At that time, I felt that direction was far more important than hard work. Now I think, let's discuss the score.
1. You know what you want and where you are going, so please go through fire and water to make some changes. Since you have chosen a distant place, please only care about the hardships. Some people set their goals long ago, with far-reaching ambitions, such as calling out Ji Xiang who can be replaced by them, Zu Ti who heard the chicken dance, and Ban Chao who joined the army. But such people are rare. For most people, knowing what they want to do is always a problem.
You still remember Liezi Tang Wen's famous work "A Mountain of Yugong", right? The foolish old man has a famous saying that touched God-
"Although I am dead, I have a son to save; Children have grandchildren, and grandchildren have children; A son has a son and a son has a grandson; There are countless children and grandchildren, but the mountains do not increase. Why bother and injustice? "
When you say this, the lethality is amazing! The result of that year was that "Hequ's wits died in response", and Gong Yu successfully countered his high IQ opponent through unremitting efforts.
Now, is this still one thing? In a word, "What if your son doesn't want to be a pioneer?" , absolutely can make Yu Gong speechless.
But in those days, it was completely impossible. On the one hand, the identity of four people can't be easily changed, on the other hand, Lao Tzu is heaven. "If you want me to die, I have to die, and my father wants my son to die." Yu Gong made a speech, didn't his son dare to listen? If you don't listen, you're not obedient, you're not obedient. Therefore, under this dual effect, it is really possible that the descendants of Gong Yu will always compete with the two mountains of Taihang and Prince of Wu to dig them to the end.
This is my uncle's second point: farming civilization and its series of systems and cultures have strengthened efforts and weakened choices, and efforts are more important than choices.