After reading a book, what do you feel? I need to write a good record of my thoughts after reading it. Are you at a loss for what you think after reading it? The following is my carefully compiled reflections on reading Fu Lei’s family letters. Everyone is welcome to learn from and refer to them. I hope it will be helpful to everyone. Thoughts on reading Fu Lei’s family letters 1

The war rages on for three months, and letters from home are worth ten thousand gold. No matter what time it is, family letters are always extremely valuable. It embodies parents' concern for their children, and "Fu Lei Family Letters" is also based on this.

The book "Letters from the Lei Family" is composed of letters written by Fu Lei to his son. It excerpts 186 letters from Mr. Fu Lei from 1954 to 1966, expressing his love for the country and his son. In order to meet his expectations, he taught his son to be a modest and prudent person and an artist with both ability and political integrity.

What benefited me a lot from this book was Fu Lei’s encouragement to his son: “People float up and down in high tides and low tides throughout their lives. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water.” Yes, Human life is like a river, sometimes it meanders and sometimes it goes straight forward. Sometimes it falls rapidly, and sometimes it is calm and unruffled. In the face of all this, if we are not tenacious, then life will be like a pool of stagnant water, without any waves.

In fact, in life, like Fu Cong, we will also encounter bad things and unsatisfactory things, such as a plummeting ranking in an exam, or a mistake in a speech. Let you pass by success. At this time, if you stand up, you will find that success is actually so close to me, but if you are cowardly and give up, then life will make you understand that you are leaving. My ideals are getting further and further away.

Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for the disease. Frustration is a bitter medicine for the disease. However, you must take it to benefit the disease. Otherwise, no matter how good the medicine is, it will not be able to work.

A person's life is full of highs and lows. Only mediocre people will live like stagnant water. This sentence tells me all the time, don’t give up your greatest motivation because of temporary success or failure. Life is like this, with ups and downs, making you and me more brilliant. Thoughts on reading Fu Lei’s family letters 2

The family letters written by Fu Lei are not just letters to his son, but a personal philosophy, which played a great role in Fu Cong’s life path. Letter communication between father and son is beneficial to the son's personal development, and also plays a great role in promoting the relationship between father and son. Therefore, "Fu Lei's Family Letter" brings us not only cultural knowledge, but also many principles of life.

Fu Lei not only has a profound foundation, but also has a more contagious language color. His love for his son is very wise and profound. His thoughts are not only conducive to promoting social development, but also providing parents with Provided many teaching methods. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a famous book that absorbs the essence of many educational strategies and the best ways to love children. It can also be called "China's excellent educational book".

From "Fu Lei's Family Letter" "We can see from each of the letters that Fu Lei taught his son very wisely. Thinking about our daily life, we may envy and admire such a father, because we all hope that our fathers can be as loving as Fu Lei. And he has a strict tutor. Pay more attention to the healthy development of people and the necessary thoughts for being a human being.

When children are too dependent on their parents or parents dote on their children, there will be factors that are detrimental to the growth of the child. Only people like Fu Lei can actively communicate with their children, discover problems in time, and find out the problems. , solve problems to become a wise parent.

When the child is born, the parents are so ecstatic that just looking at him will make him very happy, because it is the crystallization of the love between two people. Seeing that he is so young and his life is so fragile, he will feel sad from time to time. Thinking that I have to be responsible for him...

It is said that the love of parents for their children is selfless and a very precious emotion in the world. So, we can see from "Fu Lei's Family Letter" Fu Lei's wise fatherly love, because his evaluation of many things Fu Cong experienced was very reasonable.

What a thoughtful father! Fathers are very important in the development of children's lives. Parents should cultivate their children's love from an early age, develop their children's brain imagination, and cultivate various interests and hobbies to facilitate their children's future development and create a beautiful life for them. In fact, it is better for parents to be a little stricter, and they should be more sensible in the way they discipline their children. When your child makes a mistake, you should not criticize him too harshly. You should strengthen your management of your child, listen to his reasons, and provide ideological enlightenment.

