Poems about etiquette 1. Poems about etiquette

"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." —— The Analects of Confucius, Ji Shi, a gentleman is kind, and courtesy is kind: a benevolent person loves others, a polite person respects others, a lover loves them and a respectful person respects them. ——— Mencius It's impolite to come without going. —— On the Book of Rites and Quli, manners are a mirror that reflects everyone's own image .———— Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people subject to form in his pure material life. Make people become aesthetic people within the realm of beauty.-Schiller: Letters on Aesthetic Education Politeness is the art of making choices in one's own real thoughts.-A Stevens: Madame de Steele makes polite people happy, as well as those who are treated with courtesy.-Montesquieu: On the Spirit of Law, politeness will not be lost. But you can get everything. —— Ma Wo montague: Etiquette in the Collection of Letters is the smallest but most stable norm. —— laroche Foucault: The Book of Moral Proverbs is a flower of universal love. People who are impolite can't talk about universal love. —— Joubaire: The Collection of Famous Words makes a person great, not because of wealth and family, but because of its preciousness. The second is misconduct and slightness; To avoid these two situations, the only way is to abide by the following rule, that is, don't look down on yourself and others.-John Locke: Random Talk on Education.

2. Ancient poems about etiquette

Famous sayings of civilized etiquette

1. Be quiet to cultivate one's morality, and be frugal to cultivate one's morality. -Zhuge Liang

2. Those who respect others will always respect them; Those who love others will always love them. -Mencius

3. The overlord took two rivers by himself, and many of his descendants descended from hundreds of cities. After the success of luxury, what is the double jeopardy? -Wang Anshi

4. If people are rude, they will not stand, and if things are rude, the country will be rude and restless. -Xunzi

5. Be kind to people and be like brothers; Evil spirit welcomes people and harms soldiers. -Guan zhong

6. there are brave people in the world, who are not surprised when they are suddenly present, and do not add up without anger. -su Shi

7. looking back at the former sages' countries and families, diligence and thrift broke the luxury. -Li shangyin

8. poverty without flattery, wealth without arrogance. -zi gong

9. if you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand. -Confucius

1. If we strengthen the foundation and economize, the sky cannot be poor. -Xun Kuang

11. Don't be arrogant, arrogance is rude, rudeness leads to people leaving, and people leaving are rebellious. -Zhuge Liang

12. Those who are extravagant and lazy are poor, while those who are diligent and frugal are rich. -Han Fei

13. A gentleman's trip is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, indifferent to one's ambition, and peaceful to achieve nothing. -Zhuge Liang

14. Earth can support the city wall, and accumulated virtue is a thick land. -Li Bai

15, extravagance leads to more desires. If a gentleman desires more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble quickly. -Sima Guang

16. Those who are extravagant are in a mess, and those who are frugal are safe. -Bai Juyi

17. Be knowledgeable in writing and make an appointment with courtesy. -Confucius

18. Don't suffer from disrespect for position, but suffer from disrespect for virtue; Not ashamed of Lu's lack of cooperation, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom. -Zhang Heng

19. Don't think about being prepared for danger in times of peace, and abstain from extravagance and thrift; Si seeks wood and luxuriance by cutting roots, and plugs up the source and wants to flow long. -Wei Zhi

2, don't do it with evil small, don't do it with good small. Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei

3. Poems about etiquette

1. "Xunzi Fuguo" Shang Dynasty: Rites are in the country, such as weighing the weight, such as rope ink is in the right.

etiquette is just like a balance used to weigh the weight, a carpenter's black line used to judge the straightness, and compasses and square rulers used to measure squares and circles.

2. The Book of Rites: Xun Zi of Shang Dynasty: Rites are in the right country; balance is in the light; rope ink is in the straight.

regarding ceremony as the most important "Tao" for governing the country is actually the governance of the country by etiquette, just as the balance is used to weigh the weight.

3, "Xunzi Wang Ba" Shang Xunzi: The reason why the ceremony is right in the country is that, for example, the balance is to the weight, and the rope ink is to the straightness.

etiquette and law are used to govern the country, just as scales are used to weigh the weight over the governance of the country, just as scales are used to weigh the weight.

4. A Brief Introduction to Xunzi in Shang Dynasty: Rites are in the right country, such as weighing the weight, as rope ink is in the right.

regarding ceremony as the most important "Tao" for governing the country is actually the governance of the country by etiquette, just as the balance is used to weigh the weight.

5. Xunzi of Shang Dynasty: Husband's courtesy is to the country. Balance is to weight. Rope ink is to the merits.

the basic principles that people must follow in their own affairs. If people lose their foothold, they will surely fall and sink.

Etiquette is a common practice in terms of appearance, appearance, manners, rituals, manners and other aspects in order to respect each other in social communication activities, and it is the same as the recognized code of conduct. Etiquette is a general term for etiquette, politeness, manners and ceremonies.

