There are three things in life that are most difficult to understand. One is to enjoy loneliness, one is to learn to leave, and the other is to see through life and death.

Of these three points, it is the most difficult to see through life and death. Loneliness is learning to be alone, parting is content with the status quo, and seeing through life and death is a collection of loneliness and parting. If you don't understand the first two items, you will never see through life and death.

Life is beyond our control. What kind of family we were born in, what kind of parents we had, and what kind of environment we grew up in, everything was predestined. Young people have no resistance except accepting all this.

But we can decide what kind of people we will become in the future and what to provide for our next generation. Falling red is not heartless, but turning into spring mud can protect flowers better? .

For the silence of life, death is a completely optional thing. It depends on the choice before death, whether to die heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather.

But no matter which way you choose, death is an inevitable holiday, and you have no choice.

What is life and death.

Deng Zhongxia said? There is only one death in life, so live meaningfully and die worthily. ?

Life is the first power that the world gives us. Whether we are poor or rich, we should know how to be grateful. At least we have the opportunity to choose, take a trip to the world, see all the waters of Qian Shan, appreciate the local customs, enjoy the sweetness of our loved ones and feel the taste of gains and losses.

The original intention of life is to be born and live. Only by constantly trying, the more you try, the better your life will be. As Wang Jinmei said, all happiness comes from the blood of life.

For life and death, Ouyang Xiu said. Life and death are common sense of heaven and earth, and those who are afraid can't get away with it, and those who are greedy can't get it. ?

Many people regard life as hope and death as despair, but life and death need not be taken too seriously. If life goes from one room to another and death just goes from one room to the next, who can say that death is not another meaning of life?

Despair becomes hope, hope becomes despair again, and this cycle is the meaning of life and death.

See through life and death, and life will have a greater width.

For life and death, no one can control its length, just as the saying goes: the king of hell wants you to die in the third watch, who can keep you in the fifth watch?

Although we can't control the length, we can expand the width, so the living area will be bigger and bigger. In fact, this is also a continuation of life.

I know a little girl named Xiao Ou. She got married and had children at the age of 20. She had a perfect love and marriage, but she was diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer at the age of 2 1, which was almost a death sentence. However, for Xiao Ou, she is not afraid. She has a strong operation and insists on radiotherapy and chemotherapy. After spending 500 thousand, she still won't give up.

Someone told her that the disease can't be cured, so why spend so much money to cure it?

I still remember what Xiao Ou said: Healthy people don't know which will come first, the accident or tomorrow. Why should I give up first? ?

Because of radiotherapy and chemotherapy, the little seagull lost a lot of hair, so she simply cut her head off. Beautiful people are beautiful in any shape. Up to now, the little gull that has been treated for two years has grown a lot of hair and looks like a refreshing young man.

Her life span is not destined to be as long as that of ordinary people, but Xiao Ou herself said that her experience in the past two years is more than that of many people in a lifetime.

Indeed, whether it is active growth or forced growth, Xiaoou has extended the width of life to the maximum extent and strived to live for himself and his family.

Zhuang Zhou said:? Sadness is more terrible than heart death. ?

The meaning of life and death lies not in itself, but in how to live between life and death. Happiness is a day, sorrow is a day, and you will die in the end anyway. Why not live happily every day?

Life is short, walking on the road, rushing and stumbling, running around carefully all my life, worrying and laborious. What should you leave in this life?

Work hard when you are alive, and don't make yourself too tired. Buddhist scripture says: be open-minded, look down, relax, people should not be too sophisticated, but don't be too diligent, don't be tired, tired of yourself and your heart. ?