The friendship between Marx and Engels

The friendship between Marx and Engels is a model of human friendship. From the first meeting of Marx and Engels in 1842, in the past 40 years, they fought together, fought hard and fought hard in the great struggle to lead the international communist movement, and established a sincere friendship. Due to the needs of the revolutionary struggle, they have been in two places for nearly 20 years, but their relationship has not become alienated because of this, but has become increasingly close. They corresponded almost every day, talked about various political events and scientific theoretical issues, and jointly guided the proletarian revolutionary movements in various countries. Marx not only admired Engels' profound knowledge and noble personality, but also cared about Engels' health. There was a period when Engels was ill, and Marx was always concerned about it. He said in a letter to Engels: "I am as concerned about your health as my own illness, perhaps more serious." Engels in order to "preserve the best "Thinker", financially supported the impoverished Marx so that he could concentrate on the research of revolutionary theory. Against his original wishes, he went to work in the "ghost business" in the company run by his father. When the first volume of "Das Kapital" was printed, Marx wrote to Engels: "I can only thank you for being able to do this! Without your sacrifice for me, I would never have been able to complete the huge work of three volumes. . I embrace you with gratitude." Although Engels made great sacrifices, he always believed that being able to fight side by side with Marx for 40 years was the greatest happiness in his life. This noble revolutionary friendship between Marx and Engels, as Lenin praised, "surpasses all the most touching legends about friendship from the ancients."

What is friendship?

① If friendship is an evergreen tree, then it must be watered by the clear spring from the heart; if friendship is a beautiful and unbeatable flower, then it must be illuminated by It is the sun rising from the heart.

②How many laughters are evoked by friendship, and how many tears are wiped away by friendship. The harbor of friendship is full of warmth, and the breeze of friendship fills the sails. Friendship is not an emotional investment, it does not require dividends and dividends.

③In the full moonlight, I drink a cup of the clearest; as the afterglow fades, I embrace a wisp of the warmest; in the scorching red leaves, I pick up a piece of the hottest; in the luxuriant grass, I pick a bouquet of the most brilliant ; in the long life, I want to pick up the most important thing in the world - friendship

④Friendship is a hug of sunshine shining in winter, which makes the poor and sick people feel the warmth of the world; friendship is a hug that appears in the present The spring water in the desert allows people on the verge of despair to see the hope of life again; friendship is a song floating in the night sky, allowing the lonely and helpless people to gain spiritual comfort.

⑤Friendship is like fine wine, the longer it is, the more mellow and mellow it becomes; Friendship is like fireworks, which becomes more beautiful when they bloom at a high place; Friendship is like pearls, which become more brilliant as time goes by.

⑥Friendship is a color of nature, and only discerning craftsmen can express it perfectly; friendship is a beating note on a musical score, and only singers with delicate emotions can express it truly. Pure.

Friendship is a tree

When you are busy, you want to rest; when you are on vacation, you think about the future. When you are poor, you long for wealth; when you live a comfortable life, you are afraid that happiness will not last long. When it's time to make a decision, I worry that the result will not be as expected; after seeing it clearly, I regret not making up my mind in the first place. I often have desires for things that don’t belong to me; once I hold them in my hands, I miss the ease I felt before I had them. If life is not now, then when? A person can be a lifelong relative with you without any reason, but a person will not be a lifelong friend with you without any reason. I will think of all the things I have known you, and I will also think of everything that happened. Until we are both old. Will we sit in front of the computer and talk to each other like we do now? No matter what, I hope we will always be sincere friends (confidants). A friend is someone who likes you and understands you. I hope you can cherish every friend around you. Because you and I are destined to be friends and confidants, it is even more rare! Time may not be the reason why you and I become close friends, but it can definitely prove that your care for your friends is not in vain!

I hope you will always be my good friend!

Friends are people you want to share with when you are happy.

Friends are people you can lose your temper when you are unhappy.

Friends are also The one who saves you when you have no money to eat,

My friend, the one who can help you when you are bored and desperate,

If you want to realize how much value a year has, You can ask a student who failed and retaken the course.

To understand the value of January, you can ask a mother who unfortunately gave birth prematurely.

To appreciate the value of a week, you can ask the editor of a regular weekly.

To understand the value of one hour, you can ask a couple waiting to get together.

To understand the value of one minute, you can ask a traveler who missed the train.

To understand the value of one second, you can ask a lucky person who escaped death.

To understand how valuable a millisecond is, you can ask an athlete who missed out on a gold medal.

