He Han's classic lines in the first half of his life 1 1. "The data is dead. How to organize the combined data and draw conclusions is alive. "
Tang Jing was dissatisfied with He Han's unauthorized revision of the evaluation results he calculated for customers who stayed up late. She thinks that He Han's promise to customers can't be realized at all.
The conclusion worked out by myself is the most objective and fair.
So He Laoshi started his small class. How can we meet the customer's requirements?
To know what customers want, they just want a result higher than the actual conclusion, so give it to them.
Data is dead, people are alive. We should not use "what we have learned for many years to calculate the correct conclusion", but should use "what we have learned for many years to calculate the conclusion that people want".
As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself. This should be what He Laoshi meant. Not only for customers, but also in life and work, we should understand what the other party wants and meet their requirements.
Among them, understanding is very important. How to empathize with customers?
He Laoshi said this:
2. "Always care about customers, understand their pessimism and happiness, and stand on the same front with them."
However, He Han's purpose of empathizing with customers is very direct, "taking people's money and eliminating disasters with others".
As long as you can achieve your goal, you can use your head and take shortcuts when necessary. ...
3 "whose cheese you moved, the problem lies with who."
Tang Jing met a difficult problem in his work. There are no technical problems with the plan, but it has not been adopted. She thought for a long time and couldn't figure out the reason.
He Han saw the clue at a glance and hit the nail on the head with a few words.
Since there is nothing wrong with technology, there must be something wrong with people.
If your plan hurts anyone's interests, then the problem must be with him.
The right medicine can solve the problem better.
In life, He Han also throws golden sentences in minutes. Every time I listen to her words to enlighten Zijun, he feels educated, reasonable and practical.
4. "The vase is not aggressive, and living is the most dangerous."
Zijun doesn't believe her husband's cheating partner. She is a plain woman who is married and has children, so He Han told her:
Yes, vases are not terrible, just afraid of culture.
Many times, appearance is not the most important thing, but companionship and understanding. Just like Sheng Jun and Lingling in the play, they both work in the same company. Lingling is a soft-spoken and powerful woman.
Accompany you to work overtime, share your worries and take care of you when you need it most, just like steel.
5. Trading is trading, and friendship is friendship.
Tang Jing questioned He Han's insincerity in bringing his work into his life and treating making friends as a transaction.
He Han denied that he thought it was not a "transaction" but a "friendship".
6. "Giving and receiving is a good thing. What is unilateral giving? This is called sacrifice. "
Friendship is to give and take. He Han is right. The affection between friends and lovers is mutual. You are good to me, and I am good to you.
If only one of them is blindly giving, then this relationship is doomed not to last long, and there is not much for a person to sacrifice.
It's also good for friends to come and go.
I will be very happy if you can help me when I am in trouble, because I can help you and be needed by you.
7. "No one will be your safe haven for the rest of your life. Only you are your last refuge. "
Zijun is very sad about her husband's cheating. He Han wants to enlighten Zijun and cheer her up. Don't rely on anyone, rely on yourself.
Only you can be your last refuge, even if you are humble, it is better than relying on others.
Although this passage was regarded as "poisoned chicken soup" by Bei Zijun, it was regarded as "the rhetoric of so-called successful people".
But I have to say that it still makes sense. What kind of life you want, you have to fight for it yourself.
Just as Tang Jing can say "He can support you, so can I" when his best friend Zijun is abandoned by a man and there is no way out, only when he is independent and strong can he live the life he wants, protect himself and protect the people around him.
8. "God never shuts one door but he opens another. Since we have to start again sooner or later, let's race against time from now on. "
No matter what happens, it's no use being sad. Since we have to start again sooner or later, it is better to start at once, and with a little more time, there is one more possibility!
9. "Don't stop until you reach the Yellow River, just wait for her to jump and sink to the bottom, and then fish her out."
He Han's sermon is really nice, but Zijun doesn't listen. Finally He Han simply went with her.
In fact, many people, like Zijun, don't look back until they reach the South Wall or the Yellow River. They think the head is hard and the water is good. I have an obsession with what I believe in my heart and the result of my belief.
Even if it looks silly to outsiders and is the wrong result, as long as it is recognized, it is unwilling to let go.
At this time, no matter how much others say and do, it is often useless. It is better to wait for her to personally verify whether the result is right or wrong, and then comfort her.
Whether the water is good or not, always try it yourself!
10. "You are no longer young, and you can no longer ride the ferry of life by brushing your face."
There are many ways to start over. He Han said directly to Zijun, "You can't rely on your face any more."
Zijun is 33 years old, and she is not as beautiful as when she was young. He can win a man's love by his face. So when you can't rely on the face, you have to rely on the connotation.
You can't ride the ferry boat of life by brushing your face any more. Get your oars ready and go out!
Not only for the next love, but also for the next man to be a useful person and always bring his own paddle to meet better people.
1 1. "When two people are together, the one who makes rapid progress will always get rid of the one who stands still."