Father's love is as majestic as a mountain, mother's love is like water, and tender. We should understand our parents, strengthen our own quality, gradually establish a friendly relationship with our parents, let them understand you, and be a good and competent child! In this era, perhaps there are fewer and fewer fathers like Fu Lei. Most children have little communication with their parents, which dilutes the relationship between parents and children. Of course, blood is thicker than water, and family affection is still very strong no matter what. important. The strong "rhyme of family love" in this book makes reading it feel like traveling around the world. The words in the family letter may seem ordinary, but in fact every sentence is true. It can make us feel the true love between Fu Lei and Fu Cong. Straightforward and easy to understand, it is a book worthy of our appreciation! In fact, the criterion for measuring the quality of a book is not the number of people who read it, but whether it can meet people's spiritual needs and whether it is helpful to people. Such books are the best books.

"Fu Lei's Family Letter" is not only about the father's teachings to his children, but also about the social background of the time and the principles of continuing to be a better person.

I think this book may not be the best book among books, but I believe its usefulness is undeniable. After all, reality is the most real. There are too many colorful words and phrases. It just adds to the color, and the connotation is the most true, kind and beautiful. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" 3

Recently, after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters", I felt quite inspired. In that era, family letters and family letters were as connected to each other's hearts as our mobile phones. The "Fu Lei Family Letters" consists of 186 family letters written by Fu Lei to Fu Cong.

At that time, Fu Cong was studying in Poland. At this time, there was some estrangement between his father Fu Lei and Fu Cong, so that on the day Fu Cong left, the two of them did not speak much, but at the train station After saying goodbye to his son, Fu Lei's concern for his son gradually became stronger. As mentioned in the letter, Fu Cong seemed to be seriously ill. At first, Fu Cong seldom communicated with his family. Fu Lei sent Fu Cong a letter home every few days or once a week, revealing his care for Fu Cong in a letter home. Gradually, , the stone in Fu Cong's heart finally softened, and he was infected by the deep father's love, and gradually communicated with his father. Although this book does not excerpt Fu Cong's letters to his father, Fu Cong can be read between the lines. Growth bit by bit.

Fu Lei always used the airline to send letters home, but in those days, this was such a luxury. But in Fu Lei's eyes, understanding Fu Cong's safety and his situation at school is more important than anything else. Money is not worth mentioning in front of father's love.

After Fu Cong left, the first letter Fu Lei sent to his son made us understand what meticulousness is, what meticulous care is, and what fatherly love is.

A few words of conversation fully reflect that it is not the teacher’s teachings, nor the elders’ advice, but the parents’ care for their children, which is another kind of teaching. It is different from the care of other parents, but without losing the feeling of careful care. This is a bit like a letter my mother wrote to me. Although I was not in a different place, there was a little gap between mother and daughter during that time. That time, I made her angry, so she got up at three o'clock in the evening and wrote it for me. A seven-page letter. That letter made me very heartbroken. It was like a heart-to-heart conversation that closed the distance between us. I felt, listened, and remembered the deep maternal love with my heart.

In fact, "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is entirely written for Fu Cong alone, and it is also a godson chapter written for the sons and daughters of China. It not only allows us to understand Fu Lei's care for Fu Cong, but more importantly, Let us understand how Fu Lei taught his son how to behave, be patriotic and become talented.

Explain with heart what father's love is, and use words to explain what father's love is. Although not everyone has such deep father's love, he wrote about the true love buried in every father's heart. . Thoughts on reading Fu Lei’s family letters 4

Although I have only read more than 50 pages, I think Fu Lei’s family education atmosphere is very good. In this book, their letters talk about commonplace knowledge, but the letters reveal the parents' love for their son. Teach them how to become excellent people and let them slowly correct their shortcomings. They were separated from their sons since childhood and relied on letters to communicate. In today's society, there is a generation gap between parents and children, but there does not seem to be a big generation gap between brothers Fu Lei and Fu Cong.

Fu Lei’s family letter reflects the educational thought of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Thousands of years ago, Confucius had already implemented the educational thought of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Until modern times, how many people have taught students in accordance with their aptitude?