A friend is...a person who wants to share even a small touch or a small thing.

A friend is...the person who holds your shoulders when you hold your head and cry.

A friend is...the one who always holds your hands when you face setbacks in life

How are you?

The fact that you can see it is the fate between you and him

The fact that you can be friends with the people around you is also the fate between you and him

Even though You don’t know when these meteors will disappear

But if you cherish every moment you see these meteors

then you won’t regret it even if the meteors are gone

Please cherish everyone around you

Cherish this friendship!

Building friendship is like planting a tree, because friendship is a tree

(TREE):

T:Trust

R: Respect (respect)

E: Exchange (communication)

E: EmotionalSupport (spiritual support)

Friends are the ones who accompany you through the storm invisibly , the power that will always support you

A friend is an indescribable and beautiful feeling

A friend is the person who always protects you in front of others

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Everything you want to share

A friend is someone who holds your shoulders when you hold your head and cry. That person

A friend is the hand that holds you tightly when you face setbacks in life

I like rain because you won’t know that I cry...

Quotes about friendship

Having many good friends is better than having a lot of wealth. - (English) Shakespeare

The basis of friendship lies in the greatest similarity in the hearts and souls of two people.

-(Germany) Beethoven

Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to get, but it is hard to find a close friend.

---Cao Xueqin

When making friends, keep your word.

--Confucius

A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs.

--Mao Zedong

Wealth is not a true friend, but friends are real wealth

----Chinese proverb

Discord between friends is an opportunity for enemies to attack.

---Aesop

Friendship needs loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care.

--German proverb

Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

---Fu Xuan

There are three kinds of real friends: friends who love you, friends who forget you, and friends who hate you.

--Sanfer

A true friend is one soul conceived in two bodies.

---Aristotle

To learn alone without friends is to be lonely and ignorant.

---Confucius

Friends are the defenders against sorrow, unhappiness and fear, and are the jars of friendship and trust. - "Five Volumes"

The most beautiful thing in life is her (his) friendship with others. --lLincoln

There are close friends across the sea, and they are like neighbors across the world. --Wang Bo

Many years ago, the British "Times" published a topic. An open call for answers to the question: What is the shortest road from London to Rome?

Many people look for answers based on geographical location, but they all fail. Only one answer won the prize: a good friend. With a good friend accompanying you, chatting and laughing along the way, not only will you not find it too long, but you will even say it is too short.

Of all the blessings that wisdom offers to the whole of life, the acquisition of friendship is the most important. Boccaccio

People must rely on patience to maintain harmony. Friendship is like a little flower, which must be carefully cultivated by both parties. Anonymous

Friendship is like a fraction, the two parties are the numerator and denominator. When the numerators (denominators) lose each other, the fractional value becomes nothing. Anonymous

Whoever has encountered a friendly heart once in the world and experienced the state of sincerity has tasted the joy of heaven and earth. Romain Rolland

The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts. Einstein

Only by interacting with people without prejudice can you make friends. Roland

Friendship is the mysterious union of the soul, the beautifier of life, and the consolidater of society. Robert Brahai

Speaking of fame, honor, pleasure, wealth, etc. , if compared with the passion of friendship, all this is just dust. Darwin

The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk too much, who can talk to you silently and yet have a close connection with you. Gorky

Except for a true friend, no medicine can heal the heart. Bacon

The lack of true friends is the purest and most pitiable loneliness; without friendship, the world is nothing but a wilderness.

Bacon

If we want to gain more deep friendships, we may also need to pay more attention to how we behave and live up to the wisdom of our friends. Zou Taofen

Love friends, like friends, treat friends with sincerity, but do not rely on friends, let alone be demanding of friends. Only by doing these things can you enjoy the joy of making friends. Roland

Friendship and career represent the two great pleasures of life, and if you want to have these two great pleasures, you must be cheerful and diligent. Roland

Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance. Ba Jin

Friendship is a kind of gentle and calm love, guided by reason, formed by habits, arising from long-term understanding and mutual agreement, without jealousy or fear. ——Holmer

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. ——Kahlil Gibran

True friendship is like phosphorus—it shines brightest in the darkest moments around you. —d.m.

True friendship is like a phosphorus fire. Although it is weak, it will give you all its light when you are in darkness. ——Yu Xiaoye

True friendship is a plant that grows slowly. ——Washington

Friendship produces happiness, and civilization brings harmony.

——Hugo

Best friends are like different bodies but one heart.

——Aristotle

The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts.

