People often say, "I can't learn to find positive energy", "How can the boss find positive energy if he is a pervert" and "I don't want to go to work to find chicken blood". Positive energy seems to be an elixir, which can be revived with blood as long as it is obtained; It seems that positive energy has become a way to avoid problems. If there is no positive energy, the problem will never be solved. I was so busy at work some time ago that I worked overtime at home all New Year's Day. In addition, my subordinates were ill and hospitalized, so I was upset and impatient during overtime. I can't wait to put the mouse on the computer. I think at home every day, how can I live like this? Many problems together, without thinking, become a fast knot. Resign! Disappear! Put all this behind you! These words suddenly all jumped out, making me feel desperate, and the whole world was dim! I really want to see something awesome in a corner, so that I can handle it! After watching TV for a long time, I really saw a few right words, which made my inner temperature rise a little bit, and I had a little strength to think about all kinds of things carefully, really calm my heart, take everything apart to find out the cause and effect, and the most important thing is to come up with various solutions. Think about it carefully, in fact, positive energy is like a spirit, which permeates everyone's beliefs and makes you start to believe that you can win and do it, that's all. The solution of the matter itself still depends on your own efforts, rather than relying entirely on positive energy to solve the problem.

When the word "positive energy" makes people dependent, more and more people think of not how to solve the problem in the first time when they encounter difficulties, but where to find positive energy and give me some chicken blood. But the more so, the more I lose the initiative (or instinct) to get myself up from despair, and I always feel that I need some external force to revive my spirit and boost my morale. When the mood falls to the bottom, I don't know how to get out of it. After a long time, if Fiona Fang Erlidi can't find a suitable inspirational object, this day will be impossible.

When "Juvenile Pi" was released, I felt that Pi was particularly strong. This kind of strength does not mean how many physical and material difficulties he has overcome, but that he constantly overcomes his desperate heart, overcomes his loneliness and loneliness in an environment without rivals, positive energy and goes to the other side day by day. This reminds me of too much positive energy and too much dependence in this era. In this era, the pain and despair of young people mostly come from the confusion of future ideals, the overestimation of self, the forbearance and uneasiness of society, rather than the lack of material or material resources; The impetuousness and emptiness of society will drive away all young people's feelings of pain and patience, and will also cause more mental torture and depression. If we always need spiritual opium such as positive energy to constantly * * ourselves, if one day, there is no inspirational story and chicken soup for the soul around us, can such a day go on? Can your winning belief instinctively overcome the voice of despair in your heart and let yourself cross the lonely ocean like a teenager Pi?

Even if we absorb a lot of positive energy every day, read too many inspirational stories and read too many aphorisms, if we can't combine these contents with ourselves, if we can't integrate these contents into our lives and make ourselves make more progress every day, then the so-called positive energy is useless. Inspirational stories are still someone else's, famous sayings and aphorisms are still in books, and nothing has caused anything. It's just caffeine before bed. I woke up with nothing.

The better the conditions, the more resources, and the more you should treat yourself harshly. Imagine that we are facing problems in a place where we have nothing. How should we strive for ourselves instead of relying on others? When our mood and attitude begin to change slowly, many negative problems will turn around quietly and show a gentle smile.