《 I think "Fu Lei Family Letter" is to make people reflect on their own methods and methods of educating their offspring, to make people reflect on the communication problems with their families, and to make parents reflect on the problems with their children. Thoughts after reading Fu Lei’s family letters 5

A father’s love is like a mountain, and a mother’s love is like water. Although the love is short and the love is short, they traveled thousands of miles and finally saw each other as if they had met face to face. I read Fu's translation of "John Christopher" many years ago, and I have also seen various versions of Fu Lei's Family Letters in bookstores. I have also heard that Fu Lei's Family Letters have been selected into textbooks, and have the same status as Zeng Guofan's Family Letters. However, in my humble opinion, I have never been optimistic about epistolary "homework", thinking that such works are too difficult to be systematic, clichéd, and trivial. However, in the past month or so, Jun Gui used the time before lunch break and after dinner to read this family letter one after another in the company. From time to time, he would cover the book and think deeply, or sigh. The vivid images, humble personality, selfless fatherly love, delicate writing, and profound insights make this book live up to its reputation. Fathers should read it, and sons should read it even more.

The content of the family letter will not be repeated here. Readers will have unclear insights after reading it. The military regulations only mention the suicide note of Fu Lei and Zhu Meifu attached at the end of the book. In the suicide note, Fu Lei listed in detail the ownership of the family's important assets and entrusted his wife and brother to handle them on his behalf, such as back payment of rent, dismissal of nanny fees, and even the cremation expenses of the couple! In his suicide note, Fu Lei called his son Fu Cong a "traitor of the people" against his will. In other parts of the family letter, Fu Lei and his son mentioned how they were proud of Fu Cong and encouraged him to continue in art. Being grateful cultivates a noble personality, etc. - attitude makes a difference! These last few sentences in the suicide note are Mr. Fu Lei's helpless words in an extremely cruel environment. As critics said, Mr. Fu Lei's death was not a death of despair, but a death with dignity. Fu Lei’s family letters will be like a beacon, illuminating generations of strong, just and respectable fathers and sons. Thoughts on reading Fu Lei’s family letters 6

I remember that the name Fu Lei was only seen on the covers of basic foreign novels at first, and he was a translator. It was during the summer vacation of the year before last that I really started to have an impression of him. At that time, under the guidance of the school, I worked in a factory in Dongguan with my classmates. Under extremely harsh circumstances, I even used tricks such as being sick to hire him. I went to the bookstore to buy books during my half-day vacation, and a copy of "Fu Lei's Family Letter" made me get to know Fu Lei.

However, I didn’t have time to read carefully at that time, and during this period, perhaps because my mind has not yet reached the state of my imagination, it is difficult to really calm down and read. I know that it has been delayed until now, in the last half of the summer vacation. I returned home from Guangdong this month. It has been a long time since I spent nearly half a month of leisurely summer vacation at home. It was this opportunity that gave me time to calm down and take a good look at it. I really hope that I can have it. One day I can use communication to describe the conversation between us. If I can do this, I will definitely have no regrets in my life. Thoughts after reading Fu Lei’s letters 7

Destiny whispered to the warrior: "You cannot withstand the storm." The warrior whispered: "I am the storm." - Inscription

Time passes , the eyebrows are written, and from now on the deep love will not be let down.

Every period of youth will grow old, but there will always be a space left for dreams, and memories will always be beautiful because of dreams.

After his son Fu Cong achieved success, Mr. Fu Lei put a thousand words in his heart into a few words in his letter. The uncontrollable excitement and pride, the unrevealed praise and encouragement, the sincere words after calming down, the various emotions of the parents when their son became a dragon, naturally revealed from the paper and flowed into the heart. A wisp of joy and calm emotion slowly floated out with Mr. Fu Lei's brushstrokes. At the end of the letter, he has higher expectations for his son - the perfection that he cannot obtain but pursues throughout his life, which is thought-provoking. Reading between the lines, one can vaguely realize how many obstacles this young man has faced, how many hardships he has experienced, and how many contradictions he has struggled with. Only he knows these. Finally, I got my own success, the pride of my family, the recognition of my teachers, and the praise of the audience. Time will never let down everyone who cares.

This reminds me of another caring person in this world - Yuzuru Hanyu.