References: Sogou Encyclopedia-Civilized Etiquette

4. Ancient poems about etiquette, and the discussion on etiquette and instrument

China is a world-famous country of etiquette, and "etiquette" is the outstanding spirit of China traditional culture. Therefore, to explore "etiquette", we should start with the understanding of etiquette in ancient China.

the word "etiquette" consists of "ceremony" and "ceremony". In ancient China, etiquette is often not only a ritual of offering sacrifices to ghosts and gods, but also a code of conduct for people.

(1) Rites "Rites" are very rich in Chinese ancient books, covering almost all the contents of Chinese traditional culture. Some people say that the traditional culture of China is the etiquette culture.

this statement makes sense. Specifically, "ceremony" generally includes the following contents: 1. Ceremony is the foundation of bring peace and stability to the country. "Zuo Zhuan's fifteen years of seclusion" says: "Ceremony, through the country, the country, the people, and the people, will benefit the heirs."

Zuo Zhuan Zhao Gong's Fifteen Years says, "Rites are the great classics of Wang Zhi." "Zuo Zhuan Zhao Gong Twenty-five Years" says: "The husband's ceremony, the classics of heaven, the righteousness of the earth, and the trip of the people are also.

the classics of heaven and earth, but the people actually do it. " "Mandarin Jin Yu" says: "Courtesy is the discipline of the country, and the country cannot end without discipline."

The Advanced Analects of Confucius says, "Courtesy for the country." "Dai Dai Li Ji Ai Gong asked Confucius" said: "The people's actions are great.

There is no way to treat the gods of heaven and earth with indecent assault. There is no way to distinguish the position of the monarch and his subjects, and there is no way to distinguish the relatives of men, women, fathers, sons and brothers, and the friendship of marriage. " "Book of Rites, Temple Rites" says: "Those who are married to the ceremony, therefore, make friends, judge suspects, be different and distinguish between right and wrong.

..... the Tao is prepared for benevolence and righteousness, and indecent assault is impossible. The lesson is correct and vulgar, and the indecent assault is unprepared.

if you argue and argue, you will never be rude. Your majesty, your superiors and subordinates, your father and son, and your brothers, are indelicate.

an official is a scholar, and he is indecent. Ban Chao runs the army, and he is handed over to the official to do the law. It is not good to be indecent and dignified.

it's dishonest to worship shrines, offer sacrifices and offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods. It is a gentleman who respects the festival and gives in with courtesy. "

A Brief Introduction to Xunzi says: "Courtesy is to the right country, as weighing is to the weight, as rope ink is to the merits. An old friend is rude, a thing is rude, and the country is rude and restless. "

The Book of Rites and Rites says: "The ceremony of the late king was also written. Faithfulness is the foundation of courtesy.

righteousness and reason are the words of ceremony. No foundation, no standing, no writing.

those who are courteous are suitable for the weather, the land and wealth, the ghosts and gods, the people's hearts and everything. " From this, we can see that courtesy plays a role in maintaining social order and is the foundation of bring peace and stability to the country.

is a very broad concept including law, morality and ethics in ancient China. 2. Li Tongli "The Book of Rites promotes Ni Yanju" cloud: "Confucius said:' The ceremony is also reasonable.

those who enjoy themselves will be frugal. A gentleman is unreasonable and immobile. "

" Shu "says:" Reason means truth, and those who speak courtesy make everything conform to truth. " "The Book of Rites and the Book of Music" goes: "Those who are courteous are those who are unreasonable."

Guan Zi Xin Shu Shang also says, "A courtesy is justified." Etiquette is reasonable, it has the meaning of reason and reason.

The Yuan Song "Reunion of Children" says: "This child is rude and loves him as much as a darling." In the Yuan Song "Yuhuchun", it was said: "This poor fellow is rude."

"rudeness" here means "unreasonable". "Guang Yun" also says: "Rites, get their own things."

"to get things right" means to know things right. 3. Rites are respect and courtesy to people. The Book of Rites and the Moon Order says, "Encourage the princes, hire celebrities, and be polite to the sages."

The "courtesy" here is interpreted as "respect". "Lu's Spring and Autumn Period, Shen Da Lan and Xia Xian" says: "Therefore, the livestock of the sage master also refuses to love the real person."

here is also the meaning of "respect". Yuan Song "Bamboo Leaf Boat" said: "This scholar is not polite to me."

This scholar doesn't respect me. 4. Rites refer to the gift "The Book of Rites" cloud: "Confucius said:' No words are not connected, no rudeness is not met, and the people are not insulted.

' note' says:' courtesy means loyalty.' "Shu" says: "Gift means money, so money shows your feelings. Without the gift of money, you can't meet each other."

The Book of Rites Miscellaneous Notes says, "Deacons are not polite." "Note" says: "Li, give a drink."

"Li" in the quotation is all about gifts. The former said that when people meet each other, they should all give gifts, and "it's rude not to meet each other".