——Einstein

You may forget those who have laughed with you; but you will never forget those who have cried with you.

——Kahlil Gibran

He who has neither friends nor enemies is just an ordinary person.

——Rafat

Treat everyone equally, treat a few people sincerely, and do not be indebted to anyone.

——Shakespeare

Among all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness.

——Balzac

Where one person may perish alone, two people together may be saved.

——Balzac

1. There is nothing more beautiful and pleasant than friendship in the world. Without friendship, the world seems to have lost the sun. ——Cicero

2. My friend, your voice floats in my heart, like the whisper of the sea water, lingering among the listening pine forests. ——Tagore

3. Only with friends can life show its full value. A person lives for his friends, protects the integrity of his life from the erosion of time, and also for his friends. ——Roman Tolstoy

4. To be a true confidant, you must trust each other. ——Leo Tolstoy

5. Having a friend is a blessing in life. Leo Tolstoy

6. Sadness can be taken care of by oneself, but if you want to fully appreciate the taste of joy, you must have someone to share it with. ——Mark Twain

7. Treat all people with sincerity, live in harmony with most people, frequently come and go with a few people, and be intimate with only one person. ——Franklin 8. Friends see friends transparently, and they exchange lives with each other. The voices and smiles of the two parties imitate each other there, and the souls imitate each other there. ——Roland 9. If friendship can adjust people's emotions, then another role of friendship is to increase people's wisdom. ——Bacon 10. Brothers are not necessarily friends, but friends are often brothers. ——Franklin 11. Friendship is like a flower. If you cultivate it well, it can bloom in full bloom. But once willfulness or misfortune fundamentally destroys friendship, the flower that blooms in the heart can immediately wither and wither. ——Alexander Dumas

12. If you see unnatural politeness between friends, you can know that your relationship has begun to decline. Frank and simple loyalty does not need to be pretentious. ——Franklin 13. If you want to have good friends, you must first become a good friend to others. ——Musha Koji Sanetsu 14. Telling your friends about your shortcomings is a great trust, telling him about his shortcomings is even greater trust. ——Franklin 15. Friends are not only needed in misfortune, because happy people also need friends to enjoy their happiness. ——Russell

Only by interacting with people without prejudice can you make friends. ---Roland

Friendship is the mysterious union of souls, the beautifier of life, the consolidater of society---Robert Brahay

Speaking of fame, Honor, pleasure, wealth, etc., if compared with the passion of friendship, all these are nothing but dust. ---Darwin

Of all the blessings that wisdom can offer to the whole of life, the acquisition of friendship is the most important. ---Boccaccio

People must rely on patience to maintain harmony. Friendship is like a little flower, which must be carefully cultivated by both parties. --Anonymous

The lack of true friends is the purest and most pitiful loneliness; without friendship, the world is just a wilderness.

---Bacon

If we want to gain more deep friendships, we may also need to pay more attention to how we behave and live up to the wisdom of our friends. ---Zou Taofen

Love friends, like friends, treat friends with sincerity, but do not rely on friends, let alone be demanding of friends. Only by doing these things can you enjoy the joy of making friends. ---Roland

Friendship and career represent the two great pleasures of life. If you want to have these two great pleasures, you must be cheerful and diligent. ---Roland

Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance. ---Ba Jin

You may forget the person who laughed with you; but you will never forget the person who cried with you. ---Kahlil Gibran

Friendship is like a fraction, the two parties are the numerator and denominator. When the numerators (denominators) lose each other, the fractional value becomes nothing. ---Anonymous

Whoever has encountered a friendly heart once in the world and experienced the state of sincerity will have tasted the joy of heaven and earth. ---Romain Rolland

The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts. ---Einstein

The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk too much, can talk to you silently and is closely connected with you. ---Gorky

Except for a true friend, no medicine can heal the heart. --- Bacon

Poems about friendship

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The friendship between common people and common people should not be forgotten. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Yanshou

A gentleman and a gentleman are friends of the same way, and a villain and a villain are friends of the same interests. - (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu

The joy of life lies in understanding each other. - (Song Dynasty) Wang Anshi

It is better to dissolve enemies than to make knots. Everyone looks back and looks at the future. - (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong

A hero in adversity. -(Qing Dynasty) Wei Xi

It is easy to get ten thousand taels of gold, but it is hard to find a close friend. - (Qing) Cao Xueqin

Change my heart for yours, and we will know and remember each other deeply. - (Song Dynasty) Gu Xia

Zhong Ziqi died, and Boya stopped playing the piano for the rest of his life. - "The Book of Han"

Mountains and rivers are not important, the important thing is to meet someone you know. - Bao Rong

When a man lives his life, he should make friends with heroes from all over the world.

