1. The Buddha said: It takes five hundred times of looking back at the past life in exchange for passing by in this life. We met once in this short life, and we had many good relationships in previous lives. Holding hands is a kind of fate, looking back is a kind of fate; life is a kind of fate, love is a kind of fate; if there is an afterlife, the next life is also a kind of fate. What makes up life are the countless fates for you to make and resolve. Only by cherishing fate and following fate can you see the origin and fall of fate with a Buddha mind.

2. Buddha said: It doesn’t matter if you fall in love with someone whose living habits are very different. You should be cautious about getting married and think about whether you can tolerate each other’s differences for a long time.

3. If you truly love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of you and ignores behaviors you don't like, then he doesn't love you. So if you don't care about him enough or he doesn't care about you enough, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you. Don't think that you are careless or believe that he is a careless person. When you meet the person you truly love, a coward will become brave, and in the same way, a careless person will become careful.