The latter means that the gift given at the funeral is too heavy to accept. 5. Rites refer to ceremonies and ceremonies. "Rites" originated from sacrifices, which were originally a set of sacrificial ceremonies and later extended to ceremonies and ceremonies held to show respect or show solemnity.

Zhou Li Chun Guan Da Zong Bo mentioned five main ceremonies held by the imperial court at that time: auspicious ceremony, fierce ceremony, military ceremony, guest ceremony and Jia Li, which were generally called "Five Rites", and all of them referred to ritual behavior norms with certain scale, specifications and procedures. As for the folk weddings, funerals, birthday gifts and banquets held by every household to entertain guests, there are also certain scales, specifications and procedures, which are established by convention, mainly manifested in external codes of conduct and have always been called gifts.

here, it is difficult to distinguish between ceremony and instrument. Ceremony is instrument. Strictly speaking, the above five aspects can't cover all the meanings of "ceremony" in ancient China.

Liu Yizhi said: "Therefore, the so-called' ceremony' in ancient China is all-encompassing, and it is not easy to explain its definition in one sentence." Montesquieu, a French enlightenment scholar, seems to have a more popular and profound expression of China's ancient "ceremony". He said, "China people's life is completely guided by ceremony", and "they mix religion, law, customs and etiquette.

all these things are morality, and all these things are morality. The precepts of these four things are the so-called ethics.

The rulers of China succeeded because they strictly observed this ethical code. China people spend their whole youth learning this kind of ethics and ethics, and their whole lives practicing it.

Scholars use it to teach, officials use it to publicize, and all the subtle behaviors in life are included in these ethics, so when people find ways to make them strictly observed, China will be well governed. " Montesquieu observed China culture as a westerner, saying that China people mixed religion, law, customs and etiquette together, which was right.

not only that, but also the system and education are mixed together. "Rite" occupies an extremely important position in traditional culture, and radiates to all aspects of national politics and people's life, which has a far-reaching impact. This is a major feature of China's traditional culture.

(2) in ancient times, the content of "Yi" was also very rich, and it was often the same as "Li".

5. A poem about etiquette

Quli says, "Don't be disrespectful, be thoughtful, and be calm. "An Min zai!

you can't be proud, you can't follow your desires, you can't be full of ambitions, and you can't be happy.

sages respect them, fear them and love them. Love knows its evil, hate its good. Accumulation can disperse, but peace can move. If you have money, you will get it, and if you are in trouble, you will get it. Don't try to win, don't try to score more. Doubts are not qualitative, but straight.

if you are a husband, sit like a corpse and stand like a neat man. Courtesy should be appropriate, and custom should be followed. Therefore, the husband and wife should be intimate, suspicious, different, and clear about right and wrong. Courtesy, don't talk nonsense about people, don't hesitate to pay. Ceremony, not exceeding the festival, not invading and insulting, is not good. Self-cultivation and practice are called good deeds. The quality of the ceremony is also the quality of the speech. Courtesy smells from people, not from people. Learn from courtesy, not from teaching.

morality, benevolence and righteousness, no indecent assault, correct lessons, no indecent assault. Debate and argue, and be indecent. The monarch, the minister, the father, the son and the brother are indelicate. Official scholar, indecent assault. Ban Chao runs the army, and he is handed over to the official to do the law. It is not good to be indecent and dignified. It is dishonest to offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods in a shrine. It is a gentleman's respectful concession to show courtesy. Parrots can talk and stay with birds; Orangutans can talk and stay with animals. Today's people are rude, although they can speak, is it not as good as the heart of an animal? Husband is rude to animals, so father and son get together. It is made by a sage, for the sake of ceremony and teaching people. Make people polite and know themselves from animals.

it's too important to be virtuous, and then it's necessary to repay. Courtesy is reciprocated. If you don't come, you will be indecent; It is also impolite to come and not go. Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. Therefore, the proprietors have to learn. Those who are polite to their husbands feel inferior and respect others. Although the seller is negative, there must be respect, and the situation is rich? If you are rich and know good gifts, you will not be arrogant; If you are poor and know good gifts, you will not be intimidated. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand.

-The Analects of Confucius Ji

A gentleman is kind and courteous: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always respect them.

-Mencius: Mencius Li Lou Xia

reciprocity. If you don't come, you will be indecent; It is also impolite to come and not go.

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6. Poetry about civilized etiquette, about 15 words

Civilization is a flower, a flower with permanent fragrance.

We water with sincerity and nurture with enthusiasm, so that the poems of etiquette will be treasured in each other's hearts forever. Etiquette is a poem, an elegant and clear poem.

We use understanding to melt, and care to comfort, so that the poems of etiquette can be treasured in each other's hearts forever. We are cross-century teenagers, and we should be the spokesmen of the new era civilization.

under the rain, we sow the seeds of civilization; In the sunshine, we dress up the spring in our hearts. Bring a smile to others, and others will give you infinite happiness.

bring warmth to others, and others will give you a bright mood. Bring sincerity to others, and others will miss you deeply.

give others a courtesy, and others will give it to you.