Children who grow up in a gentle and well-meaning family will not have major personality problems. If there is a problem with a child's character and conduct, the responsibility must lie with the parents.

Because of your own failures, frustrations, and disappointments, if you turn your anger on your children, your children may have to live in failure, frustration, and disappointment.

The more "successful people" are, the more they must be wary of neglecting their children's growth and being blindly confident; the more "low-level people" they are, the more they must avoid sighing and being discouraged in front of their children.

Only love and respect can enable children to always maintain a lifelong nostalgia for their parents.

Literacy is the starting point for all exploration. Literacy is a very important basic ability and quality, and the learning of all other knowledge must be based on literacy as the premise and foundation.

Grandparents often continue to have all the rights to their sons in the family, so the real parents become a supporting role, and the mother becomes a hard-working person who cannot fulfill her responsibilities.

The secret of cultivating normal children into geniuses is to stimulate their brains frequently, intensely and for a long time. Reading is a positive and conscious stimulation and a good agent for stimulating intellectual development.

The best way to preserve and enrich children's sensibilities is to put them in nature and let them pay attention to the world around them. It is necessary to take children to break out of the narrow circle of their lives and go to nature to feel the vitality and happiness of life. (Zhen Shitian)

Sow a habit and reap a character;

Sow an action and reap a habit.

Scolding and punishing children in public is almost a form of horrific torture.

It’s a bit sad to be afraid of something that shouldn’t be feared. It is even more terrible to be unafraid of what should be feared. Only parents can help their children tell the difference between the two.

Bad qualities in parents, such as laziness, rudeness, impatience, narrow-mindedness, snobbery, lack of kindness, bad lifestyle, etc., are often more likely to be inherited, because "bad qualities" are always more energetic And contagious, and all good qualities require double the effort to cultivate, and at the same time, he has higher requirements for his parents.