There is a sad news. An uncle is dating his 38-year-old daughter and is afraid to write a double master's degree in information, for fear that others are afraid to ask. I remember a doctor who was a returnee was dating at a blind date corner in the park. Others sneered at her education and thought that such a woman was too powerful for anyone to marry. We can't help asking: Are women too good to get married?

Although this era pays attention to equality between men and women, there are still many inequalities in ideas. For example, there are many uncertainties in the marriage relationship where women are strong and men are weak, especially the probability of men cheating is high. A man told me that men don't like women with dreams, but only women who can support his dreams.

Women are too strong and excellent, which is a kind of pressure on men and is considered as a disadvantage in the marriage and love market. Isn't that ridiculous? You have worked hard for more than ten years, and you think you are proud, but others think you are unwanted.

I can't help asking, is it a joke that women are constantly pursuing independence and strength? I remember that in the TV series "Shanghai Women's Picture Book", the female host and the male host went to interview a company together, and the female host was obviously better. When scoring each other, the female host gives the male host 10, and the male host only gives the female host 6 points. In the man's mind, she doesn't want the woman to be better than herself, and even wants her to fail in the interview.

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Sometimes I think men's self-esteem is really ridiculous. Before, my friend wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination. She talked with her boyfriend for three or four years. She told her boyfriend about her idea of taking the postgraduate entrance examination, but her boyfriend said, "I don't agree. If you are better than me, can you still value me? " Men don't try to be strong, but hope that the other party won't be strong to show their man's charm.

What's more, if a woman wants to make progress, others always tell her that you should cook well and take good care of her husband instead of focusing on these things. As a result, many women put family first and try to be women behind men, but therefore, men dislike their wives for not making progress and making money. In marriage, men are really greedy. They want women to submit to them and women to help them.

Men are often very sensitive to the fact that women become stronger. He was afraid that she would become stronger and make herself out of control. Men are animals who like to conquer, look up, and don't like women who are equal or even stronger than themselves. Why do highly educated men discourage themselves? Because I am not good enough, I have no confidence and confidence in myself, so I can only choose a woman who is worse than myself.

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A woman who is too good can't really get married? I don't think so. A really good man is not afraid of a good woman, because he has enough mind to accommodate the other half. I have a reader who graduated with a doctorate with an annual salary of several hundred thousand. She married the boss of a listed company, and the two joined hands to make progress together in life and career.

If this woman only graduated from undergraduate course, can she meet her current husband? Of course not. Even if I meet her, I may not be able to value her. The more excellent a woman is, the bigger her pattern and vision are, and the people and things she comes into contact with are different, which is not accessible to ordinary people.

A truly powerful man is not afraid of a strong woman, but a woman is not strong enough. Look at the women behind those successful men. They don't just wash their hands to make bridal soup. They have the resources and ability to help their husbands.

Just like Liu and ZhangZetian, you naively think that ZhangZetian beat Liu only because he is young and beautiful. The most important thing in this world is to be young and beautiful. But a beautiful young, well-educated and capable woman is scarce. To make a successful man like you, you must have enough charm.

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I often hear graduates say, "I'm afraid I can't get married." It's really ridiculous. Are we trying to get married all our lives? If a man is afraid that you are too good, then he can leave.

If he really loves you, he is not afraid that you will become excellent, but that you will become poor. The more incompetent a man is, the less self-esteem he needs.

A woman's Excellence is definitely not weakness. If someone says yes, it must be your circle. Start your own social life and meet people at a higher level, and you will find that the world is completely different. I have always encouraged women to become excellent, because only if you are good enough can you have greater choices in this world. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.