ignored. "Stop" here does not mean to stop feelings, but to stop within the scope allowed by etiquette, and you can't do anything beyond etiquette because of love.