Tang Jing and Zijun are completely different people. Tang Jing is independent and self-reliant, and her view of love is different from Zijun's.
When two people are together, they must make progress together to be happy. The result of standing still can only be dumped.
Because human instinct is more about exploring the extension and connotation of life.
12. "In the old society, men could have three wives and four concubines, because women depended on men to support them. Once this dependence is established, what about emotional equality? "
Zijun said that what Tang Jing said was "a disgusting declaration of women's independence", but there was nothing wrong with her declaration of independence. In the old society, men could have three wives and four concubines because women were not independent enough and could only rely on men to support them.
Food, drink and use are all given by men, and you have no right to speak.
Once this attachment is established, there will be no emotional equality.
Women are independent and work, no matter how much money they earn, what they earn back is dignity. At least, I can stand up straight and say that I can support myself and live a good life without you.
13. "wasting eight hours every day is wasting one third of your life."
Although Ju Zijun also thinks it is a very happy scene to wait for her husband to have dinner with his family after work. But after listening to Tang Jing, I suddenly felt very reasonable.
It's a waste of life to spend three hours waiting every day!
14. "You are just a piece of annoying chewing gum stuck to his sole now, and he regrets not stepping on you with his eyes."
In order to make Zijun give up, He Han believes that her husband really wants to divorce himself and stop pestering each other, so he compares her to "chewing gum on the sole"
How, after listening to He Han's description, are you really angry with such a girl?
So, when a boy is determined to leave you, don't make a boring piece of chewing gum!
15. "Are you Lingling? I just came to scold you! No? If not, mind your own business! "
In addition to the golden sentences of the protagonists, you can occasionally get some tips when watching the drama.
For example, my mother-in-law went to the company to scold Xiaosan, but the staff didn't tell her who Xiaosan was. She just grabbed a random person. "You don't know? Well, it's you! "
The staff tried to get rid of her on the grounds that it affected everyone's office, and she used the same routine!
16. "Oh, you are Lingling, right? I just came to scold you! No? If not, mind your own business! "
I was born somewhere tomorrow for the first half of my life. Your ex-husband's family is probably your smiling customers. Tang Jing
2. Is it necessary to devote yourself to being a good person? Getting married is not like buying a refrigerator. Quiet, energy-saving, large space, can move home. I'm afraid I'll get a divorce, so I'm in a hurry to go to the hospital. I am afraid that no man wants me, and I am afraid that I will die alone. Tang Jing
What did Tang Jing say to Zijun in the first half of his life?
I'm going to start accepting others. This page of your story has been turned over since then. The so-called turning back to the shore should be like this. Tang Jing
Anyway, I have long been used to being stared at by a brain-dead powder like you. Fortunately, I have a high position in the company. If I were a newcomer, I would have been stepped into a QR code by them. Tang Jing
Once you start working, it is equivalent to opening the door of the game. You must find your partner. You can trust him, but you cannot rely on him.
You should know who your superiors are and what their hobbies, hobbies and interests are, because everyone's favorite thing is often his weakness and the most easily used breakthrough. Tang Jing
6. I really do it for your own good, and I will tell you this only considering how you should live in the future. Tang Jing
What did Tang Jing say to Zijun in the first half of his life?
7. He can support you, so can I, Tang Jing. Chen is not the only person who can make money in the world. Tang Jing
8. What's the point? I can't watch my best friend being bullied like this. Tang Jing
9. Comfort and understanding are attitudes that have nothing to do with yourself. Tang Jing
10, when two people are together, the one who makes rapid progress will always get rid of the one who stands still. Tang Jing
1 1, the more difficult it is to solve, the more incurable it is, and the more it is necessary to cross the rubicon at the beginning. Tang Jing
12. What would you do if Chen had an affair? And Pinger, would you like to call someone's mother? Tang Jing
13, there are only two views on divorce. One is instant divorce, don't hesitate. The other is never to leave, dragging on for a lifetime. -"My First Half Life"
14, as long as you are willing to learn and do, you can work without a genius. -"My First Half Life"
15, this year I learned the importance of money. With money, you can bring life into a more comfortable realm. It doesn't feel reliable. The material is real. -"My First Half Life"
16, the man changed his mind. After all, he is worthless. Let him go. Don't listen to you cry, he hates you for nothing. -"My First Half Life"
17, no matter what people think of death when the environment is difficult. This is a normal psychological reaction, but it shouldn't last long. Death is romantic, so it's a bit attractive. However, I am a practical person, and I just want to improve the environment. -"My First Half Life"
18, I admire myself the most. Only I can help myself to climb mountains and overcome difficulties again and again. -"My First Half Life"
19, the reason why I am radiant is caused by a sense of victory: there are people who appreciate me, I am not lonely, I have a sustenance. -"My First Half Life"
20. The best revenge is not hatred, but heartfelt indifference. Why hate an irrelevant person? -"My First Half Life"
2 1, my destination is health and talent, a person can be trusted after all, but it is himself who can stand up for him. What destination do I want? I found myself, and I am my destination. -"My First Half Life"