-"The Chronicle of the Three Kingdoms. The Book of Shu. The Biography of Liu Ba"

A gentleman will not criticize others when he submits them, and he will not commit blasphemy when he submits to others. - "The Book of Changes"

If we know that we are all brothers everywhere, we will never meet old friends wherever we meet. －Chen Gangzhong

Friends are those who unite with each other through righteousness. - (Song Dynasty) Zhu Xi

The clothes are not as good as new, and the people are not as good as before. - "Han Yuefu"

Working together to achieve economic success, always the same. - (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu

Through one life and one death, friendship is known. One is poor and the other is rich, which is a state of acquaintance. One is noble and the other is humble, friendship is about seeing each other. - "Historical Records"

One is a noble person and the other is a humble person. - (Tang Dynasty) King Luo Bin

It is of no use to be alone when we are in dire straits. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai

Toss him with papaya and hug him with Qiong Yao. It is always good to be rewarded by bandits. - "The Book of Songs"

The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. - "Yanmen Collection"

Friends who agree with you will never tire of their affection, and those who know your heart will talk to you. - (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong

Two people work together, and their sharpness can break through metal. - "Book of Changes. Part 1"

The baby is whining, please ask for his friend's voice. - "The Book of Songs. Xiaoya"

It is a joy to meet new friends. - (Warring States) Qu Yuan

The acquaintance who cut his neck to pieces. - "Book of Han. The Biography of Zhuge Feng"

A close friend is rare in the world. - (Tang Dynasty) Meng Haoran

Friends are always thoughtful. - "The Analects of Confucius. Zilu"

Reciprocity should be reciprocated. - "Book of Rites. Qu Li"

A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to support benevolence. - "The Analects of Confucius. Yan Yuan"

Those who make friends with money will lose their friendship when all their wealth is gone; those who make friends with sex will lose their beauty and love you. - "Warring States Policy"

When the severe cold comes and frost and snow fall, you will know how luxuriant the pines and cypresses are. - "Huainanzi"

Those who unite with power will have their power exhausted but separated. - "Historical Records"

A horse's power can be seen from a distance, and a person's heart can be seen from time to time. - "Selected Songs of the Yuan Dynasty. Strive to repay kindness"

We know each other no matter how far we are, but we are still neighbors thousands of miles away. - (Tang Dynasty) Zhang Jiuling

When we meet, we smile, and when we see each other, we cry. - (Tang Dynasty) Wang Wei

The water in Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, and it is not as deep as Wang Lun's love for me. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai

Friendship grows closer with age. - (Tang Dynasty) Du Fu

Although we have brothers, it is better to have friends.

-"Baopuzi.Communication"

A gentleman is as light as water, and his love becomes truer with time. Small people are like honey, and they are like enemies in a blink of an eye.

-"Xun Zhi Zhai Collection"

It is not advisable to make friends with others in a casual manner. - "Baopuzi. Communication"

The friendship between powerful forces is difficult to endure. - (Jin) Lu Ji

A husband must marry a poor man to make friends, and the poor must first make friends with each other. - (Tang Dynasty) Gao Shi

We are brothers, so why should we be close by flesh and blood? - Tao Qian

It tastes sweet but is easy to spoil. Even at the end of the year, we still know that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. - (Southern Song Dynasty) Xin Qiji

A gentleman will never make a bad sound when he is in constant communication with others.

- "Warring States Policy"

It is enough to know one thing in life, and the world should treat it with sympathy. - Lu Xun

It is better to find a friend who praises you than to find a friend who criticizes you.

-"Contemporary Youth Talks about Life"

When others help me, I will never forget it. When I help others, I will never forget it. - Hua Luogeng

Those who praise us behind our backs are our good friends. - (Western) Cervantes

In fact, everyone has advanced and backward friends. The question is how to help our backward friends and make them progress. We must not follow him and follow the crowd. This is That's the real "friend enough".

－Xie Juezai

Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance.

－Ba Jin

Three friends and four friends, eating, drinking and having fun, this is called "fair-weather friends". When friends get together, they don't talk about work, study, or politics, but only about personal matters. This is called "living in groups all day long, speaking without meaning".