Her face is like jade, her figure is like a pine tree, she is as graceful as a startled giant, and she is like a swimming dragon. Hanyu is such an amazing male figure skater. At the 2018 PyeongChang Winter Olympics, he became the first consecutive champion in the 66-year history of the Olympic Games.

Hanyu accidentally fell down during the warm-up of the 2014 China Cup and his head was bleeding. However, he still ignored everyone's advice and played with his head wrapped in a bandage. Due to mistakes caused by injuries, Hanyu fell hard on the ice again and again, but still stubbornly completed the entire free skating program. As sharp as ever on the ice, he struggled to walk and was in unbearable pain after coming off the ice. His respect for the game makes people want to persuade him to give up but they can't help but cheer him up. Commentator Chen Ying said in an interview that she had been commentating on figure skating for so many years, and it was the first time she saw a skater wearing bandages on the field, which moved her deeply.

In this year’s Winter Olympics, faced with the challenge of young quadruple jumpers, Hanyu did not flinch at all and tried his best to complete five difficult quadruple jumps. His achievement today deserves a standing ovation from every audience present. But behind the game, every athlete has countless unknown blood and sweat. The sprained ankle, the mottled purple-green fall marks on the body, the feeling of the head shaking due to the fall... They struggled alone in a place unknown to ordinary people. For the sake of the individual and the country, we must grit our teeth and persevere without fear of bloodshed!

On the field, music, jumping, rotation, footwork, which has not been repeated countless times by athletes? But in Hanyu's eyes, you can always see the look he only has on the ice rink - his unparalleled love and respect for figure skating. Such persevering emotions are enough to see yourself, the world, and all living beings. After dying again and again, he bravely reborn and lit up a brighter rainbow in the sky.

Why not devote yourself to music like Mr. Fu Cong, using notes like gurgling water to nourish people's almost dry souls; use strong fire-like enthusiasm to ignite the torch deep in the listener's heart.

Why isn’t the word “perfection” what these people pursue in common? It makes people excited and willing to spend their whole lives for it. Author: Class 11, 2016: Yue Yizhi

Fortunately, I got to know Qing Taohuamian, and from now on, there will be warm spring in the world. Thank you for meeting you in our most beautiful years and planting the seeds of dreams in our hearts. One day, it will sprout and bloom, guiding us to dance on the road to perfection! Thoughts after reading Fu Lei’s family letters 8

Why does a warrior of destiny use his life to make the last sword? Truth is supreme and loves gods who have their own souls. Art, music, culture and the proud and resolute spirit of scholars are the force that supports everything. Without all these, what meaning does life have for Mr.

"In recent years, I have often thought of people in the world. It is so insignificant in the universe and the world of nebulae, so I feel that it is arrogant and ridiculous for people to claim to be the soul of all things. However, all external things continue to have a strong effect on me, causing strong reactions and fluctuations. I cannot worry about the current situation and the country. At another time, I feel that I can let go in the blink of an eye, and everything is of no use to me! This kind of contradictory mood almost always controls me: subjectively, I have no intention of transcending the world, but in fact, I often feel emptiness and disillusionment. feel.

Individuals have keen and strong feelings about everything, but they often laugh at themselves for their foolishness. I don’t know whether this is the common depression of modern Chinese intellectuals, or whether it is due to my special temperament. Even though I feel some comfort when I think of you, I immediately think of the possibility of leaving you at any time. Your future and your development will never be visible to me. Your situation ten or twenty years from now will always be a mystery to me. , just like everything in the world, everything in life will become a mystery when I leave this world - the destruction of the individual, the vast universe will continue as usual, what is the individual?" Thoughts on reading Fu Lei's family letters 9

"If the heart is clear and the ears are clear, everything is still and still, which is also the rhyme. ” A stack of letters, carrying concerns and hopes, were sent overseas, telling the story of his longing. Living in a foreign country, Fu Cong was particularly grateful for his father’s teachings and his mother’s concern. At that time, he had grown from a teenager As he approaches youth, why don't he know the depth of his parents' love?

Holding a letter in his hand, he seemed to see his father writing the letter. His hair was gray and he was weak from writing articles for a long time. As soon as he picked up the pen and paper, he became energetic and seemed to be glowing. The strong and powerful handwriting was familiar to him, and he couldn't help but burst into tears, which smeared the handwriting.

