Put yourself first, then pick up girls.

Men are visual creatures, and women even more so. Creating an outstanding first impression is a compulsory course for pick-up artists. If you don’t have exquisite facial features and a slender and straight figure, then work on your dress, conversation and body language. Establishing these details well will make your process of picking up girls twice the result with half the effort. Learn from Xie Yifan in "Dangerous Liaisons". When he was almost caught in bed, he still didn't forget to fix his hair. This is the quality of a pick-up artist. It is awe-inspiring to say: professional~ Of course the image Temperament is only the first step in self-construction, and it is also the most effective step. The more core thing is the construction of life model. Xie Yifan is in the top social circle in Shanghai, with many high-ranking officials and dignitaries among his friends. His daily life is full of luxury and enjoyment. This lifestyle is enough to attract any girl, big or small, with different strengths and weaknesses. Compared with appearance, the attraction of lifestyle is more universal and more stable and lasting. This is also the key reason why diaosi, who are poor in both material and spiritual life, cannot become pick-up artists.

Attraction is always more effective than chasing.

The non-famous pick-up artist Casanova summed up a famous saying when picking up girls: Be a flame, not a moth. Identifying a goal and pursuing it relentlessly is a common way for frustrated men. Sometimes it is very effective, but more often it has little effect. The correct method is to establish attraction first after establishing the target, and then wait for an opportunity to launch an offensive after the attraction is established. In the film, Xie Yifan did not expose his need for Du Fenyu at the beginning, but created opportunities to show up frequently, vividly showing his suave and gentlemanly demeanor, and establishing the image of a high-value man through various social certifications in the dance. . Only when the time is right to pick up girls, do you use a little trick (change the light bulb) to show your demand.

Never bet too much on a single goal.

The most significant difference between a pick-up artist and a pick-up artist is that a pick-up artist does not have the syndrome when picking up girls. The crux of the syndrome is that the difference between that woman and all other women is exaggerated, thereby completely obliterating the replaceability of that woman. Before Xie Yifan was confirmed to have fallen in love with Du Fenyu (he had not given up his identity as a pick-up artist at that time), he had never devoted all his energy to this single goal. Even after Du Fenyu rejected him for the first time, he fell in love in the blink of an eye. Wipe away my tears and spend the night with another beautiful woman. This allowed him to hold on to his defense line firmly and prepare for another attack.

Your own safety is always more important than your goals.

Pickup artists are not desperadoes. When picking up girls, they themselves are threatened. Pickup artists must quickly assess the surrounding environment and properly protect themselves. What's more important is to eliminate hidden dangers and not let the urge to hunt for targets overwhelm your own reason. If you ignore this rule, you will pay the price in blood. Director Yan Po, who was hacked to death in real life, and Xie Yifan, who was shot dead by Dai Wenzhou in the film, are very clear examples.

Never antagonize female players.

Women have the ultimate sides of good and evil. When she is good, she is like a holy mother, and no hymn in the world can be exaggerated. But when she is evil, she is enough to shock the world. One of the biggest threats to pickup artists is the hatred of women, especially female gamers. Therefore, pick-up artists must have a reverence for women and always be on guard against the seeds that ignite their hatred. This game is very exciting, but also very dangerous. If you are not careful, it may become a "self-immolation for those who play with fire." The first wrong decision Xie Yifan made in the film was to declare war on the female player Mo Jieyu in front of her. This decision ultimately cost him his life.

When the pick-up artist becomes truly attracted to someone, it’s the end of the game.

What if Xie Yifan didn't have true feelings for Du Fenyu in "Dangerous Liaisons". Then no one will die in the end, and when time heals all scars, everyone's life can return to normal. Xie Yifan can spend a good night with the woman of his dreams, Mo Jieyu, to add a shining touch to his resume. Dai Wenzhou will not become a murderer, and he may even find his beloved woman through a tortuous path. Or be cultivated by Mo Jieyu to become the next pick-up artist.

But Xie Yifan was sincere. At this point, he completely gave up his identity as a pick-up artist, lost all his skills in picking up girls, and regressed into a real frustrated man. In the face of love, he became a fragile slave who could not control himself. , all the helpless pain will come to him. For a former real pick-up artist, perhaps death is his best destination. No matter how this destination is edited or rewritten, this exciting and exciting game of "playing with fire" will end here, just like the trajectory of a long circle finally draws back to its origin.