－Xie Juezai

Friendship is always an assistant to virtue, not evil. - (Roman) Cicero

Foolish friends are worse than wise enemies. - (India) Sakyamuni

Whoever wants to receive help in times of bad luck should be lenient to others on ordinary days. - (Persian) Saadi

Those who attribute friendship to interests, I think, have written off the most precious thing in friendship.

-(Roman) Cicero

Some people are complimentary to you, but all of them are not friends in need-(English) Shakespeare

That ungrateful person People who are in trouble cannot be saved. - (Greece) Aesop

Friendship is really the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special admiration, but worthy of eternal praise.

-(Meaning) Bojia Qiu

The villain who tends to follow the crowd must not be in trouble! - (British) Byron

If you are wise, do not regard that person as a friend if he has a close friendship with your enemy.

-(Persian) Saadi

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. - (Li) Kahlil Gibran

You know a friend in need. - (Soviet) Lenin

Friends will know us when we are happy; we will know our friends when we are in trouble. -(UK) Collins

Friends who abandon you in an emergency are not trustworthy. - (Greece) Aesop

Don't rely on gifts to gain friends. You must devote your sincere love and learn how to win someone's heart in the right way.

-(Greece) Suragtes

It is better to choose friends carefully and to discard them even more carefully. - (U.S.) Fulang Green

Friends are the defenders against sorrow, unhappiness and fear, and are the jars of friendship and trust. - "Five Volumes"

Keep a certain distance between friends to make friendship last forever. - Charles

Although insidious friendship allows you to get some trivial favors, it will deprive you of the treasure-independent thinking and pure love for the truth!

-(Russia) Belinsky

True friends do not talk about friendship. They do not ask each other for anything for the sake of friendship, but do everything for each other. Something that can be done.

-(Russia) Belinsky

Words of kindness and promises of kindness are easy to say. Only in times of trouble can you see the sincerity of your friends.

(Russian) Krylov

Whether it is sentimental poems, beautiful articles, or leisure joy, nothing can replace an extremely close friendship.

-(Russia) Pushkin

A true friend should tell the truth, no matter how sharp...

-(Former Soviet Union) Austria Strovsky

Friendship is a noble and beautiful friendship based on mutual respect, deep sympathy, never malicious envy of other people's achievements, and cultivating a collective interest above all else for oneself. consciousness.

-(former Soviet Union) Ostrovsky

A true friend is happy for you when you succeed, but does not support you. When you encounter misfortune or sadness, we will give you timely support and encouragement. When you have shortcomings or make mistakes, we will give you correct criticism and help.

-(former Soviet Union) Gorky

Life is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to obtain true friendship; friendship always requires loyalty to sow seeds, enthusiasm to water, and Cultivate with principles and care with understanding.

-Marx

True and very sensible friendship is the most beautiful and priceless treasure in life. - (Former Soviet Union) Gorky

Friendship is as pure as the morning fog. Flattery cannot win friendship. Friendship can only be consolidated with loyalty.

-Marx

It is better to have many good friends than to have a lot of wealth. - (English) Shakespeare

The basis of friendship lies in the greatest similarity in the hearts and souls of two people.

-(Germany) Beethoven

Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to get, but it is hard to find a close friend.

---Cao Xueqin

Be strict and trustworthy when making friends.

--Confucius

A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs.

--Mao Zedong

You know the pines and cypresses at the end of the year, and the true love is revealed in times of adversity.

----Chinese Proverb

Discord between friends is an opportunity for the enemy to attack.

---Aesop

True and very sensible friendship is the most beautiful and priceless treasure in life.

--Gorky

Friendship requires loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care.

--German proverb

Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

---Fu Xuan

There are three kinds of real friends: friends who love you, friends who forget you, and friends who hate you.

--Sanfer

A true friend is one soul conceived in two bodies.

---Aristotle

To learn alone without friends is to be lonely and ignorant.

---Confucius

-Friendship is just the transition of love. After the initial attention and interaction, the next step is definitely to develop a good impression and develop feelings for each other.

-Men and women appreciate each other and face each other openly. As long as they are not afraid of gossip, true friendship will last forever.

Opposition to true friendship

-No clear boundaries

It seems that a famous person said that there is only love and no friendship between men and women. Is this absolute? not necessarily.

What is friendship? It's like having the same feelings and having the same interests. Friendship between men can develop into a life-and-death acquaintance, a life-and-death acquaintance, and stabbing one's friends at both ends has always been the highest state of friendship. Friendship can transcend the value of life.

