Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "I am willing to be a 'zero'. People don't treat me as a thing. I can just see through the people who look down on me." A closer look at her outlook on life, I just feel that the world is sober and extremely transparent.

Not fighting is the portrayal of Yang Jiang’s life. She likes a poem she translated very much: "I won't argue with anyone, and I don't care to argue with anyone." If you don't like a person, you don't have to compete with him. Be a "transparent person", hide your edge, and stay away. Right or wrong, you win.

In a person's life, there are many things that go wrong, and there are also many people who can't stand it. If you have to argue about everything, your life will be very tiring. When you reach a certain age, you will understand: there are many things that cannot be understood through disputes. Everyone has different cognitive levels and different views. No matter how long you argue, the result will be in vain. The best way for two people from different worlds to get along is: you walk your way, and I cross my single-plank bridge.

Someone asked Yu Guangzhong: "How should you deal with those people who find trouble with you every day and chase you and scold you?" Yu Guangzhong said: "He scolds me every day, which proves that he cannot live without me, but I ignore him. , proves that my life can be lived without him. "When you don't want to speak, just stay silent and don't waste your breath on people who don't deserve it.

In life, one must eventually understand: Don’t take other people’s bad words to heart; your own mood is the most important. Being angry is a stupid behavior that hurts your body and heart. Never pay for other people's mistakes. In the second half of your life, if you can't figure out a fact or a relationship, please remember to let yourself go.

Truly mature people have mastered the secret of "no fighting, no reasoning, no anger".