In the letter, his father often used a consultative tone. He came to correct his shortcomings in music, tell him how to treat people, and teach him the principles of life. The words were not gorgeous, but they were all face-to-face commonplace words, but he knew that these words were like a lamp, lighting up for him. The light of the future.

And the mother's writing style is indeed more delicate and soft, and her love for her son is revealed between the lines, which is as refreshing as a clear spring. It is the gentle words that remind him of the warmth of his childhood. His teachings benefited him throughout his life. Love, sometimes not expressed in words, is like an invisible shield that sticks to the heart.

A letter from home connects the hearts of two countries and connects the deep family affection. . The contents of the family letters are mainly instructive, teaching children to be a person first, and to be an artist secondly. Talking about literature, music, and being a person have become an invisible family tradition, but this has inspired Fu. Cong thrives.

The love is dragged on the paper and ink, and the letters are signed. The great love travels across the ocean, and finally ends with infinite emotion and longing, so that the wanderer will not feel lonely and lonely. . Thoughts on reading Fu Lei’s letters 10

After reading the entire novel, there are only three points that impressed me the most. The first letter I saw contained a sentence: “My child, I abused you. I'll always be sorry for you. "After seeing this, I couldn't help but sigh a little. It's really rare for parents nowadays to be able to apologize to their children and take the initiative to admit their mistakes.

The second thing that impressed me is that he can talk to It is really rare for your children to exchange their own opinions and insights on literature, music, etc., and to be able to share each other's gains and losses with your children in a timely manner! The third point is to be able to insist on keeping in touch with your children through letters. .

Then I didn’t know how to write it, so I looked up the background of this book. The most important thing is that it can provide such encouragement to children. As parents, Fu Lei and his wife not only pay attention to... The education of children's thoughts, morals, sentiments and traditional cultural accomplishments also always pays attention to every detail of their daily lives, food, heating, cooling, expenses, etc., as well as their marriage and family life. The authenticity and reliability of a large number of rational words in family letters are also important. Credibility has also shortened the distance with readers, and I have some feelings after reading Fu Lei's family letters 11

A great father not only teaches his children carefully in their studies, but also in their personality quality. He also showed his concern for the development of the motherland and his love for the motherland to his son, teaching him to love his country and do everything he can for the country.

With a highly responsible spirit and effort, Fu Lei not only fulfills his father's responsibilities to his son, but also fulfills his responsibilities to the society, motherland and the human world.

It seems like there is only blame for me. Although my father said little, he did a lot. At the dinner table in the evening, he would always put a chicken leg, a piece of fish with the bones removed or a prawn into my bowl, and then take a sip of old wine by himself. Every morning, when I rush into the kitchen, a bowl of steaming egg noodles is sitting on the table, while my father is checking my bicycle in the courtyard, squeezing the tires and tinkering with the brakes. When I rush out of the house on my bike, I can always catch a glimpse of a tall, strong figure watching me off. I always feel that my father is a pine tree guarding me.

Fu Lei is unique in educating children. Fu Lei used language full of logic and philosophy to teach his son the correct way to deal with people and improve his son's ideological realm. By quoting your own stories and experiences, speaking from your own experience, and using sincere and vivid language, you can teach children the necessary spirit to become successful. Like your son's friend, talk to him on an equal footing and give him solutions and suggestions for problems that arise in his life. My father can’t be said to have any education methods. One time that impressed me deeply, my father took me to the factory where he worked. He pointed to the assembly lines that were running at high speed and said to me: "The assembly line looks very easy and simple. . But every process needs to be very precise. If I make a mistake in this process and accidentally send inferior products to the next process, the workers who perform the processing will not notice it. It will be passed on from one process to the next, and the product will be discovered at the end. If the quality is not up to standard, all the hard work that the workers have put in before will be in vain. So we should not make mistakes easily and make up for them in time, so as not to cause more bitter consequences." Since I can remember, this is the most talked about thing by my father. Maybe it has something to do with my careless study at that time. My father's simple teachings are deeply imprinted in my heart.

