Nietzsche's famous saying: "You might as well take a bold risk in life, because you are going to lose it anyway. If there is a miracle in this world, it is just another name for hard work. The most difficult stage in life is not that there is no one I understand you, but you don’t understand yourself.”

If you are afraid of fighting back now, you will suffer greater retaliation; in the future, you will continue to fight because of your cowardice and cowardice today. Feeling inner blame. Those who cannot take orders from themselves must take orders from others. Learning to fight is heaven; learning to be weak is hell. Prevention and Control of Campus Bullying

1. From a legal perspective, my country does not have special legislation to prevent and control campus bullying. The existing "Minor Protection Law" and related regulations are It focuses on preventing abuses against minors by adults, schools, supervisory units, etc., and does not mention content related to school bullying.

The introduction of special legal provisions will allow education supervision departments and law enforcement departments to handle school bullying incidents in a legal basis, control and punish them in accordance with the law, instead of simply "making peace" or direct criminal treatment, and combining prevention and treatment. , treat early childhood and nip campus bullying in the bud.

2. In terms of the education system, China has not clearly defined the responsibilities of schools in bullying incidents. The vast majority, or even nearly all, of campus bullying incidents are reduced to trivial matters within the campus, unless there are quite serious consequences, such as student suicide or serious injury. At the same time, although the education department has repeatedly called on schools to attach importance to life education for students, few schools have implemented it in the context of exam-oriented education.

First, provide channels for reporting bullying incidents. Teachers and staff must report bullying once they discover it.

Second, reported incidents of bullying must be investigated.

Third, active measures should be taken to intervene, ranging from verbal warning to expulsion from school. For students who have been expelled from school, social education organizations must also carry out psychological intervention and cannot let them go.

3. In terms of family education, the lack of family education is the source of campus bullying. To prevent and control campus bullying, only by starting from the family can we nip it in the bud.

As parents, we must first avoid violence, create a warm atmosphere in the family, pay attention to father's education, correctly guide children's values, establish children's frustration tolerance, and teach children to be good at communication. . Second, we must promptly detect whether the child is being bullied, and patiently observe whether there are scars on the child's body, whether the self-esteem is frustrated, whether items are often lost or damaged, whether there is a tendency to self-harm, whether the child is unwilling to go to school, whether the toilet habits are normal, and whether the child sleeps properly. Exceptions and other details.

If a child is bullied on campus, the correct way for parents to handle it is as follows:

First, calm down as soon as possible, investigate what happened, and ask teachers and police to intervene if necessary.

The second is to educate children to face it bravely. Blind tolerance will not only fail to solve the problem, but will only embolden the bully's arrogance.

The third is to collect personal and physical evidence in a timely manner to facilitate the smooth handling of the matter. Do not blindly accuse others, but focus on evidence, present facts, and be reasonable.

The fourth is to obtain legal help in a timely manner, seek the intervention of the juvenile protection department of the judicial authority, and promptly consult with professional lawyers on the correct handling methods to protect the legitimate rights and interests of the children to the greatest extent.

Don’t lose yourself because of other people’s malicious treatment. Believe in yourself and believe that “no one can hurt you unless you allow it.” Remember that you are not the one who did the wrong thing. Don't blame yourself because of other people's malice.

I hope you will always remember that no one can hurt you without your permission. When I look back, I will cherish all my experiences. Only with more difficulties can I grow. The growth that difficulties bring to me cannot be replaced by reading many truths. But these growths have nothing to do with others. There is no need to thank the people who hurt you, but to appreciate your actions in adversity and love yourself more.