Many times, parents' excessive efforts will not only make children feel happy, but also make them feel strongly guilty.

Because children always feel that their parents have paid so much for themselves, but they are not good enough, and they will feel guilty psychologically.

Why do parents pay too much, which will lead to family conflicts?

Because of excessive and extreme efforts, there are bound to be high expectations.

Once the other party fails to meet your expectations, you will be disappointed, and if you are disappointed, you will blame the other party.

It's easy to ruin a parent-child relationship, just make efforts.

Psychologist Winnicott has a famous saying:

"60 points, mom is the best mom."

Love is not excessive protection and control, but respect and equality, love and freedom.

As psychologist Claire said:

"All the love in the world is for gathering, and there is only one kind of love for separation, and that is the love of parents for their children."

True parental love is not the permanent possession of children, but the appropriate withdrawal.