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There are many big differences between father and Fu Lei, but they have one biggest similarity, that is, they both love their children equally deeply.

Fu Lei’s love is unrestrained and passionate, and his love for his son is beyond words. And his father's love was hidden in his heart and filled his heart. It's just that he doesn't want to show this love too obviously. But as I grow older, I gradually understand: If it weren’t for care and love, where would those words of blame come from? If it weren’t for care and love, where would there be the figure watching at the door? If it wasn’t for care and love, where would it be? There will be those simple teachings...

Fathers in the world may be different, but their love is the same as that of Fu Lei, who spends his life writing that touching family letter. Thoughts after reading Fu Lei’s letters 14

The wind gently swayed the willow branches; the sky shed a touch of the crimson red of the remaining clouds; the clouds led the remaining warmth away quietly, leaving only a hazy night.

The moonlight shines on the blue cover of "Fu Lei's Family Letter". Fu Lei uses his sincere fatherly love to listen to every heartbeat of his son thousands of miles away. Each piece of letter paper conveys the touching feelings of licking the calf. When I felt the power of father's love from the book, even when I was in pain and miserable because of vain fame and fortune, I could still feel how warm and sacred it was. I gradually understood, "That is The power of love. ”

Envying the love Fu Cong received, I couldn’t help but think of my family.

Four years ago, my mother’s departure did not take away a single tear from me. Is it heartless? No, it's childish. The ignorant ones were left in the wild by me. Gradually, grandma gradually occupied my mother's position in my heart. Care, love, and trust are just the tip of the iceberg. I was extremely lucky to spend my childhood full of laughter and laughter, and I once thought how important I was. I gradually understood that "the feeling of being loved is like cotton candy, soft and sweet." Oh, isn't this the feeling of being loved by Fu Cong in "Fu Lei's Family Letter"?

To this day, my mother has given up her career without a single complaint. When I called out the two solemn and sacred words "Mom", I clearly saw the happiness and joy on her face. When she packed her luggage with her tanned, rough, uneven hands, I clearly saw it. I wore a few T-shirts and jackets that were turning white and washed them.

I shouted from the bottom of my heart: "Mom!" When I grew up, I also understood: "Love does not need to be proven. The true love is actually by my side. After the precipitation of time, it has become a unique and priceless treasure."

The feeling of love is a kind of enjoyment, enjoying the joy of rebirth in Nirvana;

The feeling of love is a kind of admonition, spurring the laziness and arrogance deep in the soul;

The feeling of love is a kind of shock, a hearty feeling that shakes the spiritual realm. Thoughts on reading Fu Lei’s family letters 15

I envy Fu Cong for having a good father.

When his son Fu Cong was studying abroad, the translator Fu Lei wrote nearly a hundred letters home to him, teaching him to behave in a moral and patriotic manner and to become a talented person. He also incorporated the excellent morals of the Chinese nation into his earnest teachings to his son. Teaching. These letters were compiled into "Fu Lei Family Letters" - a book that teaches Chinese children how to behave.

Quietly opening "Fu Lei's Family Letter", like the deep father's love, there are many details that move me. For example, in order to make up for his son's growing unfamiliarity with the traditional culture of his motherland due to being far away from his homeland, Fu Lei, a father, insisted on mailing relevant books to his children, including the Book of Songs and Songs of Chu, despite all the difficulties. Song lyrics, Ming operas, and his own translations. In the letter, he expounded the cultural and philosophical thoughts of the nation, and corrected his son's wrong words more than once, in order to let his son understand: As a descendant of the Yan and Huang Dynasties, he is proud of it, because the motherland has endless cultural wealth. , passed down from generation to generation in the blood of all Chinese people!

This reminds me of my father. My father is a serious but humorous person. When I was a child, I remember that he always liked to gently caress my little head and tell me historical stories and Tang and Song Dynasty poems. But now, as my expenses are getting bigger and bigger, my father also goes out to make money and only comes back once in a long time. But he did not write to me tirelessly like Fu Lei. But I know that my father still loves me very much.

Fathers in the world may not be like mothers, waiting by our side every day. Their love has always been quiet.