The development of friendship between men and women, in addition to being precious beyond life, also involves the attraction between the opposite sex. Human love is not just for a specific person. The initial manifestation of many extramarital affairs is often friendship, many of which are pure friendship. Committing yourself to each other and being crazy about me is an unavoidable result of the development of friendship between men and women. The friendship between men can transcend the preciousness of life, and the friendship between men and women can also transcend the constraints of morality and tradition. The influence of the objective environment and people's speculation are often the catalyst for this kind of transcendence.

Anyone who doesn’t want to cause scandals or have their family stability threatened will have a certain degree of control in their interactions with the opposite sex so as not to fall into an emotional swamp.

-A vortex

Of course not! Let’s take a look at the development process of the relationship between men and women: First, two men and women with similar or complementary personalities and similar interests and hobbies have more contact in work or daily life. Slowly, they get to know each other more deeply and find love. Talking about the same topic, they develop a good impression of each other and feel that they have a pleasant feeling when they are with each other. In this way, there were more and more comings and goings, and more and more, it became more and more than a normal gay relationship. At this time, of course, they are not lovers or lovers. But then, they have a kind of waiting in their daily life. They will have many topics and secrets that only belong to two people. If they don't talk to each other for a day, they will lose their minds. At this point, the outcome can be imagined.

Conclusion: The relationship between men and women is an eternal whirlpool. You can either avoid it far away, or get involved magnificently. There is no third way.

If you don’t believe it, you can try it. Anyway, I never try it.

-Just a wish

The existence of pure friendship between men and women is just a beautiful wish. At the beginning, two people can declare that the relationship between them is pure friendship, but as the relationship deepens, or one party has fantasies about the other, or is affected by the external environment, the pure friendship will either evolve into feelings, or it will end unknowingly. Come to an end.

Let’s imagine the tests that pure “friendship” between men and women may go through: First, the other party has made a male (female) friend. When the other person tells you about dating, your mood suddenly becomes very complicated. The second is that your friend likes him or her. You will feel bad that your friends are fighting over your favorite toy. Third, people around you think your relationship is unusual. You can't explain to everyone that "there is no three hundred taels of silver here", and you will feel a little uncomfortable in the face of discussion. The fourth is physical attraction to the opposite sex. Under a certain atmosphere, once there is even a gesture of holding hands, it will be difficult to maintain the purity of friendship. Fifth, you fall in love with the other person. It is common for friendship to turn into love. If the other party has the same feelings, it will lead to romance. If the other party does not feel the same, the friendship may be lost due to the piercing of this layer of paper.

-The saliva drowns people

In the past, I always believed that friendship can be established between men and women in addition to overt or covert love. So, I once had one or two female friends. But now, even if you kill me, I don’t dare to establish any friendship with a woman. When there is something to talk about and something to do, two people must not stay together for a long time.

I like writing, and people often come to me for advice. Last spring, I went to work in a new unit, and a female colleague asked me to help her revise her manuscript and recommend it to the newspaper. We had just interacted with each other a few times, but some comrades with rich imaginations fabricated a series of "sexy news" and spread it widely.

She is a newlywed bride, and I am an honest man with a beautiful wife and loving son, and no one has any inappropriate thoughts. One night, this female colleague and I attended a literary salon organized by the Municipal Federation of Literary and Art Circles. As soon as we left the hotel, we bumped into our immediate boss. My boss talked to me early the next morning and said that there had been rumors about "our matter" for a long time. He hoped that I would pay attention to my image and not ruin my future with women. I didn't defend myself, turned around and drank a bottle of Gujing shochu myself. We can't stand the gossip around us, and pure friendships are destroyed by the criticism of others.

-Sowing the seeds of love

It is said that the friendship between men and women is very pure, whether it is clear or ambiguous, there is no such thing as the love and affection between the opposite sex... …This is hypocrisy.

The friendship between men and women includes a series of beautiful feelings: mutual affection, willingness to be together, trustworthiness, mutual care, willingness to help each other, willingness to share each other's worries, "generousness" for each other, and even You can "cut both sides"...these beautiful feelings themselves contain love and admiration. In the soil of this friendship, the seeds of love can sprout anytime and anywhere.

There are no insurmountable obstacles or boundaries between friendship and love. If the friendship between two people cannot develop into love for some reason, it is because the two people are suppressing their feelings with reason. During the revolutionary war years, the revolutionary cause required young men and women to pretend to be "fake couples." It was not that there was no love between them, but they suppressed their feelings for the benefit of the revolution.

Many of them later developed into real couples. Doesn’t it mean that the seeds of love planted at the beginning have sprouted?