In life, there are always people who love to compare with others, are dissatisfied with the status quo, envy others' brilliance and don't know how to cherish their own possession. If a person is too greedy and doesn't know how to control his desires, it will eventually lead to a tragedy in life.

Life is not perfect, life has shortcomings, the happiness of others is only an illusion in your eyes, and life will not appear in the way that everyone likes. You envy him for his high salary and he envies you for having enough time; You envy his power and influence, and he envies your physical and mental health; You envy his celebrity aura, and he envies your mortal freedom. How happy you are does not depend on how much you have, but on your love and tolerance for life.

I once read a classic saying: "When people come to this world, there will always be a lot of disappointment and a lot of unfairness; There will be a lot of loss and a lot of envy. "

In fact, everyone has his own advantages and something worthy of envy. You don't have to compare with others. Maybe when you envy others' glamorous appearance, others are also envious of your simple happiness. God will not concentrate all happiness on one person. Contentment is the best way to temper and purify the mind.

Nine times out of ten, it is career frustration, emotional frustration and life confusion. No one's life is particularly smooth, but different moods can lead different lives.

Open-minded people can experience setbacks, grow up in setbacks, see life clearly through confusion, appreciate the Excellence in others' eyes, plant their own happiness in their hearts, feel the vicissitudes of the world, and still love the fireworks on earth. Just like Hu of the Ming Dynasty, every evening, at the end of a day's life, he would bow down to heaven and earth:

One worship: living in peace and prosperity without the pain of war;

The second worship: food and clothing, no hunger;

Sanbai: The family members are in good health, and there are no violations of laws and regulations, no illness and imprisonment.

Only by knowing how to cherish can you be worthy. You won't care about gains and losses, you won't be decadent because of setbacks, and you won't envy others for losing yourself. Simple contentment, eternal happiness, glowing heart. Why are you afraid of the dark? !