Sun Tzu said: If you want to take it, you must give it first.

Buddhist scriptures say: give up, give up, give up and you will get it.

Horses can take risks, and fields are not as good as cattle; A strong car can carry loads, and crossing the river is not as good as a boat; People can't find their shortcomings, but seek their perfection. -(Don) Wei Zhi

How happy are those who take and give, and how unfortunate are the ungrateful misers. -Roudaki.

I am willing to kill myself and dare to take the emperor down. proverb

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There are many difficult and confusing trifles in people's lives. What is needed at this time is to give up categorically and make a wise choice. The only thing that will limit us is determination. -"determination"

When God closes one door, he will open another door for you.

Celebrity example

Rutherford who doesn't show off his honor

Most successful people try to cultivate modesty and prudence as the first virtue in life. They have gained more respect from the world because of their modesty and openness.

Rutherford has long been knighted. 193 1 year was awarded the title of Lord by the British government because of its position in the scientific community. He himself never takes these honors as a burden. He declared: "I don't value this form of Lord, because it is obviously not good for a scientist like me."

Rutherford never stole the beauty of others. He always remembers those friends and groups who helped him with infinite gratitude. For example, 1932, he emphasized in an article published in McGill News: "The honor of the first definitive proof of atomic transformation belongs to McGill University." He further pointed out. The experimental evidence accumulated from 1902 to 1904 was obtained by Soddy and himself, and it was clearly pointed out that "the first step of this exciting discovery in recent years was completed in Montreal." He never recorded all his honors and achievements in his credit book. He believes: "Scientists do not rely on personal thoughts. But the wisdom of thousands of people. All of them thought of a problem, and each of them did a part of the work and added it to the great knowledge building being built. " Relying on collective wisdom, Rutherford made one success after another in scientific research.

Rutherford expounded Bohr's theory of atomic structure in a speech at the Royal Society of British Literature (later awarded him the Albert Medal), and pointed out that in his view, in the past 25 years, exactly from the end of 19, there were only three basic discoveries, namely: 1895 X-ray, 65438. According to Rutherford's point of view, all the scientific research work later actually came from these three discoveries. None of the three major discoveries he listed belongs to him-from here, people can once again see his modest and simple ideological style. Indeed, these three discoveries were made before he entered the scientific field. Napoleon crowned himself.

1804 may18, the French Senate passed a resolution approving Napoleon as emperor. Surprisingly, the French people who were baptized by the Great Revolution actually supported the resolution of the Senate and overwhelmingly supported Napoleon as emperor. Lafayette, a French bourgeois revolutionary activist, was shocked by this phenomenon. He said that what shocked him was not the usurpation of power by one person, but the taming of the whole country. Beethoven, a world-famous composer, was even more angry when he heard the news. Beethoven admired Napoleon, who advocated democracy, civil rights and equality, and wrote a third symphony in E flat major for the heroes of the French Revolution. After writing, he wrote the inscription "Grand Symphony for Bonaparte" on his homepage with pious worship. It means. This piece of music is based on Napoleon and is also dedicated to Napoleon. At that time, Beethoven also planned to send the music to Napoleon himself through the French ambassador to Vienna. But just then, he heard the news that Napoleon proclaimed himself emperor. He said angrily, "Napoleon is just an ordinary man." "Now Napoleon wants to trample on everyone's rights and become a tyrant." Subsequently, Beethoven immediately obliterated the original inscription and renamed it "Hero Symphony". In a rage, he pushed too hard and the tip of his pen cut the paper. Now, this precious manuscript is collected in the music manuscript collection of Vienna music masters.

Napoleon's coronation ceremony was held in Notre Dame, the most famous place in Paris. The coronation ceremony was held on February 2nd, 1804. At 5 o'clock in the morning, many people gathered outside Notre Dame de Paris, waiting for Napoleon's arrival. In order to ensure safety, the French government used 80 thousand soldiers to maintain order. In order to show his dignity, Napoleon spent1120,000 francs to customize the imperial robe and prepared a priceless crown. This special royal car is towed by eight good horses with long white feathers. The royal car is decorated with gold, and there are four huge golden eagles on the roof, including a huge crown. Napoleon and Queen Josephine rode solemnly to Notre Dame de Paris. Pope pope pius vii, who was called to preside over the coronation ceremony, has been waiting here for a long time. Napoleon slowly approached the altar, the Pope anointed his forehead with holy oil, and then began to attend mass and prayer. When the Pope was shivering with the crown in his hand, Napoleon suddenly made an unexpected move. He took the crown from the Pope and put it on his head with his own hands. This move alarmed everyone present. Then, surrounded by his brothers and marshals, he sat on a high throne in the nave of the church. And crown Queen Josephine herself. This is unprecedented in the history of coronation.

Napoleon's move was obviously to show that he earned the crown himself, not the Pope. The supreme power should belong to him, the emperor, not the pope. Napoleon believed that religion must obey political power. He once wrote in a letter: "I want the Pope to be my squire." He came to the church to be crowned just to take advantage of the influence of religion.

Napoleon was indeed a statesman who dared to struggle and challenge the world. Darwin, who likes the beauty of adults.

In the arena of life, successful people often have noble ideological realm. They are kind-hearted, virtuous and humble. These qualities, in turn, won them honor and the respect of the world.

Darwin, a British naturalist, formed the viewpoint of evolution in 1839 and successively wrote manuscripts, but he did not rush to print and publish, but continued to textual research materials and supplement arguments.

This process lasted for 20 years.

1in the early summer of 858, just as Darwin was preparing to publish his own research results, he suddenly received a paper entitled "The Tendency of Varieties to Leave the Original Mode Indefinite" written by Wallace, another British naturalist who was engaged in investigation and research in Malay archipelago, and its content was the same as the research results that Darwin was preparing to go to press.

On this important issue concerning who is the founder of the theory of evolution, Darwin is ready to give up his research results and give all the initiative to Wallace. In a letter to Dr. Ryle, a British natural scientist, he said, "I'd rather burn my whole book than Wallace or others think that I, Darwin, regard people as laymen."

Ryle, who knew Darwin's research work, strongly opposed Darwin's doing so. Under his insistence and persuasion, Darwin agreed to send the outline of his manuscript and Wallace's paper to Linnaeus Society and read it out at the same time.

Wallace learned that Darwin had made this scientific discovery 20 years before him. He said with emotion: "Darwin is a patient and diligent researcher. He diligently collects evidence to prove the truth he found." He announced: "This discovery should be attributed to Darwin alone. I won a seat by chance."

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